I need your advice, good people!

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Me (26) and my girlfriend (25) have been talking for almost 4 month now. We have met once and spent time together. We don't usually meet because my job is in a different state. She lives with her parents very far in a different state. We mostly talk over the phone and face time. We love each other with all our hearts. It's all about personality! We have great plans for future even to take care of her parents when they get old. Recently her dad found out she was talking to me and called me asked about my legal status because I'm from a foreign country and I am on student visa. My girlfriend said it would be better if I tell her dad that I'm a permanent resident in the US just to avoid more problems (because he might think I just need to get a green card using her, actually for God's sake I don't need that I just love her for God's sake!!) I can even take her to my country!! I told her dad that I'm a permanent resident. Later he found out that I was lying to him. Now he calls me a liar, a terrorist, everything!! I studied all my life since I was 11 I've been independent and I have my masters degree now. Today he prohibited her daughter from talking to me. He doesn't even want to meet me. He said he is gonna kill me or break my bones if I visit them. My girlfriend is about to get her degree in May. She wants to run away with me either to a different state and get married or to my country. We are adults and we are sure about our relationship. Please, friends, give me advice. How can I prove that I'm not a bad person and that my intention is not just getting green card? I can even leave my job in this state and go to her state and live there. Be around her family. Show myself. Prove myself. In short, I will do everything just to keep her! Please, give me advice, good people. God bless you!

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Re: I need your advice, good people!

Hi there,

Thank you for contacting us here at the National Runaway Safeline (NRS). The National Runaway Safeline provides solution-focused crisis intervention, information and referral services to runaway, homeless, and at-risk youth and their families through its 24-hour crisis hotline. Online communications include a live chat program, crisis emails, and a forum. It seems you are in a tough place as we can tell how much you want things to work between you and your girlfriend, however, our services are intended for youth. It may be most helpful for you to reach out for support from family, friends, or possibly a counselor to help navigate through this challenging time. We cannot provide advice because we are a non-directive service. Support is important at this time to help think through ideas and options that ensures safety and wellness among everyone involved.

We wish you luck.

Take care,

NRS