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  • ive had physical fights with my sister and she is 100+ lbs more than me. im done physically and emotionally. i need help. bad.

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      Hello There,
      Thank you for contacting The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are going through a difficult time right now. Having physical fights can be scary and you do not deserve that.
      There may be a few options for you in order to help with this situation. One option to consider is discussing this matter with your parents. They can help you come up with options and should help prevent this from happening. Another option you could try is filling a domestic violence report. You can do that by calling The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800-799-7233. Also you may want to talk to a school counselor about what is going on they may also be able to help.
      We hope this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any more questions or would like to explore more options please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and to provide support. We wish you the best of luck in your situation!
      NRS

  • I need help with my house hold

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      Hi there,

      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
      Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

      If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe, NRS

  • I'm 15 and I don't want to live with non of my family members including my parents. I'm going through alot and I need help. I want to be in a foster home or I wanna be adopted by someone better

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      Hi there,

      You mentioned wanting to know how you can leave home before turning 18. The easiest way to leave home is with your parents permission. We understand that might be challenging, however, maybe there’s another family member, relative, or a family friend who could help to communicate how you’re feeling to your parents. The second way is through Child Protective Services if safety is a concern. Lastly, you can also look into emancipation options. In most states you need to be at least 16 to be considered and demonstrate that you can support yourself financially and independently. Emancipation often can be a lengthy process and may even cost some money for court fees. We would be happy to look into legal resources if that’s something you are considering.

      Please reach out soon so that we may offer support and resources to you. Our number is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929).

      Be safe,

      NRS

  • I'm 13 and I don't like my mom she never listens to me anymore she only listens to my older sister I'm the youngest of 5 and she don't listen I texted to make it work but it just keeps getting work but I don't know what to do if you do read this help me figure it out

    My brother has anger issues and my sister thinks she do what ever she wants my older brother is a * face and does what ever but he has problems and I have problem and my siblings have tried to kill me when I was a child and my brother when he gets angery breaks stuff and one time he pushed me against a moving car and my mom barely tacked us to the doctor anymore and my mom says my dad's a bad guy when we were Younger we liveds In hotels and In the car and when she got married she gets into fights with him almost every week and my dad's not bad yes he has anger issues but he has them under control but I don't want to live with my mom anymore and I don't know what to do I texted to tell her many times too

    I need help with getting out of my mom's plz help me text my number at * and if I do t answer I probably don't have my phone bc my mom likes to take it for no reason and she likes to yelling at me for no reason and like to tell my sister to tell me to do all the work around the house and idk what to do anymore
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      Hello –

      Thank you for contacting us here at the National Runaway Safeline. We understand that it takes great courage to reach out. We are sorry to hear about the way you have been treated. It sounds like the mistreatment at home is becoming difficult to deal with. It seems that you do not receive the support that you probably should at home.

      Depending on what you are looking for, a great resource for you could be the National Child Abuse Hotline. You can reach them at 1-800-422-4453. You can call them anonymously to learn about the abuse reporting process, or directly report abuse to this line. They are a good resource for talking through your options if there is verbal/mental abuse going on at home.

      Additionally, one of the services we offer as an organization is our conference call service. This conference call service is a moderated conversation between you, a member of the NRS, and your parents. In this conversation you set the guidelines and goals in order to have a productive conversation that can improve your conditions at home.

      Finally, if you would like to discuss the reasons as to why you want to runaway or you have any additional questions, please feel free to contact us directly via our 24 hour crisis hotline (1-800-786-2929), email, or live chat.

      We hope the information provided helps. Remember we are available 24/7 and can be toll-free reached at the number listed above. We are confidential, anonymous, and non-direct. We can also be reached via live chat between 4:30pm and 11:30pm CST.

