Why so cold

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I'm 19 years old and I was dating a 30 year old guy.he lied to me about having 2 kids..he was abusive and rude person I ever met.but I still love him we was together for a year and we also lived together.2 months ago we broke up.he came back two weeks ago next ...we cuddle &what not...2days after he left.and came back yesterday flossin/stutin on my face with a car pulling out money.he didn't say a word to me -___- but when he didn't have nothing I was the only one there for him I feed him and supported him in anyway that u could .im heart broken...stressed out I don't know what to do ????

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Re: Why so cold

Thank you so much for reaching out and opening up to us about what is going on. Relationships are not always easy and it sounds like this one has been especially hard on you. You mentioned that you were dating someone and while there obviously must have been reasons you loved him, it also sounds like he could be very abusive and hurtful to you. Even if you may know that he is not the one for you and you deserve better it doesn’t mean that all of those other feelings are just going to go away. You mentioned that you are heartbroken and stressed out. It’s completely understandable that you are feeling this way and it’s hard because there is no magic cure for going through this. It sounds like you may realize deep down that you ex is not the person that you deserve. Anyone who truly loves you is not going to treat you in the ways that you described in your bulletin. While you may be realizing some of these things it may take some time to really be able to get over everything and move on. Is there anyone that is supporting you during this time? Anyone that you have been able to talk with? We want you to know that if you would like to talk with someone or just need a listening ear there is always someone available at the National Runaway Switchboard. You can reach us 24 hours a day at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929). We also have an online live chat that is available through our website from 4:30p to 11:30p CST. All of our services are completely confidential and anonymous. While we are non-directive and not here to give you advice or tell you what to do there is always someone available to provide support, discuss options, and even find resources in your area if needed. Please feel free to reach out to us anytime. There is always someone here for you. Take care.