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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,

    You mentioned wanting to know how you can leave home before turning 18. The easiest way to leave home is with your parent’s permission. We understand that might be challenging, however, maybe there’s another family member, relative, or a family friend who could help to communicate how you’re feeling to your parents. The second way is through Child Protective Services if safety is a concern. Lastly, you can also look into emancipation options. In most states you need to be at least 16 to be considered and demonstrate that you can support yourself financially and independently. Emancipation often can be a lengthy process and may even cost some money for court fees. We would be happy to look into legal resources if that’s something you are considering.

    Please reach out soon so that we may offer support and resources to you. Our number is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929).

    Be safe,

    NRS

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    Guest replied
    hi i am a 15 year old boy and i want to move out and live with a freind can i do that with out my parets pulling me out of the house and bringing me home

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  • ccsmod7
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    Thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you definitely have a lot on your plate and your parents are not supporting you as much as they should through this high-stress period of your life. You do not deserve to always feel down as a result of your dad’s behavior.

    You mention that you want to move out and get your own place once your baby is born. Emancipation is an option that may be worth exploring. Depending on your state, you can petition with the court to live on your own with proof that you are able to live independently and support yourself. Also, you mainly mention your dad and his hurtful behavior. Is your mom supportive? We are wondering if she could be a safe person for you to go to/stay with. Furthermore, you say that your dad has a short temper and may not be trustworthy around your baby. Has your dad every gotten physical with you or displayed any abusive behavior? If so, that is definitely never okay, and may be worth following an abuse report. Please do not hesitate to give us a call to talk about your situation further at 1-800-786-2929. We would love to talk to you more and try to help.

    Once again, thank you for taking the time to reach out. It takes a lot to and you deserve a lot of credit. We see that you are trying to figure out your options and would love to help further if you would like to give us a call in the future. We are here to listen and here to help.

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    Hi, I’m 15 and I’m pregnant and want to move out or get my own place once my baby is born. I don’t get along with my dad at all he’s always making me feel down and he has a short temper and would not want him to be around my baby. I don’t trust my parents around my baby at all. What should I do?

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi,
    Thank you for reaching out. We are glad that you did. We are sorry that you had to go through a childhood that was your adulthood. That sounds incredibly hard and we are glad that you survived it. We wouldn’t be able to give you information on how or whether to run away. We can listen to you about your situation and help you determine your options. We are dedicated to helping keep youth safe and off the streets.
    As far as threatening the police; if your parents filed a runaway report, and you came into contact with the police, you can tell them that you are not safe at home. We don’t view you and what you are going through as selfish. You deserve to be safe and supported in your home. We want you to do you in a way that is safe. We would be happy to discuss this further and help you with the options that you have and help you make a safety plan for whatever it is that you decide to do.
    You can reach us by phone at 1-800-786-2929 (1-800-runaway) or with live chat through our website, 1800runaway.org Either way, we would be able to talk together to help you discover your options.

    We hope this helps
    NRS

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    Hello, I just need the information on how to move out within a weekend, I have a friend to move in with but my parents are threatening cops but I got some dirt under my nails for them if they try. I'm a 15-year-old female and my childhood was my adulthood. I'm fed up and sick of this world, I'm just doing me now. Selfish or not. Any opinions would be great fr fr

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  • ccsmod6
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    Thanks so much for reaching out to NRS. We’re sorry to hear you’ve had to deal this. No one deserves to be treated that way.
    We’re not legal experts, but until you’re 18, your parents are required to provide you with shelter (a safe place to stay). So it’s not legal for parents to kick their kids out of the house. Please know that you have the right to report this to the authorities at any time by telling a teacher at school, calling the police or calling Child Help at 1-800-422-4453. They are an anonymous hotline that can help answer your questions or make a report.
    We’re not legal experts, but as your legal guardians, your parents are financially responsible for you – that means providing you with housing, clothes, food, healthcare and other basic needs. If they are not providing those things, you or your aunt can either report that to the authorities, or your aunt can contact a family law attorney. You or she is welcome to give NRS a call at 1-800-786-2929 and we can find low-cost or free legal aid resources in your area.
    It shows a lot of maturity that you are thinking through your next move and doing your research. We are here for you 24/7 at NRS if you’d like to talk more.

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    Guest replied
    I’m 14 and my parents call me rude names and kick me out all the time so this time I’m going to live with my aunt, does my mom have to pay for my living?

