i wanna see my girl friend

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i wanna see my girl friend but my mom and dad wont let me get a car to see her then they made a joke about it and i was and still am super mad and i want to run away and it's 6 hr to here house so what should i do i want to run away

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Thank you for reaching out and telling us your story. It was very brave of you to do that and hopefully, we can try to provide you with some resources and options.

It sounds like you want to see your girlfriend but your parents won’t allow you to. You also said that after you asked to get a car, they made a joke about it. Can you tell us what that was? We are sorry to hear that your parent’s aren’t very supportive of your relationship. It seems like you and your girlfriend really care about each other. What is your relationship with your parents like? How about the relationship with your girlfriend?

You said that you wanted to run away after this happened. Do you know where you may go? Here at the National Runaway Switchboard, we wouldn’t be able to tell you what you should or shouldn’t do but we can discuss options with you. If you were to leave home, what do you think your parents would say or do? One thing that may happen is if they were to contact the local police and file a runaway report. It’s not illegal to runaway but it is considered a status offense; a status offense is something that you can’t do because you are a minor. If your parents were to file a report and the police located you, they would probably contact your parents to let them know and then make arrangements to return you home.

If you were to leave home, you can also go to our website for a list of things to consider before leaving home (http://www.1800runaway.org/youth/nrs_can_help/). After looking at the list, you can give us a call to further talk about things and see what other options you may have. We are a confidential and anonymous hotline that is available 24 hours a day at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929). We also have online chat that is available from 4:30 PM-11:30 PM (CST), 7 days a week. You can find the chat on our website also (http://www.1800runaway.org).

We look forward to hearing from you and wish you the best of luck.

~NRS

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yes i was thinking about going to my girl friends house but i just found out she cheated on me i want to die but don't worry im not going to kill myself i just hate that she waited to tell me right when i am have stuff like this going on

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Thank you for getting back to us and keeping us updated on what is going on. We are sorry to hear that your girlfriend cheated on it during this difficult time. It sounds like that is very upsetting for you. Have you told your parents or anyone else about what is going on?

Please remember, we are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through live chat from 4:30 PM-11:30 PM (CST), 7 days a week. If you would like to talk more about what is going on and see what resources may be available to you in your area, give us a call.

We wish you the best of luck and look forward to hearing from you.

~NRS

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no i have not told any one we are trying to work this out but she said she needs time to think so lets hope she picks me over that guy but i think its good for me to talk on here it has calmed me down a lot

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Thank you for getting back to us. We are glad to hear that you have begun to feel better after talking with us.

It sounds like you and your girlfriend are going to try figuring things out. What was your relationship with her like before all of this happened? Do you know much about the guy that she cheated on you with?

Again, we are glad to hear that you and your girlfriend are going to try working things out. How have things been with your parents the last few days? Please give us a call if you would like to discuss what options you may have available to you.

~NRS

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yeah i know who the guy is and i hate him and my girl friend dated him for 2 years before she met me and before me she had a boy friend for 4 days but then she met me and broke up with him and she had sex with her boy friend of 2 years Friday but i think i can be alright with that but she said she needs to think about who she wants two date but i think she should pick me he used to hit her and then one time shot her in the face with a air soft gun and all i do is do nice things for her but i don't know what to do about this and i am not mad at my mom or dad any more i could not care what they want i am almost 18 and then they can't tell me what to do and me and my girl friend or what ever she is we still text every day and talk every day she said that we can still hang out like that but she said she needs time to think about what she has done and what she is going to do and that guy is lucky that i promised my girl friend i would not hurt him before she told me what she did and he is also lucky i don't brake promises

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Re: i wanna see my girl friend

It sounds like you’ve been going through a tough time lately. It seems like you and your girlfriend have been having some issues, because she is trying to decide between you and another guy. It sounds like you really care about your girlfriend, and want the best for her. How long have you two been seeing each other? You mentioned that the other guy is not nice to her and once even shot her in the face. Did she talk to the police about that incident, and has anything like that ever happened again?

It seems like you are pretty upset with the guy. You said that you still talk to your girlfriend every day and she needs time to think about what she’s done. You might want to consider waiting a bit to see what she decides. Have you thought about talking to her about the situation? Another option you might want to think about is talking to someone you trust about the situation. It’s understandable you would be frustrated with what’s going on. We are available 24/7 if you would like to call us at our number 1-800-RUNAWAY.

-NRS

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no he did not shoot her with a real gun a air soft gun it shoots plastic bbs and she said she still wants to talk

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Re: I wanna see my girlfriend

Hi,
It sounds like you have a lot of stuff to think about with all that has happened between you and your girlfriend. If you're interested in talking about things like relationship issues, or forums like that you may want to visit www.sexetc.org. You may find some useful information on there as well as some people to talk to.
We do want to help you as much as possible but unfortunately our bulletin boards are not meant for ongoing conversations. We are available by chat from 4:30-11:30pm CST every day, and of course always by phone at 1-800-RUNAWAY.
We hope that you will be able to figure things out and we are always here if you need help.
Best of luck to you,
NRS

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Don't go there

I don't feel you should rely on this girl to be yours and only yours. I made that mistake more than once and it does not work. You sound to me like a real nice guy with a good head on your shoulders. The way way you handled the the problem with the other guy. Do not blame him , he cannot do anything with her that she does not want him to. I have found that most girls who cheat and are undecided will cheat again. You need to find a nice girl who will respect you and your feelings and care about you and you only. If you waste your time on her you will miss out on someone who you can connect with and trust. Big word with a lot of meaning. Think hard and look deep inside of yourself. Can you really forget and forgive her for cheating on you. That is not always easy especially if the guy is still around. And last but differently not least ????? Can you trust her with your heart. I say from experience it is the hardest thing to do forget,forgive and trust. May you make the right decision and live a happy life.

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re: Don't go there

We would like to thank you for visiting the bulletin boards and responding.

~NRS