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    Im 13 and I feel like Im pregnant. we did it in my last day of period and my boyfriend is 2 years older than me (he's 14 and going to be 15). Its been like a week since we did it and i feel uneasy about my body and i feel unusual and i dont know if im experiencing the symptoms already. Plus what makes it worse is that i dont know if i can tell my parents, because
    1. im 13 and TOO young to have a baby
    2. my mom kinda has a vendetta at my boyfriend for some reason (but he's genuinely a nice guy)
    3. if i told them i would feel like im a shame to the family
    4. i do not live in america and i am not sure if it applies in my country

    i have considered options and i am still puzzled about everything and i feel like my life is falling apart and i am genuinely worried and ashamed
    1. running away (but its unlikely because i am dependent to my parents and its dangerous outside)
    2. abortion (but my parents would know about it and since i am from a religious family and a christian-dominant society, this would be absolutely unapproved)
    3. killing myself (i have attempted doing so before but in different reasons)

    i dont want to be a disappointment to my family, friends and others. I absolutely don't know what to do and I have been trying to detect it as early as i can. But it seems that i cant because i have to wait for my period again to conclude otherwise. i dont want my family to shame my boyfriend too because i think they also have to shame me too because this was taken with consent. i still feel worried about the future too

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