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  • ccsmod15
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    It sounds like you are interested in emancipation. We are not legal experts, but we can help you get a general sense of how emancipation works. Our general understanding is some states offer formal emancipation statutes while others do not unfortunately. As far as we know you may not need any parent permission or you may need both because laws vary depending on your location. But in many states a minor can petition the court for emancipation to take responsibility for their own care before they turn 18. Generally speaking, courts are wary about granting emancipation. In most cases, you would have to prove in court that you have an income and can care for yourself financially, and that you are able to live separately from your parents. It also helps to be in good standing at school. The court will also factor in the mental and physical welfare of your parents in order to establish your best interest. Usually your legal guardian would have to agree to this in court. Once you are emancipated, you can legally choose where you live, but you might still find that you cannot sign a lease or build credit until you turn 18. The emancipation process can take several months or up to a year, and may cost money in the form of court fees and other expenses. Usually, the best way to learn about emancipation in your state is to contact a lawyer. You may also find information at your county family court. We can look up legal aid resources that may be able to help you with the process. Please do not hesitate to call or chat if you have questions, need legal resources, or need to talk. We can explore your situation, go over all your options, and come up with a plan and resources to deal with your situation over the phone or on live chat. We are looking forward to hearing from you soon, and wish you the best of luck.

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    Guest replied
    Is it possible to get emancipated if one biological parent agrees to it and the other does not? If so how does that work?

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
    While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home but its unlikely you would be put straight into juvie. Usually greater consequences are reserved for chronically runaway or out of control youth. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.
    We are not legal experts, but we can help you get a general sense of how emancipation works. Our general understanding is some states offer formal emancipation statutes while others do not unfortunately. Laws vary depending on your location, but in many states a minor can petition the court for emancipation to take responsibility for their own care before they turn 18. Generally speaking, courts are wary about granting emancipation. In most cases, you would have to prove in court that you have an income and can care for yourself financially, and that you are able to live separately from your parents. It also helps to be in good standing at school. The court will also factor in the mental and physical welfare of your parents in order to establish your best interest. Usually your legal guardian would have to agree to this in court. Once you are emancipated, you can legally choose where you live, but you might still find that you cannot sign a lease or build credit until you turn 18. The emancipation process can take several months or up to a year, and may cost money in the form of court fees and other expenses. Usually, the best way to learn about emancipation in your state is to contact a lawyer.
    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hey, im 16 and I want to get emancipated ill try to keep this short and sweet. I live with my biological father and my step mother my biological mother has been out of the picture since I was around 10. However, I had been in contact with her recently and I told her about the emancipation and she agreed to it but my father on the other hand does not agree with it. I have been thinking about emancipation for approximately 3 months now and im positive I wanna go through with it, it truly is what's best for me and my happiness. Im mature and responsible enough to take care of myself now looking back at my childhood you would understand why I have to be as mature as I am now growing up I lived with my biological mother and my siblings we always moved place to place and we had lived in section 8 at one point my mother was never home and it wasn't for work purposes she could never keep a job for a long period of time so that left me taking care of my younger siblings. I thought that moving with my biological father would be better and it was for a period of time we were not moving place to place I have food to eat and clothes on my back but most of the things I own are the things I had bought for myself I don't ask my parents for anything id rather get it myself growing up how I did I never got anything handed to me like other kids so I always have had to work for what I wanted. Not to mention I have a great paying job as well so financially I can take care of myself. Everything was good until I started growing up more my biological father and my step mother say "I have an attitude" but how can I have an attitude if Im always in my room? my father also made me stop going to work he took my phone away and threatened to make my life hell shortly after that I had found an old phone and I used it to contact a family member I asked if I could stay with her until I had got my own apartment and I get emancipated she agreed with it my father found out before I could tell him about it and called the cops and told them I was trying to run away which wasn't the case at all well the cops weren't any help either the cop and my father both had said I either had to stay in this household or go to juvenile. I don't know what to do. My parents wont let me leave or get emancipated accept my biological mother they don't let me go anywhere or do anything I cant even have friends I can't do things normal kids should be able to do I feel trapped. My step mother has kids of her own and my father treats them very differently other family members have said the same thing on multiple occasions. How am I supposed to get emancipated if my father called the cops and said I was trying to run away, I can't leave or go anywhere, my father took my phone so I cannot contact anyone? I need help figuring out what to do

