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  • #76
    I wanna move because it’s toxic,
    Dont get me wrong I love my mom and step dad but I hate being stressed with always babysitting my younger siblings and my dog plus I have school now which makes kit time for gaming and going out with friends my mom always yells at me for having an attitude but never asks me why I have one or how I feel I always get yelled at if they do the little mess and I just feel like ******** about it and on top of that I feel sad all the time and I’ve been getting more and more suicidal but I’m fine it’s whatever. No one knows how I truly feel .

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    • ccsmod1
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      Hey there,

      Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. It must be really hard to live in a home with so much tension. You mentioned that you having been getting increasingly suicidal and it raises some concern for your safety. We can help you find resources that can help you cope with these feelings. You do not have to face this alone, and there is so much help out there for you. If you are thinking about hurting yourself, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline could be a good resource for you. You can check them out at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/, or you can call 1-800-273-8255 for help and support any time. If you’d like some additional support, an organization that may be helpful is the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI). You can contact them by calling 1-800-950-NAMI or you can text them by sending NAMI to 741741.

      It seems like your mom and stepdad don't fully realize how all of these responsibilities (and the tree that comes with them) are making you feel. It could be a good idea to work with a local family counselor or have a conversation mediated by a school counselor/social worker, trusted friend, or family member to help clear the air. If you'd like, you can also call us directly and we can conduct a conference call with your family so you have a safe environment where you can express yourself.

      If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

      Stay safe,
      NRS

      We'd love to hear from you about your experience using our crisis forum. Your feedback plays an important role in helping us improve our services to support youth and families. Please click the link below to fill out our survey: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/we_care_what_you_think

  • #77
    I don’t want to be in my house no more because I don’t like the way I’m being spoken to and they way my parents get on I only live with my mum but when my dad drinks with my mum I get brought into every argument and I get slabbered behind my back

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    • ccsmod15
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      Hi,
      Thanks for reaching out to the National Runaway Safeline. We are sorry to hear things have been so difficult at home.
      It sounds like you are not being treated very well by your parents, and that their drinking is affecting your home life and wellbeing. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.
      Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website at 1800runawy.org or call us at 1-800-RUN AWAY. We hope to hear from you soon.
      Sincerely,
      NRS

  • #78
    I'm 14 and I want to get out of my house because I hate my mom and my sister

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    • ccsmod7
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      Hi there,

      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. Sounds like things are ovewhelming with your mom and sister right now, and you are feeling like you need to leave. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. If you call or chat us we can talk through your situation with you, help brainstorm you options, and look for local resources such as youth shelters if you need.

      Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org.

      We hope to hear from you soon.

      Be safe,

      NRS

  • #79
    Hi I'm 14
    and I would like to move out with my brother we're working on getting a lawyer but the reasons we want to move out is because well my parents are separated so I live with my dad most of the time and my step mom and both my sisters with my brother but I get forced to go to my moms when I'm not happy there we have a relationship which is not well we fight and argue a lot and sometimes it gets to the point of physical and verbal abuse and tends to get the cops involved, which then gets my dad stressed and gets mad at me for it and then my siblings hear about it and call me out for it. I just wanna get away from it all cause they cause rumours and then everyone hates me for it and thinks that I'm the "bad kid" I just wanna move out so I can live on Munich own focus on my own and my mental health without getting made fun of or beat I feel so alone most of the time the only person I can talk to is my brother and dog, And yes I've had multiple therapists and counsellors and it doesn't end very well so I just hope I can live on my own with my brother.

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    • ccsmod1
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      Hey there,

      Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA). Our knowledge of helpful community based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis related laws is limited to the USA. If you are located in a country outside of the USA, you can use this link to find a youth helpline in or around your country: https://www.childhelplineinternation...pline-network/.

      We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country.

      Be safe,
      NRS

  • #80
    i’m 14 and i wanted to move out for 2-3 years now and my mom wont let me and she thinks that i should stay with my family and my room is the cause of my depression, and my dad never talks to me and when i try to all he does it say “worry about your self, not anyone else.” and i’m sick of living in this house, i feel more alive when i’m out and with my friends. in my house i just feel targeted

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    • ccsmod15
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      Hello –

      Thank you for contacting us here at the National Runaway Safeline. We understand that it takes great courage to reach out. We are so sorry to hear about the way you have been treated at home, you deserve to be more supported by your parents.

      One of the services we offer as an organization is our conference call service. This conference call service is a moderated conversation between you, a member of the NRS, and your parents. In this conversation you set the guidelines and goals in order to have a productive conversation that can improve your conditions at home.

      The best way to discuss your situation further and how we can be of assistance is either by calling in to our 24 hour crisis hotline (1-800-786-2929) or utilizing our online chat.

      Best Wishes

      ~NRS

  • #81
    I’m 15 and my brother hits me he has pushed me to the ground and he has left bruises on my arms. My parents just yell at him and don’t punish him so he does it over and over but if I try to fight back I get in trouble. He has pushed me into walls and after I got back up he would do it again. I’m really scared to tell anyone and I don’t know what to do.

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    • ccsmod15
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      We're sorry to hear your brother is mistreating you and your parents aren't taking it seriously enough. That must be frustrating and you certainly don't deserve to be neglected like that. One option would be to file an abuse report about what's going on through your state's child abuse reporting hotline. You can also file through us or through Child Help (www.childhelp.org) at 1-800-422-4453. A report would likely lead to an investigation as to what's going on and how the situation can be rectified.

      Another option would be to tell someone else you trust in your life about what's going on. Perhaps that's a teacher, counselor, or another relative. Perhaps they could advocate for you to make your case to your parents that this is not a good situation and your rights to safety are being abused by your brother. This takes courage, but the more you are able to open up about the situation to others who can help, the more likely things can change for the better. You have this courage inside you, please know that!

      If you'd like to talk to us about this to brainstorm other ideas or just walk through how these options might go you can call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY or chat with us via our website: www.1800runaway.org. We are here 24/7 and are confidential.

      Things can get better. Please get whatever help you need. All the best to you!

      NRS
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