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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now. It sounds like you’re fearing that the situation may end in suicide if things don’t change. Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255); www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org is also a great resource to reach out to in addition to our crisis services.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe and stay strong,
    NRS

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    Hello, I’m 13//f and I am in a point in my life where I don’t know what I can do. I have had past depression and I have extremely bad anxiety which prohibits me functioning at school. On top of this, my parents have gotten a divorce and my step father has started to become extremely agressive (smashing bottles and glasses against walls and yelling eve

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
    While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.
    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • ccsmod13
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    Hi there, thank you for reaching out to NRS.
    We are really appreciative you shared a bit of your story with us. It sounds like you mom's behavior of messaging men who are not your father has been affecting you deeply and has become hurtful. This must be a confusing time at home particularly because it seems as if your parents are not openly communicating with you about what is going on. It might be true that no every child is provided with the necessities like food, but your parents are also supposed to make sure you feel safe and comfortable. It sounds like you are feeling betrayed by your parents and that is making you feel like you might want to leave. We are available 24/7 by phone at 1-800-786-2929 and chat at 180runaway.org if you need someone to talk to about how you have been feeling. Sometimes having a safe space to talk about what is on your mind can relieve stress and help you brainstorm some things you might want to try doing to make the situation at home more positive for you. We encourage you to reach out to a friend, a family member, or another adult in your life that you trust. You mentioned that your brother lives with your Nan, so she could be a person to reach out to for support.

    Please do not hesitate to call or chat us anytime to talk more about your situation and explore options. We look forward to hearing from you so that we can help!

    Stay strong,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Hi my parents give me little to no freedom and they treat me completely different than my siblings. They try to control everything I do. I live Solon Ohio and want to leave but I don't know the legal eligibility I'm 15 years old

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    I don’t want to live with my parents anymore,
    I love my dad he tries his hardest but I hate my mum,she’s talking to other men I’ve seen the messages and I’m disgusted,I’ve confronted her many times and she said she has stopped but I know she hasn’t she still has the apps from which she talks to them on on her phone and she always hides her phone screen if I’m near her,I’ve told a few of my family members but they can’t do anything,I think my dad knows what she does which doesn’t make it any better because he doesn’t seem to care, she told me she never met up with any of them but that’s hard to believe as in the messages there was a time and place where they were going to meet , the men know she has a family and a husband but they obviously don’t care, I think my mum really just doesn’t care about me and the fact that I told her to stop and she hasn’t just proves that,When I confronted her she said that it was because she was bored , but what normal person puts there family at risk of falling apart for some men because “she was bored”, she’s disgusting and I just can’t live being around her and her lies,my brother lives with my Nan, I want to live there too but that would just be too much for them, I feel like I have no where to go and no one to talk to.To top it all of my parents hardly have any money, I know some would say I’m lucky because I still get food but food doesn’t make you happy, I got no presents for my birthday and I was devastated I know I should be geeatful to have my family but my family is a lie,my mum is a liar,my dad doesn’t care that my mum is doing this, I can never talk to them and I just want to be happy, I want to be with a family that cares, I feel like if I moved out my dad would blame himself and I just don’t want that cause I love him but I just can’t live with my mum and I can’t live not being happy in my home

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  • ccsmod0
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    The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA). Our knowledge of helpful community based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis related laws is limited to the USA. If you are located in a country outside of the USA, you can use this link to find a youth helpline in or around your country: https://www.childhelplineinternation...pline-network/.
    We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country

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    Guest replied
    I don’t want to live at home anymore but apparently I’m not allowed to leave. I’m 16 and live in the uk so rules can be a little different. My mam found out that I’ve been having a relationship with an older guy and when I tried to run away she chased be with her car and phoned the police. The police said i can’t leave her and that I have to stay. We’ve also been having problems for ages and I’m literally not even allowed to leave the house anymore. They’ve tried taking my phone I’ve refused to give them it they don’t allow me to go out and they forced me to quit my job. I honestly can’t take it anymore. We are always arguing and I don’t want to live here anymore. The things she is saying and what she has done all because I chose to rebel and continue seeing him is over the top and I can’t cope. I wanted to get advice on whether I could move in with him and the steps I’d have to take or whether I could possibly move into some sort of residential place.

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  • ccsmod11
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    Hi, and thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you are dealing with so much – emotional trauma, not feeling accepted, your brother hitting you and how your parents respond to your brother and to you. It certainly doesn’t sound easy in any way. No one deserves to be hurt.

    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. Please call 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chat with us (www.1800RUNAWAY.org) as we can best help by phone or chat as we are unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon. Best, NRS

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    Guest replied
    So I’m 13 but I hate living at home. I have so much emotional trauma and I don’t feel accepted. My brother constantly picks on muni and hits me and is so rude to me no matter how hard I try to be nice to him. I really hate living here. My parents don’t understand because he’s their “golden kid” and he’s so smart and because of it he makes me feel stupid. I’ve always looked up to him and now I realize how crazy I am to want to. I don’t want to be like him. I hate him so much. I just hate living at home.

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for contacting The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are going through a difficult time right now. You do not sound selfish it is understandable to want to go to school and you have the right to be able to attend school.
    There are a few options that you could consider in this situation. Not being able to attend school and missing school can fall into truancy which can lead to neglect. You could make a report by calling your school and explaining the situation to them. You can also make a report by calling Child Help at: 1800-422-4453. Another option you could consider is talking to your school about your options they may have.
    We hope this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any more questions or would like to explore your options further please call us. Best of luck to you!
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Hi, I want was adopted by my grandma but now that I’m older I need help with school and getting there but my grandma is sick and disable now and I know I might sound selfish but I don’t want to be with her so I ask my aunt to take me but the issue is where she lives you have to have custody of child and my grandma won’t give up and now I starting feel like what there saying is that she only wanted me for the money and she said multiple times that didn’t want me anymore.

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    I don't really feel comfortable living with my family. My sister is very physical, manipulative, and is always finding a reason to cause trouble. She is constantly putting me down, to the point where it is a toxic relationship. My parents aren't very openminded and I feel like I am nothing to them. I want to live with my grandparents for a while, but I have tried approaching that idea to them, and they shut it down. I just don't feel happy or safe in my own home, and I need an escape. Is there any way I can approach the whole grandparent thing differently.

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe, NRS
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