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,

    Thanks for reaching out to us and sharing a little bit about what's going on. We are sorry to hear your mom is making you shoulder so much responsibility at home and is verbally abusive. Just so you know, you could file a report on the verbal abuse if you wish. You can do that through your state's child abuse reporting hotline, through us, or through www.childhelp.org (1-800-422-4453). You certainly don't deserve to be abused in any way.

    You bring up the topic of emancipation. As you may already know, emancipation requires going through the court system and usually involves proving to the court you can take care of yourself independently from your parents/guardians. Each state's emancipation laws are different, however. We can't really say one way or the other regarding how pregnancy might affect emancipation. The best thing to do to get more information about what the process is like in your state would be to contact a lawyer. You can usually ask a few legal questions at no charge. If you'd like further assistance we can provide you with some legal aid organization numbers in your state. All you'd need to do (for both the resources or to talk to us generally) is call our 24 confidential hotline at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chat with us via the chat feature found at the top of our website: www.1800runaway.org.

    All the best,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Im 16 and i want to get emancipated. My mother is outof it i look after the house and my sibling but shes still verbally abusive. I have a reason why i dont wang to be here but she wont let me get a job so i cant prove that i can be financuallg stable while livingwith her. I would stay with my boyfriend of 3 years and his parents. Would pregnancy help or hurt my case and how would i go aboit emancipation if i cant get a job here .nw

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  • ccsmod3
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    Hey there.

    Thanks for reaching out to us here at NRS. We know that it can take a lot of courage to reach out for support, and we're glad you took that step. It sounds like you've really been a big help to your mom, stepfather, and siblings, and we're sorry to hear that things are starting to feel increasingly difficult for you in that environment.

    If you're considering the emancipation process, it's important to be aware of what that process looks like and entails. You don't necessarily *have* to have your parent's permission to do it, but you do have to be able to show that you have cause to pursue it. Generally speaking, you also need to be able to show that you're mature, can financially (and otherwise) take care of yourself, and that you have a plan moving forward. In most states the age to start the emancipation process is 16. If it's something that you want to learn more about, consider consulting with an attorney or speaking with your school counselor to see if they can give you any guidance. You can also reach out to NRS for more information on emancipation in your state as well.

    And if you're open to considering other options, it may be helpful to try and have a conversation with your mom and stepfather that's facilitated by someone else, like a close family friend, your school counselor, or a therapist. You mentioned not being able to have the most productive conversations with them when you do try, so bringing someone else into the mix might allow you to feel more supported, and to help progress that conversation.

    If you'd like to chat in more detail about what's going on, please feel free to reach out to us directly by calling 1-800-RUNAWAY, or by chatting with us live at www.1800runway.org. We're available 24/7 and are always happy to listen, and to help.

    Take care!

