16 Running away how can i enroll myself in school

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Hey there. Thanks for reaching out to us here at NRS. We know that it can take a lot of courage to reach out for support, and we're glad you took that step. It sounds like you've been having a tough time lately, and we're sorry to hear about your pop. It makes sense that you're feeling stressed and down a lot with everything that you're going through, though it's definitely important to pay attention to those feelings as well. If you continue to feel that way, it might be a good idea to try and talk with someone you can trust and open up to, like a therapist or social worker. They have the tools and resources to help you work through some of what you're experiencing, and you might find that you start to feel a little better with that support in place.

In terms of switching schools, it's generally not something you can do without permission from your parents. While there are ways to make school accessible for everyone and that sometimes allows minors to enroll themselves, doing so is for minors who are homeless or don't have a stable home. It doesn't sound like this applies to you, so figuring out how to work through your frustrations with your current school or another way to switch schools with parental consent are probably your primary options here. Again, talking to a therapist or social worker might be helpful to you in this situation as well. It's clear that you're feeling unsupported, and talking to a professional is a great way to find that support you're looking for. If you'd like to chat more or for us to try and find a local therapist for you, please feel free to reach out to us by phone at 1-800-RUNAWAY or by chat at www.1800runaway.org. We're available 24/7 and are always happy to listen, and to help. You can also reach out to your school social worker or counselor as well.

Take care.

NRS

Hi I am q 16 yr old girl and 17 in December
I realy want to move schools but my parents won't alow me I'm struggling alot at this school and was thinking if I moved I could restart make new friends start of fresh I recently lost my pop and it hits me hard I'm stressed and feel very down alot and unenergetic but i realy wanna go to school the school ive been going to is usless the teachers don't help the students there don't listen and i have no saport i tried explaining it to my parents but it's not working they still want me going there but in my mind why should i go to a school I don't feel comftorble in so what I was wondering is am I aloud to enrol myself into a diffrent high school without parent permission .

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Hey there. Thanks for reaching out to us here at NRS. We know that it can take a lot of courage to reach out for support, and we're glad you took that step. It sounds like you're having a tough time with your current situation, which is causing you to think more about running away. Being happy is definitely important, and so is going to school at your age. We commend you for setting those goals for yourself and doing what you can to ensure you make them happen. Because you're in counseling, it might be a good idea to chat with your counselor about how you're feeling. Generally speaking, mental health professionals have a lot of tools to help their clients work toward their happiness. They can also help advocate for you if you're not currently in school but want to be, which seems important to you.

With a lot of your focus being on getting enrolled in school, it's important for you to know that if you live in the US, there is something called the McKinney-Vento Act, which makes it highly likely for you to be able to re-enroll in a new school without some of the documentation you might be required to have if a legal guardian were enrolling you, or some of the strict timelines required to enroll in school. No matter what, you deserve an education, and that's what McKinney-Vento Act strives to ensure. You can learn more about it here: https://nche.ed.gov/mckinney-vento/

If you'd like to chat over your specific situation in more detail, please feel free to reach out to us by calling 1-800-RUNAWAY or by chatting with us live at 1800runaway.org. We're available 24/7 and are always happy to listen, and to help.

Take care.

NRS

Hi I am 15 I'll be 16 next month and I want to run away to Kentucky. Living here I take antidepressants and I am in cousling. I need to be happy. I want to go to school. I will have a place to stay my issue is would I enroll myself into school? Or get an adult who is older than me. I want to be happy again. What do I do

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Thanks for contacting the National Runaway Safeline,
We aprreciate that you chose to ask us for help. From what it sounds like you dont
want to live at home but also know that mom has made a runaway report with the
police. Some things to keep in mind are that because you are 16 you are considered
a minor and so your parents have a right to have you home.However that does not mean
you cant run away. That isnt illegal or anything. YOu can try to speak with your
school about the McKinney Vento Act that allows homesless youth to fininsh high
school. There is no guarantee that they wont call your parent about where youre at
but it would be the best option if you wish to stay away from your parents.

