I'm 21 years old and I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who is 25 yrs old and he's black & I'm native american and my parents won't let me go visit him. I live in Missouri and he lives in Rochester, NY. I asked last year just before my birthday (before I turned 21) and my mom said no because the plane tickets were to costly at the time and just now I did a lot of price checks and plane tickets are extremely cheap right now. And awhile back my mom said that she doesn't really trust my boyfriend even though he came to visit me twice; first time he stayed in a hotel a few miles down the road, and the second time they trusted him enough to stay at my house in an extra room. So it's really confusing. My boyfriend talked to his friend and his friend's grandma has offered to let me stay at her house as she understands my parents feelings about staying at my boyfriends house which is full of guys, but I know them so it's stupid if my parents think that they're all gonna tie me up and rape me or something stupid like that. And I told them that but then they're like, we don't know them blah blah blah. And me & my boyfriend even said we'd hook my parents up with the grandma on Skype or on a phonecall so they can talk it out, but noooooo. And geez. It's soo confusing. Now that I know that plane tickets are cheap, I feel like I need to go see him like next month because I miss him too much, but I don't even know how the heck to start up a conversation with my parents. I'm 21, so I'm pretty much completely legal, I can do whatever I want really. But at the same time, I don't want to make them mad by just doing whatever I want when I want, because I try to be respectful as I still live under their roof and abide by their rules. And I'm kind of the "good girl" type. I've never done anything bad, never drank, never did drugs or any of that lame stuff, so whats the problemo here? Oh & my mom's annoying friend keeps telling my mom BS stories about how I'm just going to run away or come back pregnant with his baby and I just want to smash her face in for being an ignorant woman. -.-; So any advice on how to ask or convince my parents to let me go see my boyfriend? It's a drag sometimes. T_T
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21 & Parents won't let me visit boyfriend