I Dont Want To Live With My Parents No More.

[Unregistered]

I Have Been Wanted To Leave The House For A Year Now. Back Then I Just Used To Wish I Was 17 Already So I Could Get Out WithOut Them Calling The Police. I Turn 16 In A Week, And Right Now I Cant Take It No More.A Month Ago My Mom Found Out I Had Intercourse With My BoyFriend, She Called Me Everything You Guys Could Imagine I Know I Might Of Have DonE Wrong But She Would Stop The currsing. Its Been Almost Two Months since That Happen. She Took EveryThing Away From Me Laptoop,Phone,IPod The Mobile I Have Right Now My BoyFriend Got It For Me She Has Been Getting On My FaceBook Reading EveryThing I Tlked To People, She Follows Me EveryWhere && Shes Always Telling Me Its Gonna Be Like That From Now On. I'm Totally Not Part Of This Family No Longer, She Knows I Want To Leave The House She Supposedly Wont Stop Me If I Do But She Dont Want To Sign A Paper Saying That She Knows Am Living && Where Ill Be Staying And All That. Is There AnyWay I Can Get Out Of Here? How Could I Get Emmancipated? Is It Really That Hard To Emmancipate?I Live In Texas.

[ccsmod5]

Re: I Don't Want To Live With My Parents No More

Hello,

Thank you for contacting the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like the situation at home with mom is pretty stressful. I’m sorry to hear that the way your mom reacted has made you feel like you are no longer a part of your family. We do not have a legal background, but it sounds like this situation left you with a few questions and we’ll do our best to provide you with helpful information.

You mentioned that your mom has led you to believe that she would not stop you if you decide to leave the house. If you mean sign a paper so that you can live with someone else, what are your options for alternative living arrangements and have you ever lived outside of your family circle before? You also mentioned emancipation in your message. Laws vary from state to state regarding how you might become emancipated, and that’s something we can look up for you if you feel comfortable providing your city and state. You are always welcome to call 1-800-RUNAWAY or chat with us on our website from 4:30-11:30pm CST so that we can help you find resources near you that can answer your legal questions.

It sounds like this experience has been difficult for you and you have begun to look into what options you might have available to you. We are here 24 hours, 365 days a year, and we’re happy to help you in any way we can.

Best of luck to you.

[supreme]

problem with my family

Hello . I dont know how to begin . Actually my mom hates me . She never wanted a girl child . Yesterday she tried to attempt suicide because of me . I dont want be with her . I wanna go somewhere out this place . Im depressed . Help me

[ccsmod4]

Problem with my family

Hello,

Thank you for contacting the National Runaway Safeline.

It sounds like you have been experiencing some very emotional times.
How are you doing?

You don’t deserve to have your mother say such things to you. We are sorry to hear about your mom’s attempted suicide and we hope that she is recovering. We also hope that you come to realize that your mother’s suicide attempt is not your fault.
You don’t deserve that guilt. Maybe your mother will decide to get counseling as a means to get better emotionally as well.

It sounds like you would like to have an alternative place to live.
Has your mother been admitted into a hospital and if so what is your current living situation? For example are you staying with a relative or an adult while your mom recuperates?
NRS has a national data base, perhaps we can assist you with locating local resource information and possible referrals for emergency shelter and counseling if you are interested.
How does that sound?
Just call 1-800-Runaway (786-2929) or try NRS live chat at www.1800Runaway.org

We understand how a situation like this might make you feel depressed.
Good for you with reaching out for assistance.
Sometimes when things feel that they are overwhelming it might help to talk about it.
It’s nice to know that there is someone willing to just listen.
As an option you might consider calling the National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255 (Talk)
They have counselors on staff ready to talk with you. This might be helpful with coping with all that you have gone through. If you prefer to stay online you might try: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org

We appreciate how tough it must have been for you to reach out for help.
Good for you for taking a positive step.
We hope that it was helpful contacting NRS and we hope to hear from you soon.

Take Care,
NRS

[dnnsns]

help

I need help my grandma buys me.stuff and my mom doesn't like it and I love.my mom and all but I just can't keep up with her

[ccsmod14]

RE: help

Hi there,

Thank you so much for reaching out to us. We’re glad that you were able to find our bulletin board and share what’s been going on with us, we’re here to help.

So it sounds like your grandma buys you things, and you like them but your mom does not. That has got to be quite frustrating when you do enjoy the things that she has been getting for you. Have you been able to talk to your mom about how you feel? We do offer conference calling here with youth and legal guardians. If this is something that you think you would be interested in exploring, you can call us here at 1800runaway to either proceed with a call or just explore what that would be like.

