BOYFRIEND GOING TO COURT ND MITE GO TO JAIL

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My boyfriend has court this weekend and im afraid that they are going to send him to jail.i dont know what im going to do if he does get sent to jail i wont be able to handle it i dont want him to get hurt htere or anything. what am i supposed to do? he said that he will call and write me and put me on his visitors list but i wont be able to handle that. looking at my man thru 6inches of glass talking on the phone when i know he is in jail......please please help me im going crazy

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Re: BOYFRIEND GOING TO COURT ND MITE GO TO JAIL

Hey,

Thanks for contacting us. Sounds like you are pretty upset at the fact that he migh go to jail. What happened? Is there someone from home you can talk to about this? Can you get someone to go with you so they can be supportive and be there for you?

You're right, this is a scary thing and most people don't want to deal with it. If he does have to go to jail, what do you think you will do either for him or for yourself?

Best of luck,
-NRS

[Guest]

Re: BOYFRIEND GOING TO COURT ND MITE GO TO JAIL

he was sagging his pants and called a guy a [edited]. he said the most he is going to get is a huge fine but i dont know i dont want him to leave me

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Re: BOYFRIEND GOING TO COURT ND MITE GO TO JAIL

Hi again,

It definitely sounds like you’re really struggling with this. It’s probably frustrating to have no idea what’s going to happen, since it all depends on what happens in court. You mentioned that he said the most he’ll get is a huge fine; this would avoid jail time right? There’s only a couple days left until the weekend, when hopefully you’ll know what the outcome will be. It’s great that you’re trying to figure out ways to cope with this in case he does have to go to jail. It will probably be important to have people there to support you and help you through this if it does happen. Is there anyone in your life you think you can turn to help you through this?

You’re welcome to call us if you ever want to talk to someone about this. We’re here 24/7, so you can call anytime.