    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hey, I’m 15 and will be 16 by August if this year and I was thinking that as soon as I turn 16 I would like to be emancipated. I live with my siblings, mother, and step father. My biological father has been out of the picture since before I can remember. When I was young I lived in a town with my family near my grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins it was the happiest time of my life. At one point I was homeless and lived with my parents and sister in a hotel for a couple of months, but through that whole time I never complained. Around the time I turned 12 I had moved away from my grandparents and my cousins and lived with my parents and siblings fare away. My family and I ended up moving to my step fathers sisters apartment. It was very crowded. My parents slept in a room with me and my sister. I had to share a bet with her, then she got bigger and their wants room for me so I had to sleep on the couch in the living room for a long time. Shortly after that time my mom had a son, which made it more crowded. They ended up taking the room for themselves and making me and my 2 siblings share a fold out couch to sleep on together. This was all during a time where I was getting older and becoming and teenager and gong through puberty which was very hard for me, but I but my lip and dealt with it. We eventually got beds for are selves but we are still out in the living room and now I’m 15 gonna be 16 soon. I have other family, that would take me in so I can have my own space and can focus on my studies but they won’t let me leave. I feel so trapped, it honestly takes me courage to try and tell them how I feel but in the end they brush it off like it means nothing because I’m still a child. But they give me all these responsibilities and expect me to act like an adult but still belittle me and treat me like a child. They have alway gave me empty promises and had never lived up to them and I’m sick of it. Now they are saying that they are saving up for a 3 bedroom house but instead of giving me my own room so I can have my space away from them and my siblings that are 4 and 2 they are gonna use that room for a freaking game room for my step father because he likes to game! Like what the heck is that. My step father hasn’t worked in years he literally just sit his but in his room playing video games all day. I am always overwhelmed with everything I have to do, I make them food clean after them give them showers put them to bed, wash the dishes, sweep, vacuum, to their laundry, get them ready for school, get their lunches ready for school. Like what kinda sibling does this? This is a parents job, then I tell them how much I do and they say that’s what an older sibling is suppose to do! Any normal parents would give their older child their own room if they could who is growing and going through puberty and has done so much for them, but no that’s not how they see it! Plus I have always been surrounded by their toxic energy. There always screaming and yelling, and arguing and they eventually put their negative energy onto me because of their problems and it’s very overwhelming and hard to deal with. Somehow they always end up blaming me for their mistakes. If something goes wrong then they always come to the conclusion that it’s my fault and that I should’ve done something. They get more made because they think that I have changed but I really have only released hoe toxic they are and how they only use my for their own gain. But yea I’m sick of this never ending cycle with them and I need to change that. I know they won’t let me get emancipated from them, but if I do it will be a lot better for me. I don’t need them to survive they need me. So what can I do?

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,
    Thanks for reaching out to us at the National Runway Safeline. We are sorry to hear things have been difficult at home, and we are glad you contacted us for help.
    It sounds like things are very hard right now between you and Mom. You are interested in emancipation, but unsure if you will be able to be emancipated. We are not legal experts here at NRS. Generally, we understand that emancipation is a long and involved process and in some cases can necessitate parental consent or a youth’s ability to show financial independence. If you are interested in learning about emancipation statutes in your state, we encourage you to reach out to us at any time at 1-800-RUN-AWAY. We can look these up. Furthermore, we may be able to provide you with a number for legal aid services for youth in your area. Talking to a legal expert about the matter may help you to better understand if emancipation is right for you.
    We hope that you found this helpful. We encourage you to reach out to us if you need something more. We are always available to listen, to help. Stay safe out there.
    Sincerely,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I will be 17 in a couple of days and want to file for emancipation, only thing is my mom hasn't let me get a job so I can't say I'm financially able to provide for myself. And it's most likely I won't get my mom's permission to get emancipated. Will the judge still allow me to get emancipated because everyday I go home I want to runaway again but I don't because I don't want to continue getting in trouble.Also, I know if I do take my mom to court she will try everything in her power to persuade the judge I can't live on my own.

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hi there, thanks for reaching out today. Sounds like you are really going through it living with your mom after living with your grandparents so long. It's understandable that you preferred that peaceful environment to the tensions at home with your mom. The arguing and your mom's lifestyle along with being far away from your supports seems really hard to deal with.

    It is true that if you are unable to make income, emancipation might not be an option for you unfortunately. Ohio also has limited emancipation laws, so it would be harder for you to petition the court for emancipation there from the start. You might reach out to your local court or to a legal expert to see if emancipation is possible in your local jurisdiction.

    The easiest way you could live is with your mom giving you permission or if she gives someone temporary custody of you. It sounds like your mom can be difficult to talk to with all the arguing, so you might try to include your grandparents are any support adults who can help talk to your mom for you in on that conversation.

    You've mentioned that your mom drinks and smokes, if her drinking has made it so she cannot provide for your basic needs, you do have the right to report any neglect or abuse to child protective services. If you are interested in this option, please do not hesitate to call or chat us or Child Help at www.childhelp.org so you can be more informed about what could happen if you do report.

