No announcement yet.

need some help.... well lots.

  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts

  • need some help.... well lots.


    My boyfriend and I are in a pickle. Very very rough pickle.
    my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. 5 of the most recent months his mother has been verbally abusing us, terribly.
    So bad that I was pregnant, almost two months in and lost the baby because of all the things she said about me/us and all the stress she has put on us seeing each other. (I was a sk*nk, a wh*re, I use my boyfriend for his money, I'm a piece of trash, I didn't know what a family was until I came across them because my parents are divorced, ect.) ive stood in their front yard crying my eyes out because i felt so unwelcomed and all the father said was oh.

    He has gotten to the point of thinking of "why he is here" and "why he is going through this" not going to commit suicide because he didnt want to leave me and the baby (when I was still pregnant) but he was thinking about it.
    His parents found out about the suicidal thoughts and punished him for it. Cut him off from me.

    Just last night he came home from his counseling meeting his parents make him go to and he saw his parents moving his things into his sisters room to switch rooms. He wa very angry and left the house. Told his father where he was going and that he'd be back by 10. They kept in contact. When the mother found out, she demanded him home and he came home.

    Now they have cut off contact between us and neither of us can deal with that.
    I would like to know, if he can find somewhere else to live. Can he move out?
    He is 17. And will not be 18 until June 2015. He lives in lake Helen fl. He does have a job that he just got promoted at.
    Oh, an the parents do NOT know I was pregnant. I know if we told them, they would say the baby wasn't his and that I probably wasn't even pregnant.
    Look forward to hearing from you all, and thanks in advance.

  • #2
    RE: need some help.... well lots.

    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are going through a difficult situation and no one deserves what you are going through. We are here to help in any way we can.
    It sounds like your boyfriend has been through a lot as well. If your boyfriend is feeling suicidal or having suicidal thoughts he can always the suicide hotline at 1-800-273-TALK.
    We are not legal experts here at NRS, however, if your boyfriend wanted to move out he could always call the non-emergency police department in Lake Helen Florida and ask what the laws are regarding moving out before age 18. Every state is different. If he does not feel comfortable doing this he can call us at 1800-RUNAWAY and we would be happy to be on the phone with him.
    It sounds like you really care about him and want to help him. If you would like to call us we can provide further options and resources for you.
    You can call us 24/7 at 1-800-RUNAWAY if you have more questions, concerns, or are simply in need of some support while you're exploring your options. Also, you can chat with us at www.1800runaway.orgduring the hours of 4:30pm-11:30pm. We wish you the best of luck and please call us in the future if you need anything else. We're here for you!

    Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

    National Runaway Safeline
    [email protected] (Crisis Email)
    1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)

    Tell us what you think about your experience!


    Previously entered content was automatically saved. Restore or Discard.
    Insert: Thumbnail Small Medium Large Fullsize Remove  
    or Allowed Filetypes: jpg, jpeg, png, gif, webp