      Best Wishes

      ~NRS

  • i am confused. i dont know what to do, who to blame. im 23, got a responsible father, but he's angry a lot to what i think as a simple stuff, and he said harsh words to my mom and me when he's mad. now im running away from my house, my mom too, but we're separated. i really dont want to go back living my life in that situation again, but since yesterday my dad tried to contact me ordering me to go home. i really dont want to. i dont expect any respon, im just trying to let go my feelings.

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      Hey there,

      Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what's been going on with you. It sounds like living with your dad is rough since he says harsh things when he's angry and it makes sense that you would want a place to share your feelings. As a 23-year-old you are considered a legal adult so you can live wherever you feel comfortable - your father cannot legally make you return to his home. He can contact the police to request a wellness check, but that just means the police will go out and ensure that you are safe but will not return you to your father's home. If you are in need of a place to stay you can always check out the National Homeless Shelter Directory by going to https://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/. There you can find shelter near you.

      Be safe,
      NRS

  • I don't want to live in my house or interact with my family most of the time. There have been problems going on for about 3 years. My dad cusses me and my mom out. My mom can't control me and my siblings. My parents yell at me every other day and the words hurt so bad I cry in my sleep every night in a week or once a week. I hate being at home and my parents ask me why I don't talk to them, well it's because of all of this. My mom keeps her friends before the family sometimes and forgets about our plans or picking us up or having clear communication. I've really just given up and I don't want to try in school anymore so my grades aren't as good as they used to be. My friends are always asking me why I'm so sad or mad, or why I don't want to talk and have no emotion. Sometimes I come into sports practice crying. They are also threatening to take all my sports and band opportunities away, saying that they're not important and not beneficial. My parents are always fighting and I can't focus when I do my work. I feel like I have no purpose even though my mom's friends try to help me. My parents have enough money but they won't buy a decent car and will buy whatever they want for themselves. I don't think I was raised correctly and my parents should take a parenting class. I don't want to go anywhere and I'd rather live in a foster home sometimes. And when I look around half of the people I know has perfect lives; a decent house, car, peaceful family life, good school life and they are surprised with what I'm going through. They told me that I was too skinny and that I would die from skinniness when I was really young, and now I'm really sad about being skinny and everyone is telling me that I'm skinny. Even though I try to eat as much as I can every day, and I think it's really just high metabolism. Calling someone skinny is equal to calling someone fat for the people who don't know that. I feel insecure everyday walking outside and going to school; some people said that I look like a toothpick. I also probably look like a toothpick because I don't stand up straight because I'm so insecure. I pray for things to get better but nothing has changed. I never get to have fun and I'm usually at home. The only times I go out is for shopping or if I'm going to a friend's house. I feel like some of my friends are fake and don't really care about me. Life is just boring for me and all I do is school and sports.

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    • I don't want to live in my house or interact with my family


      Hi there,
      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS).

      We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on.
      We are sorry that things are not going well between you and your mom. That must be pretty hard for you. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now. You don’t deserve to mistreated by anyone. You are not to blame for others bad behavior.


      Sometimes when communication breaks down with someone you are close to you making it difficult to know just where to turn. You did well reaching out today. We would like you to know NRS is here to listen and here to help. Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of.

      This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      If you would like to talk more in detail and explore some options for change, please call or chat soon. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

      We hope to hear from you soon.

      Be safe and stay strong,
      NRS
      Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

      National Runaway Safeline
      [email protected] (Crisis Email)
      1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)

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      • I hate going to school because everyone calls me skinny and I've been called a toothpick two times. I can never wear the clothes I want and I want to get fat implant surgery. Calling someone skinny is equal to calling someone fat it hurts extremely and can lead to insecurity where you won't even want to go outside. I know that I'm skinny stop telling me that I am

