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  • my mom hits me and my sister but not my 10 year old sister is that fare?

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    • ccsmod7
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      Hi there, thanks for reaching out today.

      That seems hurtful that your mom hits and your sister and your feelings are valid. Here at NRS, we truly want to support your during this difficult time.

      You mentioned that your mom hits you, and that concerns us. If you would like to talk more about what you are experiencing please do not hesitate to call or chat us (1-800-RUNAWAY or www.1800runaway.org). You might have options with reporting any abuse at home, and we can also look up local resources that might be able to help. If you feel safe talking to your mom or a supportive adult, you might let them know how you are feeling. You so deserve to be heard and supported.

      We are here 24/7 if you need to talk to anyone or go over your options. You are not alone.

      Best of luck,

      NRS

  • I was outside in a parking lot and my mother punched me so hard that I fell to the ground. She was talking to me and she sad don't look away, and I think she thought I looked away so she punched me.

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      Hi there,

      Thank you for taking the brave step to reach out to NRS and share a bit about your situation. It is never okay for a parent to hit their child and what happened is not your fault. You deserve to be treated in a way that makes you feel safe and cared for.

      You deserve to be getting support with this challenging situation. We encourage you to reach out to people that you trust. Sometimes having a safe space to talk about things can help you brainstorm ideas to make your situation better you had not thought of previously. Trusted adults to talk to might include friend's parents, family members, or a counselor at school.

      If you are not quite ready to talk to someone in person, there is an organization called Child Help which advocates for young people in abusive or unsafe situations. You can contact them at 1-800-422-4453 or go to childhelp.org to talk more about your options.

      We truly want to be a support for you as you decide on your next steps. We are available 24/7 to listen and help as much as possible. Please do not hesitate to reach out again by phone or chat if you would like to talk more in-depth about your situation and explore your options. You can contact us by phone at 1-800-786-2929 or use our live chat services at www.1800runaway.org.

  • My father just came back from his job as a truck driver. He is usually very kind and nice but in the morning he hit brother A (10) for kicking cereal towards my mom. Later in the evening he hit brother A for the same thing and brother B ( for throwing/dropping a bottle of Vaseline towards them. I could hear them screaming and crying, begging my father to stop. He didn’t. It was awful. They’re asleep now as I’m writing this. I don’t know if this is normal in every other household, or just a few. I also don’t know if this is okay or not.

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      Hi there,
      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned your brothers being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You and your brothers don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.
      Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe,
      NRS

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  • I'm 16 years old, and just today my mother and I got into an argument. She swatted me on my shoulder, and on reflex, I swatted back at hers, just as hard as she did me (NOT hard) and I shouldn't have done that, I know, that was bratty of me and I wasn't thinking - but in retaliation, she busted me in my face with the back of her fist, asking me over and over again "Are you ********ing serious?", "You think you can hit me?" She busted my lip, and I thought she broke my nose for a second whenever she hit me. My nose is still sore, and she knocked my tooth loose.

    My dad died about 6 years ago and he used to spank me whenever I was young, but he never hit my face like that before - whereas Mom does it all the time. She's hit my 10 year old sister in the face multiple times before, like smacking her upside the chin and across her face. Mom never drew blood though, until now. Mom thinks that hitting me like that was completely justified though, she says that she should've "knocked me out" (her words).

    She won't listen to reason. If I approach her genuinely and tell her how I feel she'll either laugh me out of the room or start yelling at me. I know she will; tthat's what happened the last time I tried to open up to her like that. She always believes that she's right, and even if she's not, she's not going to admit that she's wrong.

    I want her to see consequences, somehow. I don't know if I think she's UNFIT to be a parent, necessarily, but she keeps hitting me and my sister in the face. Every time she gets mad she starts cussing and screaming and starts scolding me or my sister, and from there it very easily turns into her reaching out and smacking. I barricade my door all the time, because whenever she's mad she tries to bust my door down whenever she wants in. She holds grudges, she never apologizes, and when she's mad she gets violent quick. She completely skips past other methods of discipline. I feel like I can't ever leave my room, and I don't have anywhere else to go.

    I don't know if I should just suck it up until I can move the out or if there's some other way I can get her to stop. I'm interested in reporting her, but I'm terrified of the outcome. If I reported her it'd put a rift in our family forever, and I'm so close to being 18, I don't know if I should just grit and bear it or what.

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      Hi there,
      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.
      Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe,
      NRS

  • My mother punched me while I was in a parking lot, she told me to look her n the eyes and she thought Ilooked away and then she punched me so hard that I fell on the ground

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      Hello There,
      Thank you so much for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are going through a super difficult time right now.
      You do not deserve to be punched by anyone and we are sorry you had to deal with that. If you believe this to be abuse you do have the right to file an abuse report. You can file an abuse report by contacting Child Help at: 1800-422-4453. You can also call us and we would be happy to help you with an abuse report. If you are in immediate danger please call your local police department.
      We hope that this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore more options, please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and to provide support. We wish you the best of luck !
      NRS

  • My mom is a very nice person
    I have a boyfriend he is a very nice guy and he kiss me on the lips I kiss him to

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    • ccsmod16
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      Hi,
      Thank you for reaching out to us; we are glad that you did. Thank you for letting us know how nice your mom is and that it sounds like you like your boyfriend. If your mom really did just punch you, please reach out to us.

