13 and pregnant?

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RE: 13 pregnant scared

Hello, thank you so much for reaching out to us. It sounds like you are worried that you might be pregnant, and what steps to take if you are. It was very brave of you to ask for help in such a personal matter.
It sounds like you are planning to take a pregnancy test. That sounds like a good idea to take a test, but just so you know, it will not be accurate until you have gotten or missed your period.
You mentioned that you had sex without protection. If you would like information about condoms and other forms of birth control and S.T.D prevention, a good resource is the website sexetc.org. They also have lots of information about health and pregnancy. It sounds like you are having some difficulties in your relationship with the guy you have been talking to. Another really good resource for teens to get info about healthy relationships is www.loveisrespect.org.
It sounds like you want to keep the baby if it turns out that you are pregnant. If you are comfortable discussing the possibility of this, you may want to tell a trusted adult in your life, such as a school counselor or your parents/legal guardians. It is also good that you trusted your friends enough to tell them about your situation.
At the National Runaway Safeline, we can explore some other options if you choose to call us, including helping you to talk to your family if the test is positive. Again, the fact that you reached out and asked for help makes you a very strong person. If you would like to discuss this further, please to not hesitate to call or chat with us. We are here to listen and help.

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13 and maybe pregnant

Okay I need some help, my best friends little sister could be pregnant and I'm the only one that knows. What should I do? I'm taking her to a walk in clinic but do you think I should tell anyone? I honestly don't know what to do...

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Re: 13 and pregnant?

Hi There,
Thanks for contacting us here at NRS. That means a lot that you took the initiative to be supportive of your friends little sister, that’s really great of you. It sounds like you guys are in a tough and confusing situation. It must be difficult to try and think about all of this at your age. Has the little sister talked to anybody about what happened or what could be going on? Talking to somebody and having a good support system in a situation like this can be very helpful. It is great that she has you and her sister to go to, and you should be proud of yourself for being able to be there for her and be so supportive. Another reason it could be a good idea to try and talk to somebody about what’s going on is the possibility that if she is in fact pregnant, she will want to talk about future plans with somebody. A pregnancy can be a very emotional time and trying to figure out what she wants to do can be very stressful, having as many people supporting her, especially a trusted adult, can help a lot.
It sounds like you are trying to help in the best way possible by being supportive of her and taking her to the clinic. The decision to tell anybody else is ultimately up to her. If you feel that you want to talk some more about it, feel free to use our live chat forum or call us. We are more than happy to talk things out with you and provide you with any resource needed. On the topic of resources, we have a couple now that may be helpful if you have any questions. The first is a Planned Parenthood. Their number is (800)230-7526. They have other resources available to you other than just abortion or pregnancy clinics. They could be able to provide you with resources or information in your area. The next resource is a website you could look up, it is called sexetc.org. If you go to their sex in the states page of their website, you can look up information according to each state separately. It is great that you took the initiative to contact us, you should be proud of yourself for that. It sounds like you are trying to help your friend’s sister the best you can. If you need anything at all, feel free to contact us again.
Best of luck,
NRS

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I'm 13 but I think in pregnant.

I had sex with my boyfriend without any protection. I'm so scared and I have no clue what to do. If I tell my best friend shell think I'm a s***. I've been having all the signs and it is getting really hard to go to school and pretend like nothing is wrong help and I have been feeling really ill lately . I don't want to bring my parents into this because they will constantly moan at me. Please help

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RE: I'm 13 but I think in pregnant.

Hello there –

Thank you for taking the time and reaching out to us here at the National Runaway Safeline here on our public forum. After reading through your post, it sounds like you are very concerned that you might be pregnant after having sex with your boyfriend. It’s unfortunate that you feel that your best friend would think that you’re a s***. It seems like not being able to talk to anyone about what has been going on has caused you to become very overwhelmed with your thoughts. Do you think that there is anyone else that you can go an talk to (i.e a close relative, teacher, school counselor, etc)? It might be a good idea to just talk to someone about what has been going on. Just know that we are always here to listen and talk to you about what has been going on.

So you have stated that you think that you might be pregnant because you had unprotected sex with your boyfriend. Now a few things, we aren’t health experts here so we can’t tell you if you are or aren’t pregnant. Since you are 13 years old, the question of whether or not you’ve had you period already or if you were currently on your period when you had sex. Having your period means that your body is releasing eggs to be fertilized by sperm. If you haven’t had your period yet, then there are no eggs to be fertilized. If you were on your period at the time, then there may still be a chance that you aren’t pregnant. The best way to find out more would be to take a pregnancy test to be sure, go to a clinic to get tested, or you can even get into contact with an organization like Planned Parenthood. You can talk to them more about your options and what your next steps might be. You can reach them at 800.230.7526 for those questions.

If there is anything you ever need please reach out to us. We are here for you 24/7 at our toll free hotline. We also have a live chat that is open every day from 4:30pm-11:30pm CST.

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Re: 13 and pregnant?

Hi I'm 13 and my bf is 14 we've been having sex for a while now sometimes we use protection and sometimes not. Well we recently had sex about 5 days ago and right after we had sex the next I notice that when I wipe myself I see some Light pink/red blood but only a little bit of it and it stops and then it comes back but it only last a day or two then its gone and then it comes back weird right then I've been having gasses and im worried I might be pregnant I had already told my bf that I might be and at first he wanted me to get an abortion if I am but I told him that getting a abortion was out of the question because I could never bring myself to do that or give it up for adoption as I was because yeah I'm adopted my aunt and uncle adopted me but anyways I have no way of getting ahold of a pregnancy test and im really scared that I might be pregnant like I had my whole life planned out and yeah I get im young and stupid and I should deal with the consequences but its just scary to think about all of it at ounce and I cant go to my mom who is my aunt because she would never understand because she never listens to me and the dirt thing she's going to do is criticize me and make me feel worse and I already feel u see me and my mom/aunt dont really have a good relationship with each other because we been having issues ever since my dad /uncle left us like she puts all anger on me but I'm not going to go into full detail I just need help on what to do

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Re: 13 and pregnant?