We’re here 24/7 to support you. Please do not hesitate to call or chat with us.

Good luck and stay safe,
NRS

[Suicidal]

I want to die

No one in my house loves me!! they only use me and need me when I do stuff for them. my dad lives near but never sees me and my mom only cares for her bf. I mean I love my mom, but lately something is different. I'm thinking of commiting suicide.

[ccsmod14]

Re: I want to die

Hi there,
Thank you so much for getting in contact with us. It sounds like you are really struggling right now but we are so glad that you have reached out for some help. We are here to support you the best that we can.

It sounds like you are really not feeling any love at home, and it has got to be really tough on you. You shared that your mom only cars about her bf, and lately things have been different. You mentioned that you are thinking about suicide. Have you told anyone about these thoughts? We’d like to pass along the National Suicide Hotline at (800) 273 TALK (8255). This is a hotline that you can call at any time, where trained counselors are ready to speak with you and help you through whatever you are thinking/feeling. They also have a chat option available if you prefer to talk online, www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org.

If you would like assistance talking to your mom, you can call us here at 1800runaway. We can talk through what that conversation might look like, or we can conduct a conference call with the three of us as well.

Please do call or chat with us if you would like to talk more, we’re here to support you.

Best of luck and stay safe,
NRS

[Unregistered]

Hi. I don't want to leave with my parents anymore. I never feel like a part of this family. Everything I have gets taken away from me. There's just no happiness or freedom. They don't treat me like they treat my brothers. Please, help me.

[ccsmod14]

RE:

Hi there,

If you have contacted NRS today through another means (for example, live chat, email or bulletin) for the same issue, it would be helpful to let us know that you have already contacted us. NRS understands it takes courage to reach out for help; therefore, we would like to minimize the need for you to repeat your situation and avoid offering you duplicate services.

Best,
NRS

[Unregistered]

I'm 17 and want to move out

I'm 17 I will be 18 in January. I currently live with my mom. My mom and dad are divorced and both remarried but I am not allowed to live with my dad with the condition he is in. But me and my mom do nothing but fight all the time she threatens to call the law on me all the time she ties to swing at me like she's going to hit me or punch me. I have a job and I am basically taking care of myself anyway could I move out without her consent. I don't know what to do. Someone help me please.

[ccsmod1]

RE: I'm 17 and I want to move out

Hello,
Thanks for reaching out to us during this difficult time. You have every right to feel safe and wanted in your own home. Nobody deserved to be threatened or hit. It sounds like you want to move out without your parent’s consent. Just to let you know, we are not legal experts. If you do leave before you turn 18, your legal guardians do have the right to report you missing. Also, anybody you would be caught staying with could possibly be charged with ‘harboring a runaway’. Do you have someone you would be able to stay with who is willing to take this risk for you? If not, what other options do you have? You also mentioned that you have a job and are capable of taking care of yourself. Have you talked to your mom about letting you move out?
Here at the National Runaway Safeline, we cannot tell you what you should or should not do. We can however help you explore options and come up with a solid plan for what to do next. Please give us a call so we can help you figure out what your next steps will be. Stay safe.

[dana_smith]

probblem house

I dont want to live with my father and his girlfriend because they fuss and fight and they really dont do a whole bunch for me and i think its time for me to get away from them and live myife o wanna be with my grandma

[ccsmod14]

RE: probblem house

Hi there,

Thank you so much for contacting us. It sounds like you are having a tough time lately at home and we are sorry to hear about this. You shared that you don’t want to live with your father and his girlfriend because of their fighting, and you feel like they don’t do much for you and this has got to be hard.

You shared that you want to live with your grandma. It’s good to know that you have support from your grandma, it sounds like she is someone that you really trust and care about. One way for this to happen would be if your father transferred guardianship to your grandma. If this is not something you think he would be willing to do, there might be a way to just spend more time away from home and with your grandma instead- maybe on the weekends if you live close, or for summer breaks.

We’re here to help you out in any way that we can by discussing options with you. Please do call or chat to talk more. We’re here 24/7.

Best,
NRS

[JustThatGirl]

I don't want to live with my parents anymore

I've been very depressed lately and recently attempted to escape the house. It ended with me in hospital, and now I'm treated very differently. I've been hit multiple times, throw against a wall, soup thrown at me, kicked out of my house, and just can't take it any more.

My parents drink most nights, fighting, then my father would go to be quietly. My mother would stay up all night playing on her computer, and goes to bed around 4 in the morning. When she wakes, she's highly pissed and treats everyone like crap. I do not wish to be in this house any more, I want to live with my friend..

Please help me. I hate it here.