boyfriend number 2

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hello i have a problem i have a boy friend that i adore but for some reason i cant stay faithful to him i have this friend im talkin to and hes doin right but the thing is that at first my boyfriend (1) was 2 at first now i hardly ever see or here from him is it wrong to talk to the other dude and see if it will end up being the same?

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Re: boyfriend number 2

Thank you for posting a bulletin. It sounds like you care for your boyfriend and also have feeling for another person. Relationship can difficult when you feel like it is a struggle to stay faithful to your boyfriend. Do you feel comfortable in discussing your feelings with your boyfriend? It also sounds like your relationship with your boyfriend has changed where you're not able to see each other as much or talking as often. It is understandable that feeling sometimes change too as we grow and mature. Being faithful in a relationship can sometimes be a challenge for many people. We are glad that you reach out for help. Do you feel that it would be helpful to create a list of what you value in a relationship and what you don't want in one?

We understand that you didn’t identify any abuse, but the National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline focuses on relationships. They can discuss how to have and maintain a healthy relationship. You can contact them at 1-866-331-9474 or view their website at: http://www.loveisrespect.org/. They can also do live chat.

We would like to help, although we don’t tell callers what is right or wrong. However, we do discuss options, can provide local resources and just be someone to listen. We are a 24/7 confidential, nonjudgmental crisis line. You are welcome to call here to discuss in more detail about your situation and possible options that you feel will work. We can be reached at 1800RUNAWAY (786-2929). We look forward in talking to you! Best wishes!

Take care,
NRS