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Ok, well there is this boy that I really like and he flists with me,always trying so hard to make me laugh,stands up for me sometimes and well pretty much acts like he likes me but whenever i ask him he goes no only as a friend but when I ask his friends AND my friends If this boy like me they are like ya sooo much! I am having troubles to find out if he has a crush on me or not HELP
Thank you for contacting the National Runaway Switchboard. It sounds like you're having kind of a tough time figuring out if this boy you know likes you more than just a friend. You mentioned being confused because you think from the way he acts it shows he may like you more than just a friend, but when you ask him he says no. It sounds like you have asked him about how he feels about you, but have you told him how you feel about him? Do you think it would help if you talked to him about how you are feeling? Relationships, whether they are friendships or more, are not always easy. I'm glad to hear that you have been able to talk to friends about this situation, because it sounds like it might be frustrating at times. If you ever wanted to talk about this situation more you could always give us a call here at 1-800-RUNAWAY. We are a completely confidential hotline and here 24 hours a day. We aren't really here to give advice, but we are always here to listen and go through some options that might be helpful. I wish you the best of luck with everything and give us a call if you need to.
Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.
Thank you for contacting the National Runaway Switchboard. It sounds like you're having kind of a tough time figuring out if this boy you know likes you more than just a friend. You mentioned being confused because you think from the way he acts it shows he may like you more than just a friend, but when you ask him he says no. It sounds like you have asked him about how he feels about you, but have you told him how you feel about him? Do you think it would help if you talked to him about how you are feeling? Relationships, whether they are friendships or more, are not always easy. I'm glad to hear that you have been able to talk to friends about this situation, because it sounds like it might be frustrating at times. If you ever wanted to talk about this situation more you could always give us a call here at 1-800-RUNAWAY. We are a completely confidential hotline and here 24 hours a day. We aren't really here to give advice, but we are always here to listen and go through some options that might be helpful. I wish you the best of luck with everything and give us a call if you need to.
Well I already told him how I feel about him and he was fine with it but now my friend who is his ex-girlfriend is mad at me for liking him since she isn't over him it is getting really frustrating and all I want to do is find out if he likes me or not!
So, it sounds like you just want to know if he likes you or not...you don't really want to be in a relationship with him, correct?
Why is it important to know if he likes you? Do you think your friend (his ex) will understand your reasons? Do you get why she is so upset about it?
If you can, call in and we can keep talking about details and figure out with other options are available for you to explore with your relationships. We're here 24/7 at 1800.RUNAWAY. Best of luck.
-NRS
Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.
ummm i do want to be in a relationship with him and it turns out that my friend isn't mad at me!
anyway I did find out that he does like me back but now I am having troubles asking him out!!!
Originally posted by ccsmod5
So, it sounds like you just want to know if he likes you or not...you don't really want to be in a relationship with him, correct?
Why is it important to know if he likes you? Do you think your friend (his ex) will understand your reasons? Do you get why she is so upset about it?
If you can, call in and we can keep talking about details and figure out with other options are available for you to explore with your relationships. We're here 24/7 at 1800.RUNAWAY. Best of luck.
Relationships can be difficult to figure out sometimes. You mentioned your concern now is actually asking him out. It would be nice if there was one way to ask someone out and get the outcome you want, but of course there isn't. Do you have friends you can turn to for help or suggestions? Maybe friends that have been through a similar situation before?
Of course, if you need to talk through how you're feeling and options you're welcome to give us a call. Our hotline is always available, 1-800-RUNAWAY. Best of Luck.
Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.
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