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Thank you for reaching out to here at National Runaway Safeline. We are glad you you did. We are happy to answer any questions that you might have. We encourage you to reach out to us by phone at 1800RUNAWAY or texting us through the chat options here on the website. We are available 24/7 to discuss whatever you need help with. We hope to hear from you soon.
Sincerely,
NRS
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Guest repliedheyy i got question im 17 fina be 18 and 3 more months
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Hi there,
Thank you for reaching out to us here at the National Runaway Safeline (NRS), we are so glad that you did. It sounds like you are dealing with a really stressful situation at home, between your mom and her boyfriend's substance abuse and your living in fear that her boyfriend might harm your mom, your sister or you. We understand how scary this situation can be and your eagerness to run away.
Running away might sound like your only option at the moment, but it can be a very scary and isolating process. We work best with people if we can have a conversation with them, so we can better understand the situation and explore options or create a safety plan together. We urge you to reach out via chat through this website, or on our phone hotline at 1-800-RUNAWAY. We are here to help 24/7 and we really hope to hear from you very soon.
Sincerely,
NRS
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Guest repliedHi I'm 14 years old and my mom and her bf smoke weed and drink all day they yell at me and call me out my name if I was to run away would that be wrong because I don't feel safe at home they forces me to clean up afther them and he has put his hands on me multiple times when I was younger I watched him beat on my mom he is felony but when CPS comes around she makes my lil sister lie to them for they wouldn't take us but I don't wanna stay here no more
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Hi there, thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you are wanting to go back to live with your grandparents because of the abuse you are experiencing. You do not deserve to be treated this way. If you are interested, you can report the abuse to child protective services and they may intervene to help get you to a safer place. Running away is what’s called a status offense, meaning it is only illegal because you are a minor. In Alabama, the age of majority is 19, so anything under 19 is when it would be considered a status offense to run away. An option would be to talk with your grandparents about how you are currently being treated and see if they can help with getting you to go back to them, like with talking to your mom.
If you would like to discuss this more with us, please call our hotline 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chat us online at 1800runaway.org. We hope to hear from you soon.
Be safe,
NRS
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so i recently moved in with my mom in alabama but i used to live in mississippi with my grandparents and i want to go back to mississippi because my mom and step dad are mentaly abusive and hes threw me on the table and had a fight with me and threaten to knock my tetth out of my mouth and threaten to throw me through a wall and i want to go back to mississippi. if i run away can i be charged with anything if i run away at 17
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Thank you for reaching out to us at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We are happy to help you and provide you with support during this time.
It is our understanding that if you run away as a 17 year old, you would be considered a minor and therefore, you could be reported as a runaway. The police may look for you if you are reported as a runaway. Your parole officer likely has more updated information on this topic.
If you would like more resources to answer any other questions you might have, don’t hesitate to reach out to us over chat through our website (www.1800runaway.org) or over the phone through our 24 hour hotline (1-800-RUNAWAY).
Thank you again for reaching out to us. We are here 24/7 and have someone available to talk.
Best,
NRS
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Guest repliedI'm 17 but will be 18 next month my PO (probation officer) said that if you runaway at 17+ the police won't look for you is this true?
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Hello,
Thank you for reaching out to NRS. It sounds like your boyfriend is in a really difficult situation and he’s lucky to have someone like you.
If your boyfriend leaves home to come to stay with you then his parents would have the option to file a runaway report, but it sounds like they might not be doing that as they are telling him to leave. The other legal complication would be that your guardian could be charged with harboring a runaway, even if his parents don’t file that report. Since he would be crossing state lines it’s very hard to say how the legal consequences would play out. We are not legal experts here so unfortunately, we can’t really be more specific.
We encourage you to reach out to us over call (1-800-786-2929) or chat (https://www.1800runaway.org/) so we can provide more detailed assistance.
Take care,
NRS
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Guest repliedMy boyfriend is 17 living in the state of Florida but has been dealing with physical, mental, and emotional abuse by both parents of his household. Neither parents are his biological parents as he was adopted. His dad told him today that he needed to get his mental illness together or leave the house this week and he's wanting to come stay with me. I live in Alabama. Would this cause trouble for me, my guardian or him?
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We're glad you're reaching out for support and thinking through what the right choice is for you. In the state of Alabama, the age of majority (the age at which you are legally allowed to live on your own) is 19. Which means that if you do choose to run away and stay elsewhere, your mom would be able to file a runaway report, and law enforcement would investigate places it's likely you would be (friend's, extended family, etc.). In our experience, it is often the case that the police will bring you back to your mom's, even if it isn't the 'right' place for you to be. Whomever you are staying with could also be charged with harboring a runaway, which is a misdemeanor they could pay a fine or serve jail time for potentially.
It sounds like you've been experiencing emotional abuse from your mom for a long time, and are ready to be away from it. It's absolutely valid to feel that way, and sometimes running away is the choice that works for people. We just want you to take whatever action you take safely, and to plan ahead for what might happen after.
It sounds like your home environment has been really stressful. If you want someone to talk to about what's been going on, for support or to vent, we're here 24/7 to live chat (1800runaway.org) or talk on the phone (1-800-RUNAWAY). You could also try NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness helpline (1-800-950-NAMI or nami.org) if you feel like you want to make more time and space for your own mental health. You are worth it, and don't have to be in this experience alone.
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Guest repliedI am a 17 year old and my mother is extremely emotionally abusive. I only have 9 months left to go until I am 18 but I don't know if I can hang on for that long. I want to run away and live with other people but I don't want to be taken back to my mother, because it will be 10 times worse for me. I am also worried that the people I stay with could get in trouble if my mom were to call the cops, which she said she would do if I did run. I live in Alabama but the people I could stay with live in different states. If the cops either don't look for me or don't find me, would I be free? Would the cops check my social medias to try and track me down?
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Hi there,
Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there are some things that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on what could possibly happen.
While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.
We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail, please call or chat soon.
Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
We hope to hear from you soon!
Be safe and well,
NRS
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Guest repliedhello, im 17 and in partial custody of the state in AL. (dhr) but my grandmother was recently given partial custodial rights as far as medical requirements and other needs. if i were to leave without her consent to live with someone else, what would be done if she were to contact authorities as in dhr or police department, reporting me missing?!
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Hello,
Thanks for reaching out to the National Runaway Safeline. We are here to listen and help as best as we can. It sounds like you are going through a really tough time not having your youth home. They are lucky to have someone that cares so much about them.
One of the first options that can be important to explore is contacting your local law enforcement to file a runaway report. Any youth who is living somewhere without the permission of a legal guardian can be reported as a runaway. We are not legal experts here, but typically it is not illegal to runaway or leave home without permission. However, if a runaway report is filed, police that encounter a runaway youth will work to return them home when found. The local police department's non-emergency line will be able to provide more information regarding making the report.
During a time like this, it can be important to remember your own self-care. Taking care of yourself and feeling heard can make an overwhelming situation more manageable. You can always call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY to talk or find additional resources.
Take care,
NRS
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