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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
    While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. If you manage to run away and still go to school it is more likely than not that you will be found much quicker. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.
    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    hi im considering running away from my home im trapped here and my parents never let me leave i feel suffocated and cant take it anymore but if i do run away how long can i go without police finding me? if i still attend school will they try at take me home after school??

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed by your mom. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

    18 years old is generally the age that an individual may leave home without permission from their parent or legal guardian. We are not legal experts here but we can speak in general terms. If you leave home without permission, your mom may file a runaway report with the police. What actions the police take once you are filed as a runaway can vary a lot from state to state and even city to city so we cannot predict exactly what would happen in your case. Generally speaking, if you encounter a police officer while reported as a runaway, you will likely be returned home. However, in that case there may be services (family counseling, etc.) available to you as a youth in crisis/runaway but again, police procedures related to offering those services can be different based on your location or the details of your situation. Another thing to consider is that while running away is not a crime, a legal adult who allows you to stay with them may be putting themselves at risk for being charged with harboring a runaway. One way to find out the laws in your area is to call your local police and ask what their policies are regarding runaway youth.

    Please do not hesitate to call or chat if you have questions, need resources, or need to talk. We can explore your situation, go over all your options, and come up with a plan and resources to deal with your situation over the phone or on live chat. 1-800-RUNAWAY; www.1800runaway.org

    We are looking forward to hearing from you soon, and wish you the best of luck.

    -NRS

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    Hi I’m 16 and want to run away from home as me and my mom do not get along and I am being abused can my friends mom become my gaurdian or adopt me if I want them to and will the police force me to go back home if I don’t want to at all

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey there,

    Thanks so much for contacting us, it takes a lot of courage to reach out and share your story. It must be really hard to live in a home with so much tension - it sounds really hard to not be able to see your friends or have a phone. Running away is a big decision and it can be very stressful to figure out what you want to do. If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

    All the best,
    NRS

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    Hi I'm 15 almost 16 ill be turning 16 in a week. I want to run away from this hell whole I live in. My grandparents are mean to me they never let me hangout with friends they don't want me to have a phone and I got cought with a phone and now my grandparents are being very mean verbally they are saying mean stuff to me. I want to go live with either a friend or my biological mom but I don't know how to go about it. I need help

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  • ccsmod15
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    Thank you for reaching out to the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you’ve been going through such a tough time. That sounds so stressful to have those fights and drama at home. We are here to support you and help you in any way we can.

    We want you to know that no one deserves to be abused, and you should not have to go through that. If there is abuse going on at home, you could call Child Help at 1-800-422-4453 or you could call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY (1-800-786-2929) or chat with us online. Or if you ever feel that you are in danger, you could call 911 for immediate help.

    We’re not legal experts here at NRS. Generally it’s not illegal to leave home, but your parents could file a runaway report, the police could get involved, and they could bring you home. The people you’re staying with could potentially get in trouble for having you stay there. You could consider calling your local nonemergency police department to ask about their policies. We also have legal aid resources here if you have specific questions about the laws in your state.

    It sounds like all of your struggles are making you consider leaving home. If you do decide to leave home, you could consider thinking about ways to make sure you stay safe. You could explore ways you would pay for food, shelter, clothing and other necessary things. You could think about how long you would stay away, where you would stay, and what things would be like when you return. You could consider what you would do if you felt that you were in danger or had an emergency.

    If you haven’t already, you could consider reaching out to a trusted adult, relative, worker/teacher/counselor at your school for help and support. You could also consider talking to your parents about how you’ve been feeling or having another trusted adult help you talk with them. Just so you’re aware, we have a conference calling service here where we could help mediate a conversation between you and your parents.

    There are also many resources that could help you with anything else you may need. If you want to talk more about what’s been going on, or if you would like more information about resources, you can call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY (1-800-786-2929) or chat with us online.

    Again, thank you for contacting us. It sounds like you’ve been going through a really hard time, but you’ve shown a lot of strength by working through these challenges and reaching out for help. If you ever need anything in the future, please feel free to call us or chat with us online. We’re always here to listen and here to help.

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    im 15 and i dont want to stay at home cause of fights and drama can i leave and then call the cops and report them as abusive or can i just leave with no trace left behind and can a cop make you come home if you rum away and dont commit a crime

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  • ccsmod4
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    Reply: I am 17 with 2 months

    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS).


    It sounds like you are thinking about running away but have some concerns have some concerns over what might happen if you are picked up by the police.

    While we are not experts on the law, someone under 18 that leaves home, the parent/guardian may file them as a runaway and they may be returned home. Also, those that a reported runaway stays with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. Anyone found to be assisting or aiding someone to run away may also find themselves at risk legally. For more specifics on the law, you might consider contacting the local non-emergency number for the police. You might also look for a legal aid center in the area. They may be able to answer any legal questions on the subject.


    If you have any more questions pertaining to your situation,we can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. You are welcome to contact NRS to talk more in detail.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    Please call or chat soon.

    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    Be safe,
    NRS


    We hope this response was helpful! We’d love to hear from you about your experience using our crisis email/forum. Your feedback plays an important role in helping us improve our services to youth and families. Please click the link to fill out our survey: Your Opinion Matters to Us

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    Guest replied
    I am 17 with 2 months until 18 living in the state of CO, if I were to runaway what legal action would likely happen considering my age and state?

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Im 15 turning 16 next month i just got hit today from my dad with a belt that left me a lot of bruises over my body which are now sore im not happy anymore staying here i want to leave and run away and live with my boyfriends family but im scared of it being illegal i want to tell my councilor or teacher about this but im scared my parents can get into legal trouble is it okay for your parents to hit you for any reason to the point where they leave bruises?

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hi there, thanks for reaching out today.

    Sounds like your grandson is living with you and you are wondering if you could possibly get into legal trouble. Here at NRS, we are not legal experts but we can speak generally about runaway laws.

    It is hard to say how police would respond to your situation and if you could be at risk of getting into legal trouble. There is a misdemeanor charge called "harboring a runaway" that the legal adult who knowingly shelters a runaway could be at risk for. However, your grandson would have to be listed as a runaway with local police, and you would have to be sheltering him from his guardian. From what your post says, it seems like you have had contact with his mom and have let her know that she can get him anytime; which would generally taking harboring charges off the table. It is possible that if he refuses to go with mom, she could file him as a runaway with local police and police could make him go back home, yes. Depending on your local police, they could respond a variety of ways to your situation. If you feel comfortable doing so, you might reach out to your local police's non-emergency number to ask hypothetical questions about your situation and how they would respond.

    We hope this information is helpful, please call or chat us if you would like to have a conversation about your situation: 1-80-RUNAWAY; www.1800runaway.org.

    Best,

    NRS

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    Guest replied
    My grandson left his moms house at age 16 and moved in with me his grandmother can I get in trouble even though I said his mom can come get him anytime but he wont go with her even if she tried to get him to and can the police make him go back home thank you

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  • ccsmod2
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    Thank you for writing in to the National Runaway Safeline Forum Board. Sounds like a tough situation, so it makes sense you are considering your options and reaching out to us is a great first step to educating yourself on the process. In Michigan, you are considered a minor until you turn 18. If you left home and went to stay with your Grandmother, and your parents filed a Runaway Report, your Grandmother could potentially be charged with harboring a runaway. If your parents agree to you going and living with your Grandma, you could consider what’s called an alternative living arrangement. You may want to consult with a legal resource about this option.
    Feel free to call us 24/7 at 1800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) and we can provide additional resources for you. Take care.
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