another day another guy

[Guest]

Ok i have contacted you guys before and you helped me out tremendesly and i wanted to thank you for that...but this guy i have dated a couple times wont leave me alone and he is driving me insane...we work together and he just wont stop...he tries to kiss me and hug me when i had broken up with him about a week and a half ago and i have someone who wants me for me....this other guy that wont leave me alone has proven to me that he is just using me.......Now that dont sit right with me he has been buying me stuff trying to prove that he loves me and he isnt using me.....im so confused i might have feelings like "Love Feelings Hardcore" for the guy im with now and i dont know when the right time to tell him and how to tell him and this other guy i dont know how to get him to go away....i just need to get away.....please help

[ccsmod3]

Re: another day another guy

Hi, thanks for contacting us. Have you made it clear to this guy that you are not interested? Once you have and he still won't leave you alone, it could be considered stalking. You could talk to local police about what recourse to take (posibly a restraining order).
Here is another number you could call that may be able to help:National Teen Dating Violence Hotline. 866-331-9474.

Hope that helps

Good luck

NRS

[Guest]

Re: another day another guy

Ok i have made it very clear to the guy....he knows i dont want him but yesterday was a birthday of someone very close to me and he died....and the guy wont stop being such a mean person about it...he makes fun of me...he is mad at me that i wont let one of my bestfriends date him because i think its for her own good...do you think i should let them date? He isnt a good guy......he is a bad influence and he threatened me yesterday.....there is so much drama in this stupid town i NEED TO GET AWAY

[ccsmod3]

Re: another day another guy

How did he threaten you? You can press charges for verbal threats with police. That may help get a restraining order if that is something you are interested in. Sounds like you know how you feel about this guy and are not comfortable with him being around you or your friends. Giving in to him will probably not make things better, it may just embolden him. If he gets threatening or violent, you do have the right to call police.

good luck

NRS