    Please know that we are here to support you during this difficult time. You can always call or chat us to talk through your situation more, and receive some support: 1-800-RUNAWAY; www.1800runaway.org.

    Best of luck,

    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I am 16 and I want to be emancipated, for the past 8 years I have been living with my grandparents due to my parents not being able to care for me as a child. my mother just got custody here recently but she’s in my opinion not fit to care for a minor. My grandparents and my mother live in different states so when she got custody I had to move. living with my mother as a small child wasn’t exactly the best household for a child. Lots of drinking, my parents constantly fighting and drug use, which is why I was placed with my grandparents. my grandparents has several health problems so as a child I had to learn to care for myself as I would as an adult clean, cook etc. my grandmother is disabled and uses a walker due to her inability to walk, I did most things a child wouldnt know how to do. when her other grandkids would come I would babysit make them their lunch and make sure everything was okay. my mother on the other hand didn’t really come around she called here and there but didn’t really make no effort to be in my life so when she up and decided she wanted custody after the fact I’m older didn’t really sit well with me. Me and her don’t get along very well, we have different views on things. living with my grandparents it was peaceful they didn’t fight nor did they smoke or drink. I liked living that lifestyle. but now living with my mother I’m living that terror I lived as a child. she still drinks a lot and likes to argue about literally anything. since I lived in Alabama with my grandparents and now I live in ohio with my mother I have no family up here that I can stay with because they only family I have up here is exactly like her. My family up here is always in some sort of trouble weather it be with the law or family issues. living with my grandparent wasn’t exactly the life either I didn’t get to do most things children would do I had to stay home and care for them. Growing into the young adult I am now I didn’t get to go do the things most teenager would do living with my grandparents. either way living with my mother or my grandparents wasn’t exactly the best for my life in my opinion. I feel I am old enough to make decent decisions for myself because I became mature at a young age due to having to do adult things as a child. I’ve done a lot of research on emancipation and I really think this is a good chance to get moving on with my life. But the thing is I am not financially stable to live by myself because my mother won’t let me get a job let alone let me get my license. So I don’t know what to do. i have a close family member that would let me move in with them in Alabama but I would have to be emancipated first, I also have a really close friend who’s mother said I could move in if I needed to while I get my job and work on getting my life together. they have offered to help me. I just don’t know if I could be petitioned by the court to be emancipated since I don’t have a way at the moment to financially support myself.

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,

    Thank you so much for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, it takes great courage to reach out and we are so glad that you decided to reach out to us.
    First of all we want to say that you do not deserve to be neglected or verbally abused and we are sorry you are going through that. You do have a right to make a report and there are a few ways you can go about making a report. One option would be to talk with a school counselor, because they are mandated reporters they would be required to make a report. Even if school is virtual right now they would be able to meet with you virtually. You can also call Child Help at 1800-422-4453 and they would be able to help with making a report. You can also call or chat with us online and we can help you make a report as well. You can decide what you think would be the best option for you.
    It is understandable that you would want to become emancipated. To find out more about the procedure you can call your local court house and they would be able to help you further. You can also call us and we can provide resources based on your location. It varies case by case if you would need parental permission but your parents would be notified if you file for emancipation. Also keep in mind the process can be lengthy and can cost money.
    We hope that this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore more options please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and provide support. Best of luck!
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    As silly as this sounds, Im a minor, under 16, and my mother is very neglectful of me. She doesn't accept me and verbally abuses me as well. Calling me crazy or stupid and using religion against me. I currently live in Texas and want to be emancipated as soon as I turn 16, but I dont know how or what to do. Or the procedures I have to go through. I also know she won't allow me to get emancipated. I dont have a plan as of yet but Im figuring it out. I do have friends in California that might accept me. My mom disproves of most decisions i made and although she says that Im smart and can be better, she never wants to accept me for who i am, whether the problem be my sexuality or the fact that I dont believe in the same religion as her. She forces me to be someone I dont want to be and I just want to be on my own. My question is if I can be emancipated without her consent or do I just have to wait until Im an adult.

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  • ccsmod3
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
    While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.
    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    Be safe,
    NRS
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