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Well im 15 and my mom hates my guts. She is verbally and physically abusive to the point where she repeatedly says im gonna kill u and i hate you. She also hits me with anything including bars bamboo sticks and cords. It got to the point where her and her husband broke my right hand and left welps and bruises on my back and arms and legs. I didnt go to gym class for weeks fearing that someone would see. i feel horrible not being able to feel safe in my own house. Im ready to leave but i am on probation but i have a place to go to. What do i do

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  • ccsmod15
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    Thank you for reaching out to us. We want you to know that we believe you and are here to listen and to help you. Your situation sounds very stressful, especially when they don’t believe you. It’s also really hard and confusing when they want you out, but won’t let you leave. You have been very brave – brave for reaching out and asking for help, and brave for surviving this, even if your situation is causing you to have suicidal thoughts. We want you to know that you matter to us and that your life matters to us.
    Unfortunately there isn’t a loophole involving the information you gave us, but each situation is unique and complex and if you can reach out to us, we can help you discover the options that you do have. You can also reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255

    You can also talk to us about what you are feeling and going through. We hope that you can reach out either via our telephone hotline, 1-800-runaway (1-800-786-2929) or through our live chat though the website 1800runaway.org So that we can talk about what you are going through. We are here for you, to listen and help.

    We wish you the best.
    Sincerely,
    NRS

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    Hi i’m a 15 year old male and for the past few years since we’ve moved i’ve been suffering with depression. I try my hardest to interact and show appreciation to my family but I can’t do it anymore. No matter what I do they can’t stand it. They said they are at the point where they can’t stand me and want me out. They say i’m faking my depression and they have been tearing my confidence down everyday to the point where I am exhausted everyday. I have no more energy and now they are telling me that i’m making myself sad. I’ve talked to them about possibly moving out with a family member or maybe even a friend but they won’t let me. I honestly think the only reason they keep me here is to clean and do their work. They say they want me out but won’t let me leave. I need to leave. I told them that when i’m 16 i’m leaving to go stay with a friend in California since it’s legal but they said they’re going to stop me. I have no freedom here. I have ten more months until i’m 16 and I don’t think I can last. I’ve been having suicidal thoughts for a while but I can’t bring it up because they always shut me down. Is there any loophole in this where I can legally leave and they can’t make me come back?

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi and thanks for posting here. It sounds like things are really difficult at home and are taking quite a toll on you, given how your parents have been reacting to your pain and hurting yourself. We are glad you reached out!
    You mentioned hurting yourself. There is a website twloha.com that has resources, information and blog posts written by people who have been there. You can also always reach out to the National Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255, suicidepreventionlifeline.org for support 24/7 as well.
    NAMI also has a texting crisis line at 741-741 for additional support. We here at NRS care about your safety and our hotline (1-800-786-2929) and our live chat through this website are also open 24/7 so feel free to reach out anytime!

    You mentioned your parents have been unsupportive of you and you do not have any other extended family. We are glad your friend's parents are helpful. We do offer conference calling with parents to make sure you feel heard and to advocate for you on the phone. You know your situation best, so if you think this will be helpful, feel free to call us anytime. Sometimes having an outsider can be helpful. Perhaps your friend's parents could help talk to yours too.

    We also have many resources in our database for different services: shelters, counseling, community centers. If you are interested in more resources, feel free to call or live chat us and we can help you directly!

    You have shown a lot of strength in reaching out today. Be safe and contact us again anytime!

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    I've been living a nightmare. My parents don't care about what i do to myself. I've hurt myself and they've just seemed embarrassed of me, they did not offer me help or anything, they didn't care. My parents are always yelling and freaking out on me, i try to be the kid they want but nothing is ever good enough for them. One time i spilled icecream in the freezer and my dad freaked out on me. My freinds see that my parents treat me like ******** too, i just really need to get out of this place beacuse my parents cause me stress and have given me anger issues that at this point i can't control anymore. I tried talking to them about it but my mom denied everything and was telling me that im the bad kid and if they would have had me first then they wouldn't have had my sister. They dont ever try help me they dont really care about me. i really need to move out i can handle the heart aching pain anymore. Please help me im 15 so im trying everything that would help me move out. I have no family members to live with because they dont have that much money to support me. My bestfriends parent's treat me so well, they act more like a real parent towards me. Please respond back i really need help as soon as possible please and thank you.

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,

    You mentioned wanting to know how you can leave home before turning 18. The easiest way to leave home is with your guardian’s permission. We understand that might be challenging, however, maybe there’s another family member, relative, or a family friend who could help to communicate how you’re feeling to your guardians. The second way is through Child Protective Services if safety is a concern. Lastly, you can also look into emancipation options. In most states you need to be at least 16 to be considered and demonstrate that you can support yourself financially and independently. Emancipation often can be a lengthy process and may even cost some money for court fees. We would be happy to look into legal resources if that’s something you are considering.

    Please reach out soon so that we may offer support and resources to you. Our number is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929).

    Be safe,

    NRS
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