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          Hello There,
          Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are dealing with some rough things right now. We agree that calling someone to skinny can be just as hurtful as calling someone fat and lead to insecurity.
          One option to consider is talking with a school counselor or a teacher about what is going on. They should be able to prevent people from making fun of you, because you do not deserve that. Also they may be able to help you vent and explore options or resources to deal with this.
          It is awesome that you are on the volleyball and basketball team, no one is too skinny to play sports. Your father may be saying those things because of his own insecurities or that he may be afraid of you getting hurt. It seems that playing sports is an outlet for you and helps with you not being depressed which is great. Keep playing your sports and you do not need to listen to your father or anyone about you being too skinny.
          We hope this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore options please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and provide you support. Best of luck!
          NRS

      • Help.Right now I live with my grandma,her boyfriend,and my uncle.My grandma's house is filthy and nothing works but the school is good so I stay with her.My mom's house is in a completely different city.The house she lives in is with her boyfriend and my sister and his son and daughter.I hate it there.The school is big and my mom has changed since she was with him.Her boyfriend acts like a baby and makes her do everything.And while I stayed with my mom I got depressed.I can't live with my dad because I'm not close with him and we barely speak although I miss him.I think I have to live with my mom but I don't want to.Please help.-Kyleigh,12

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          Hi there,

          Thank you for writing to us here NRS. We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. You deserve to live somewhere that is safe and supportive. It must be really frustrating to feel like your family members are not able to provide a healthy living environment for you. We are here 24/7 to listen and help you figure out your next steps.

          If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
          Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

          We hope to hear from you soon.
          Be safe, NRS

      • hi everyone, so i went to my friends and i was with my dad that week and i cant tell you how much i hate my dad he is so abusive and so mean and he locks me in my bedroom like physically locks me and the house is so dirty and so messy and now he is leaving to go live with his girlfriend and decides not to even have me. My mom is usually so chill but out of literally no where she comes out and pulls me by my hair into the car in front of literally everyone and im crying and we stopped at a light and i got out and ran and she got the cops to come get me and take me home and now im about to go into this room where i just sit there it only has a bed and im on my laptop right now but im supposed to be packing my back and my mom just start screaming at me and im so scared im balling my eyes out.

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          Hello There,
          Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. Wow it seems like you have been going through a lot. First we want to let you know that abuse is never okay and you do not deserve to be going through that. You always have the right to file an abuse report by calling Child Help at: 1800-422-4453. Another option to consider is talking with your school counselor about this situation, because they are mandated reporters they are required to report abuse.
          Your safety is the top concern if at any moment you feel in danger please call 911 immediately. Also you could try to see if you have any family or friends that you could stay with.
          We hope this information is helpful to you in your situation. If you have any more questions or would like to explore options please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and provide support. We wish you the best of luck!
          NRS

      • I hate my mom she makes everyday living hell. I’m 11 and I’d rather die than live with her

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        • Hello! Thank you for contacting the national runaway Safeline, we appreciate you reaching out for help.
          To begin with, that you’d rather die than to live with her. We want you to know that we take suicide very seriously, and care about your safety. If you are ever feeling suicidal, please reach out to the National Suicide Prevention hotline at 1800) 273-8255. They would be able to talk further with you about what is making you feel this way, and may further assist you in an intervention is needed. Exploring other sources like a friend or another family member also another way to explore your feelings of suicide and seek counseling services.
          In the same way, you stated that your mom makes everyday a living hell. It sounds like you may be going through a lot in your household, and are very brave for still continuing to stick it all through. If there is any psychical or emotional abuse occurring I the home, you can contact the national child help hotline at 1800) 422-4453. You will be connected with an agent who would take your report down, and see if there is a case to consider. If at some point you are unsafe, you can text the word safe and your location to 44357. The National Safeline may connect you with other outside resources if you need help.
          Again, you thank you for contacting the national runaway Safeline, we appreciate you reaching out for help. Feel free to chat with us anytime at 1800) 786-2929. Best of luck!

          Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

          National Runaway Safeline
          [email protected] (Crisis Email)
          1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)
          https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/YourOpinionMattersToUs

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          • I do not want to live at home anymore. I hate is soooo much, when i come home from college all i get is lecturers and screamed at. She call me a slag and much more and im at the point where i do not want to live here no more im gettin sick of it. They do not let me do anything, go out with friends go out on my own. Whenever i go out they always wonder what i will be doing, as they think ill be doing bad things. I have no privacy and no freedom and they look through my things all the time. She found out that i was smoking , that is why shes been doing all these things but she shouts at me all the time for unessessary things like if i go to my friends house, she would scream and shout and say what will you be doing there and its gotten to the point where i hate my mum and dat cant stand them anymore. When i am at college im already depressed becasue i hate college and when i come home im even more depressed becasue of all the things my mum says to me. I am 19 and ready to runaway, but if i do i know i will get disowned, so i dont know what to do. I have a friend that is helping me through the situation but i dont know if i should go and live somewhere else are stay home.

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            • Hello! Thank you so much for reaching out, we appreciate you seeking help during this difficult time.

              To begin with, you mentioned that you might be pregnant with your 16 year old’s boyfriend. It sounds like you’re in a hard place right now not knowing what to do, but we are here to support you in any way that we can. An option to explore first would be to take a pregnancy test to verify if you are pregnant or not. If you are, you may want to consider having a heart to heart with your boyfriend, and letting him know what proper steps you both are going to take next.

              Furthermore, you stated that your boyfriend doesn’t want to run away, and that you yourself want to get away from your abusive adoptive parent’s home. No one should have to endure any abuse whether it be physically, emotionally, or mentally. If you find yourself in that situation again, you may look into the possibility to reaching out to your local authorities, and press charges since you are 18 years of age. The National child abuse hotline is a great resource as well to report abuse, and offer services to further better your recent situation, they can be reached anytime at 1800) 422-4453. We aren’t legal experts, but in most states anyone under 18 is considered a minor. If you decide to run away, your legal guardians may file a runaway report with the authorities, and whoever harbors a runaway, may face some legal consequences. We want you to be safe, and if ay anytime you feel like that is at jeopardy, you may text the word safe and your location to 44357. The national safe place will text you a safe location, and a caseworker will be out to assist you.

              We hope that you can seek help from these provided resources, and want you to know that we care about your safety, you’re not alone in this battle. In fact, you’re really brave for going through this difficult time in your life. If for whatever reason you require additional assistance, or wants us to make a call on your behalf, feel free to give us a call anytime at 1800) 786-2929. Best of luck!.
              Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

              National Runaway Safeline
              [email protected] (Crisis Email)
              1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)
              https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/YourOpinionMattersToUs

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              • Hello, I'm 15 and I trun 16 in January....
                I can't stand living with my mom anymore..... we've been in a hotel for about 2 to 3 years... My parents always argue and fight.... my mom threatens herself and us.... she makes me feel like everything is always my fault... I'm sick of feeling alone... I'm tired of always sucking it up and crying.... I want to live with my bestfriend and her family....but I'm scared that my mom might do something wrong.... Honestly I'm scared of my mom.... I wont be able to take anymore of her bull.... Please give me advice.... I hate living with her....

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                  Thank you for reaching out to us. It sounds like you are having a rough time. That must be frustrating to be living in a hotel and hear your parents arguing all the time. While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those who you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. The way to get the most accurate information would be to call your local police non-emergency number and anonymously inquire about their practices.
                  It sounds like you may need some support. Maybe you can try to talk to your school counselor, friends or family member about how you are feeling. Sometimes have support can help you feel better because you have someone to talk about all the things you are experiencing. If you need someone to talk to you can contact NAMI at 1800-950-NAMI. Also if you are in an unsafe environment and want to report it you can contact Child Help at 1800-422-4453. If you want to discuss more about what is going on at home or just vent you can always call us at 1800-Runaway. We are 24/7, confidential and here to help! Thanks again for being so honest. Best of luck!
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