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    Hello I’m am of 17 years old and am planning on running away before I kill myself, but I don’t know if they can file a report still

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  • ccsmod4
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    Reply: Running away has been on and off my mind.

    Hello,
    Thank you for writing to us here at the National Runaway Safeline.

    We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you are frustrated with the relationship between you and your sister. Sometimes the conflict may become so upsetting you just want a time out. You did as good job reaching out today.
    We can assist you with trying to first locate a youth crisis shelter in your area and then contacting them with you via conference call to get more information about their services.

    We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.

    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    We look forward to hearing from you soon.

    Take care,
    NRS

    We hope this response was helpful! We’d love to hear from you about your experience using our crisis email/forum. Your feedback plays an important role in helping us improve our services to youth and families. Please click the link to fill out our survey: Your Opinion Matters to Us

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    Running away has been on and off my mind. I don't live in a bad place or anything, but the arguments between my sister and I get so bad that I want to leave. Knowing that running away where I live is a status offense, but I was owonderin if I went to a shelter it would be okay.

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  • ccsmod5
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    Hi,
    It takes a lot of strength to share your story and ask for help, so we’re so glad you reached out to the National Runaway Safeline.

    We’re sorry to hear that you don’t feel safe at home. No one should have to feel that way. If you feel comfortable you could discuss your mom’s behavior with a trusted adult, like a teacher, family member, or friend. Furthermore, you could also file an abuse report, which could decrease the probability of you being forced to go back home if the police found you (though we are not legal experts). Fore more information, you can call Child Help at 1-800-422-4453. If you were to runaway, your mom could file a runaway report, so the police would have to bring you back home if they found you. However, they do not typically actively look for runaway youth. Furthermore, running away is only a status offence. In terms of places you could go, other family members and friends are certainly options, but they could get in trouble for harboring a runaway if the police found out. However, once again the police will probably not be actively looking for you. Shelters are also options, which we can help you find if you would like to give us a call at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also text SAFE and your zip code to 44357 to find safe places to stay in your area.

    Thanks again for reaching out to the National Runaway Safeline. Feel free to chat or call us any time. We are always here to listen and help.

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    hello im 15 turning 16 and my mom has been mean to me the last 3 years she says im gonna grow up like my dad when I do something wrong which he is in prison for my raping my sister so ever science I was younger I felt like she hasn't been as fair to me rather than my other siblings and she wants to send me away even after I get better about talking back to her and not doing things im not supposed too. the first time I do something wrong she says she still wants to send me to JVC or Boystown and she is always drinking and even comes after me and trys to hit me so I figure that if I just wait till im 18 to go to collage and move out but its to hard I barley feel safe at my house so if I was to run away because I don't feel safe here were could I go and not be chased because I refuse to go back home when i leave if she yells at me anymore. and is it illegal to run away from my mother at 15.

    So I live in Iowa and I am 15 and if I was run away for a week or so because I don't feel safe at home if I was to stay at a friends for awhile what would happen and if I just say I was in the woods how would they now your was at a friends house.?
    Last edited by ccsmod5; 04-10-2019, 11:49 AM.

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  • ccsmod6
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    Thank you for reaching out to us. It’s not always easy to ask for help, and we’re glad you did.
    You definitely deserve to feel safe in your own home, and you deserve to not fear being hurt. If you are ever in immediate danger, please call 911 to keep yourself safe.
    There are people out there who can help you, if you are being abused or are afraid of being abused. The National Child Abuse Hotline is one such organization; you can call them 24 hours a day at 1-800-422-4453, or you can find their website at childhelp.org. You can also always call us any time at 1-800-RUNAWAY, or chat with us at www.1800runaway.org.
    If you are feeling depressed and you need someone to talk with, you might want to try talking with your school counselor. You can also call the National Alliance on Mental Illness; they can be reached at 1-800-950-NAMI, or by texting NAMI to 741741.
    If you want to talk in greater depth about your situation, please don’t hesitate to call or chat us. We are available 24/7, and can help you work through your situation, or to discuss available options and resources. Thank you for reaching out, and best of luck.