Hi I'm 13 and my bf is 14 we've been having sex for a while now sometimes we use protection and sometimes not. Well we recently had sex about 5 days ago and right after we had sex the next I notice that when I wipe myself I see some Light pink/red blood but only a little bit of it and it stops and then it comes back but it only last a day or two then its gone and then it comes back weird right then I've been having gasses and im worried I might be pregnant I had already told my bf that I might be and at first he wanted me to get an abortion if I am but I told him that getting a abortion was out of the question because I could never bring myself to do that or give it up for adoption as I was because yeah I'm adopted my aunt and uncle adopted me but anyways I have no way of getting ahold of a pregnancy test and im really scared that I might be pregnant like I had my whole life planned out and yeah I get im young and stupid and I should deal with the consequences but its just scary to think about all of it at ounce and I cant go to my mom who is my aunt because she would never understand because she never listens to me and the first thing she's going to do is criticize me and make me feel worse than I already feel u see me and my mom/aunt dont really have a good relationship with each other because we been having issues ever since my dad /uncle left us like she puts all anger on me but I'm not going to go into full detail I just need help on what to do and if I actually am pregnant

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Re: 13 and pregnant?

Hi I'm 13 and my bf is 14 we've been having sex for a while now sometimes we use protection and sometimes not. Well we recently had sex about 5 days ago and right after we had sex the next I notice that when I wipe myself I see some Light pink/red blood but only a little bit of it and it stops and then it comes back but it only last a day or two then its gone and then it comes back weird right then I've been having gasses and im worried I might be pregnant I had already told my bf that I might be and at first he wanted me to get an abortion if I am but I told him that getting a abortion was out of the question because I could never bring myself to do that or give it up for adoption as I was because yeah I'm adopted my aunt and uncle adopted me but anyways I have no way of getting ahold of a pregnancy test and im really scared that I might be pregnant like I had my whole life planned out and yeah I get im young and stupid and I should deal with the consequences but its just scary to think about all of it at ounce and I cant go to my mom who is my aunt because she would never understand because she never listens to me and the first thing she's going to do is criticize me and make me feel worse than I already feel u see me and my mom/aunt dont really have a good relationship with each other because we been having issues ever since my dad /uncle left us like she puts all anger on me but I'm not going to go into full detail I just need help on what to do and if I actually am pregnant I might be considering on running away I dont know please help me

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RE: 13 and pregnant?

Hello!
Thank you for reaching out NRS to help with your situation. It takes a lot of courage to reach out and talk about these types of issues, and we are glad you did. It sounds very scary to not know what is going on with your body and the uncertainty of being pregnant. It also seems as though you feel your mom/aunt will get upset with you because your relationship isn’t as strong as you hoped it could be. There are always options to help out with these sort of situations and one place that may be able to answer a lot of your questions is the Emergency Contraception Hotline, 1(88668-2528. This is a hotline that handles specific situations such as yours. You can also call Planned Parenthood at 1(800)230-7526. Both of these hotlines may be helpful to find local places in your area to get a pregnancy test. You can always reach out to NRS to talk about this issue or anything else you need. We are available and here to help 24/7 and are completely confidential. We hope to hear from you soon, and remember you can call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY if you ever need a safe space to talk.

Good Luck,
NRS

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13 and pregnant

I don't know if I'm pregnant. And I'm 13 this "guy" that I had sexual intercourse with is 17 and we no longer speak to each other we've had sexual intercourse twice. Both times he said he pulled out and that he "came" all over his stomach. We weren't using a condom and I don't know what to do. Help?

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RE: 13 and Pregnant

Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are going through so much and it is great that you are trying to get the help that you may need. You are very strong for having gone through so much already. We want you to know that you are not alone in this. We are here to listen and help as best as we can. You mentioned that you were not sure if you are pregnant. You could possibly take a pregnancy test to confirm this. You can also try to use the resources available at Planned Parenthood by calling 1800-426-5678. Once you are sure you are pregnant then you can begin to consider your options and begin to create a plan as to what you would like to do moving further. Dealing with something like this can be scary and overwhelming. Remember you can always call us at 1800-RUNAWAY to help with this process.

Best Wishes,
NRS

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Am I pregnant

So me and my boyfriend both 13 had sex 2 times both for like 2 minutes and he did not cum in me and I wanted to know if I can become pregnant cause I am starting to get cramps now and I am really scared and don't know if I can please help!!

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re: Am I pregnant?

Hi,

You sound like you and your boyfriend have been involved in some sexual activity and you are now wondering if you are pregnant. We aren't doctors here so we can't tell whether or not you're really pregnant. From what you shared, it does not sound like it since you have cramps. That is usually a sign of getting a period, which you can't have if you're pregnant. If you want to know for sure, you should try to go to the doctor or possibly get a home pregnancy test to try. That is likely the only ways you can be sure or not.

Best,
NRS

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Am I pregnant

So me and my boyfriend both 13 had sex 2 times both for like 2 minutes and he did not cum in me and I wanted to know if I can become pregnant cause I am starting to get cramps now and I am really scared and don't know if I can please help!!

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Re: 13 and pregnant?

Hello again,

We hope you seen our response above. Thanks and good luck!