Relationships

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Ok I’m only 15 about to turn 16 november 21st my gf is 15 turns 16 in January. Me and my gf sent pictures a while back and instead of deleting them I didn’t well some how someone got the pictures and posted them on hers and my Instagram accounts well I told her to delete it bc I thought she posted it long story short her parents thinks it’s me and won’t let us have any contact with each other we’re not allowed to talk but me and her talk on Snapchat behind her parents back. Her mom said once she turns 18 she can talk to me because she’s an adult but until the she’s not allowed to talk to me. How do I go with me and her getting back together or what I love her she loves me what do we do and how do we see each other is it legal or is it illegal for us to talk and also is it legal or illegal for her mom not to let us talk. I don’t know what I’m gonna do I love her so much and she loves me and I just want to know how do we go about seeing each other and talking

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Hi there,
You ask some great questions. First, we are very sorry to hear about the complicated situation you are in. It sounds like you are being accused of something that you didn’t do, which must really feel unfair. That’s tough to deal with, for sure.
We are here to support you in any way we can, but unfortunately we cannot give advice about legal matters. One thing you can do is give us a call and we can provide a number to a resource in your state that might be able to answer your legal questions more definitively.
Of course, even if it is technically legal for you and your girlfriend to talk, it still is a tough situation to have her parents disapprove of your relationship. Perhaps their feelings about you and her will change over time. Or maybe she can explain to them that it wasn’t you who put the photos on Instagram. It’s a tough balance between respecting her parent’s wishes and advocating for yourself and your girlfriend. Perhaps talking through things with us might help you figure out other things you can do for your situation. We are here 24/7 and are totally confidential. Our number is 1-800-RUNAWAY. We hope to hear from you soon!
Good luck to you and your girlfriend. Please stay safe!
NRS