We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.

Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

Be safe,
NRS

I’m 16 years old , my mom might have put a runaway file on me but I don’t want to live with her no more how do I enroll myself in school with out the police knowing

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Hey there,

Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. It sounds like your boyfriend is in a tough situation and it's so great that you are able to advocate for him. The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA). Our knowledge of helpful community based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis related laws is limited to the USA. It may be a good idea to reach out to a Canadian organization like Kids Help Phone by going to https://kidshelpphone.ca/.

We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country.

Be safe,
NRS

Hi, I'm 17 and going into University this fall. My boyfriend is 15 and turns 16 in November. He grows up in an abusive family that treats him with neglect and forces him to sometime not go to school for a whole week to take car of his 2 year old brother because they don't like getting Nannys. He is trying to move out as soon as he turns 16. His brother couldn't wait until May (when he turns 16) so he ran away and is hiding out in his girlfriend's home until he's at the right age where the authorities can't legally force him to stay with his parents. We are discussing the possibility of my boyfriend moving straight in with me in my apartment at my University in Ottawa instead of going to a group home. He's going to do a 13th year at school so he doesn't have to wait till February, when the semester ends, to still pass his classes. We're wondering though on whether you'd be able to apply to a high school by yourself at 16 in that short of an amount of time or if we'd need a signature of a Parent or Guardian.

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Hi there,

Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY. As far as school it can be difficult enrolling with out your legal guardians. You can try to contact the school and explain the situation and see what they suggest.

Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best

i’m 16 and i left my dads house who lives in oregon, he molested me. he has full custody. i can enroll into school by myself but i’m scared he will find me. he made a runaway report. i’m currently in washington.

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Hey there,

Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.

Some important things you should consider is where you will stay, how you will support yourself and how you will get around. In regard to you enrolling, no you would not be able to enroll yourself as a minor. There is also a chance they could call the cops and have them return you home.

We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.

Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

Be safe,
NRS

Hello, I am a 14 girl that's planning on running away in a couple months. My question is as a 14 year old, how can I enroll myself in to school!? Will they tell my parents where I'm at!? Will they rapport me to the cops!? Hopefully y'all answer fast!!! Thank you!

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Hi,
We’re really glad that you have reached out to us. It sounds like you are in a really tough situation. It’s very brave of you to reach out for help. It sounds like you are having a difficult time at home and we want to do our best to help support you in finding a safe option. If you feel like you are being abused you can reach out to ChildHelp (National Child Abuse Hotline) at 1-800-799-7233 or their website childhelp.org. If you are feeling unsafe and need to somewhere safe to go, you can reach out to National Safe Place by texting 44357 and saying SAFE and your location. Again, we want to help support you during this difficult time. If you would like to talk through different options or want more resources in your area, we are available to talk or chat 24/7.
In order for us to best support you, we recommend that you call us at 1-800-786-2929 or use our chat service from our website www.18000runaway.org. Once again, we are a confidential, 24 hour crisis hotline and are here to support you.
Take care,
NRS

hi im 16 and im miserable in my home and scared for my well being. I decided i want to run away, i have no idea what or how i can make this work and i dont want to end up homeless because of this, is there any type of program or way i can leave home and get help with getting a place to stay, a secure job, and schooling, or any advice to do this myself. I dont have any options.

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Hey there,

Thanks so much for reaching out to us, we know it takes a lot of courage to share your story. Since you are considered a legal adult you should be able to enroll yourself in school with no issues. Additionally, you may qualify for educational assistance under the McKinney-Vento Act. If you qualify, this act would guarantee you the right to stay in your original school and be provided transportation to and from school (to the extent possible), enrollment in a school in your area, receive free school meals and to receive services like educational supports and basic needs. To find out more about how to take advantage of the McKinney-Vento act we suggest calling your school directly.

If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

All the best,
NRS