    Take care,
    NRS

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    im 15 and im scared to go home because i feel like im going to get beat if i don't do things perfectly so i just really want to run away and im always depressed when im there can u help m

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  • ccsmod6
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    Hi there. Thanks for contacting the National Runaway Safeline and sharing part of your story with us. It must be really challenging having to come home to a place that makes you feel as if you are suffering. It’s understandable why you would want to live with your friend especially if you consider it to be a much safer environment. It might be helpful to talk with someone like a counselor or a therapist about how you feel when you’re at home. The National Alliance on Mental Illness (1800-950-NAMI) may be able to help and may be able to provide some good coping strategies when you’re feeling stressed. However, if you do decide to leave without permission it may just be important to keep in mind that your parents do have the right to file a runaway report. If a runaway report is filed and you make contact with police you may be required to return back home. However, you do have the right to let authorities know that you don’t feel safe at home. It may also be important to know that your friend and their parents could also be charged with harboring a runaway if you are caught staying with them. We hope this information was helpful. If you would like to discuss your situation further please feel free to reach out to us via phone at 1800-runaway or come chat at 1800runaway.org

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    I’m 15 years old living in Minnesota, I genuily hangout with my best friend nearly every weekend when I’m not there it’s becuase I’m being punished unfairly by my moms boyfriend and her, my mothers boyfriend has tried threatening me grabbing me and reaching into my pockets. Everytime I’m not at my friends house I’m stuck at home suffering from nothing to do here and constantly hearing screaming and taking mental abuse, I can’t take it anymore here my best friends house is a lot more safer and a better area to be in were I feel as if I can live my own life. Everyday I come home stressed tired and sick of being here when I know there’s a better place to be at just 20 mins away I’d like to be emancipated and live on my own but the laws are for 16 year olds I’ve even offered living there to my mother a lot of times but she always says I’m probably doing drugs and ect up there so I’ve came to the conclusion of leaving I Just don’t want to put my issues of running away on a amazingly family that only ever cared for me

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hello there, thanks for reaching out. Sounds like you are dealing with a pretty stressful situation at home and feeling like leaving but your mom threatened police and juvy. Here at NRS, we are not legal experts but we can speak generally about runaway laws. We truly want to support you and inform you of what could happen.

    If you leave home without permission, your mom can file you as a runaway with local police and if you are found you generally would be returned home. Running away is not typically illegal, rather it is a status offense or something you cannot do because you are a minor. So you generally would not be sent to juvy, rather you would be returned home.

    We hope this information is helpful. Please do not hesitate to call or chat us if you would like to talk in more detail about your situation: 1-800-RUNAWAY; www.1800runaway.org.

    Best,

    NRS

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    I'm 16 and i cannot stand my house anymore i want to leave .My mom said if i threaten to go away she'll call the cops and have me put in juvy but will that really happen? Or is she just trying to scare me?

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  • ccsmod4
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    Reply: Hi imI 15 and my grandmother

    Hello,
    Thank you for writing to us here at the National Runaway Safeline.

    We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on.

    You mentioned some things that raise concern for your safety and well-being. It is illegal for any parent or guardian to put a minor out on the street. If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. We are not experts on the issue, but generally once it's been reported, social services will either decide whether or not to take the case and further investigate. If they do take the case, they will send out someone from child protective services to do an investigation (interviewing people in the household) and from there they will decide the level of danger within the household. It generally ranges from no danger (the youth stays in the home, some services are given, and the case is closed), moderate danger (they will provide family services with possible temporary displacement) and high danger (they will remove the youth from the home and offer certain services).

    If you feel like this is an option you want to explore, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering.

    Please be safe and reach out soon by phone or chat so that we may help.
    Take care,
    NRS

    We hope this response was helpful! We’d love to hear from you about your experience using our crisis email/forum. Your feedback plays an important role in helping us improve our services to youth and families. Please click the link to fill out our survey: Your Opinion Matters to Us

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    Hi imI 15 and my grandmother said that she can kick me out by force so I think that's the ok of letting me run away (btw she did shoved me out the door)

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  • ccsmod4
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    Reply: Hello​, I'm 15

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS).

    From everything that you have been going through at home with your parent’s it took a lot of courage for you to reach out. We appreciate you sharing your feelings about the situation. Well done. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed and or thinking about harming yourself. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    For depression or suicidal thoughts you might consider contacting the National Suicide and Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255.

    Again you do not deserve to be abused physically, emotionally etc.
    It is not your fault that this is happening. You cannot control what others choose to do.
    Seeking help is an option available to you.

    To report any abusive treatment there is Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We are limited as to how we can help in this type of forum.

    If you would like to talk more in detail please call 1-800-Runaway (786-2929) or chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in.

    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Hello​. I'm 15 and I don't know how much longer I can last here.My older sister is abusive and my mom gets mad at me if I defend myself. My mom never listens to the back story and she invalidates my emotions. She makes fun of me for cutting myself and wanting to die and I don't know how much time I have left before I finally kill myself. I want to run away to my former step dad's place and I have about $84 saved up to get away (I know it's nothing). I feel like I'm living with strangers. The only reason I'm alive is because my boyfriend and my step dad.

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