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    Ill start with the first guy. I met him 5 yrs ago and immediately fell in love. We were both in long standing relationships but continued to speak all the time and see eachother once and awhile. I ended up breaking up with my bf and he was still invoked with his relationship. I saw other people in this time. He soon after ended his relationship however his was a marriage so it was much more involved than mine which was a break up with no legal baggage. So I could understand he needed time. We had always been on an on again off again terms however it never changed how I felt about him. He cheated yes but so did I and we were both young and made mistakes. I'm not much of a person for feelings or believing in the love like you see in movies but with him I feel completely different, I can't explain why because we are so very different people but I was and still am
    Madly in love with him.
    Now back to to point of this. I met the second man, who is wonderful. We have so much in common and get along great. He is very good to me,
    I do love him very much. The only
    Negatative thing I can say about him is that I am not that physically attracted to him as I am the first man. I guess I am writing because I am so torn. I know my boyfriend (the second man) is going to ask me to marry him soon. And I think... What if.. Because I never gave the first guy a real chance, the one I was instantly head over heels for and can still say I am.
    The right thing is to stay with the second
    But my heart yearns for the first
    What do I do, do the right thing or follow my heart?

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    RE: Conflicted between 2 men

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