      If you’d like to talk further about this and you can reach us either by phone at our hotline, 1-800-786-2929 (1-800-RUNAWAY) or live chat via www.1800runaway.org We are here 24/7 to listen and help.

      Sincerely,
      NRS

  • My mom just punched me in my head because i said i wasnt going with he anymore

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    • ccsmod13
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      Hi there,

      Thank you for taking the time to reach out to us here at NRS, and for sharing a bit about what happened. It is never okay for a parent to react to a disagreement by escalating to physical violence. You do not deserve to be hit or punched for not wanting to go somewhere.

      We truly want to be a support for you during this difficult time. If you would like to talk more in-depth about your situation and explore your options, we are here 24/7 to listen and help as much as possible. You can reach out by phone at 1-800-786-2929 or use our live chat services at 1800runaway.org. We look forward to hearing from you soon so that we can help.

      Stay safe and stay strong,
      NRS

  • she just punched me too

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    • ccsmod2
      ccsmod2 commented
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      Hello There,
      Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. We are sorry you are going through a difficult time. If you feel like this could be abuse you can always contact Child Help and make a report. They can be reached at 1800-422-4453.
      We hope this information will be helpful to you in your situation. We wish you thes best of luck!

      NRS

  • I was in the car with my mom and brother and I was in the front seat while my mom was driving. It was dark out and I wanted to read my book that I have to read because it’s due within a few days so I turned the flashlight on my phone and read. She yelled at me at the top of her lungs and asked me to turn it off and I was very stressed that I had to read the big book within a few days so I asked if I could cover the light with my finger so it dims down and she said fine. We then went through a sharp turn and I accidentally dropped my phone and the light shined upwards throughout the car. She screamed at me so loudly I cannot even describe how loud it was. She punched me three times in my arm and continued to scream. My brother did nothing. I feel like everyone hates me. No one is there for me. Even my siblings hate me and I’m the youngest child. I just feel so hated and alone and I can’t do this anymore. This isn’t the first time something like this has happened. It happens almost every night. I sometimes even catch my mom asleep on her bed holding a bottle of wine or liquor all the time. It makes me so upset.

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      Hi there,
      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.
      Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe,
      NRS

  • one day i was at my mom house then, my mom just flipped my bed over cause i didnt clean up then i just started crying then she started yelling then i tried to tell her why then she punched me in my face.My mothers other son got mad that i said that i wish she was dead in her face the he punched me i punched him back the outta no where she slams me. Then she keeps beating she hit me kicked me and choked me calling me a ********** and a ********** ass nigga also saying she regrets having me and how i ruined her life. I was and still am suicidal and she doesnt care. I was smoking cigs cause i am depressed and then she caught cause one fell out my pocket. she said im just a ********** then start beating on me. So im gonna run away tonight

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    • ccsmod15
      ccsmod15 commented
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      Hi there,
      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now. It sounds like you’re fearing that the situation may end in suicide if things don’t change. Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255); www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org is also a great resource to reach out to in addition to our crisis services.
      Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.
      If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe,
      NRS

  • I have had the same experience. last night my mom took my phone and checked it...and next thing i knew she dragged me out my room and she punched me...i felt something crunchy in my mouth then i noticed my teeth was chipped...i mean she could just taken the phone and beat me with a belt but she didn't have to punch me

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    • ccsmod2
      ccsmod2 commented
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      Hello There,

      Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen.
      It sounds like you are going through a difficult time and we want you to know that you are not alone. What you have described could be abuse and you have every right to make a report. If you are in danger or need medical attention asap, please contact 911. If you would like to make a report you can contact Child Help at 1800-422-4453. You can also call or chat with us and we can help with making a report. You do not deserve to be abused and we are sorry you are dealing with that.
      We hope that this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any more questions or would like to explore your options please call or chat with us. We are here 24/7 to listen and to provide support. Best of luck!
      NRS

  • Originally posted by ;n753
    I went into my sisters room and told her about this new rap that I made. She was about to go to sleep but then asked me to stay and tell her it. Then I was like I can't unless I rap it to the beat. So she's talking and then my mom comes in she's like pissed off and says we have to wake up in six hours! ect. I was like ok I'm just telling her something. Then she goes to my room and swings it open saying shut off your pc. I was like I'm not on the internet I'm only listening to my music, and I was. Then she left and then my sister and I went into my room. We were laughing quietly because I was nervous then I was rapping and here comes my mom after a few minutes. She had a crazy look on her face and she's like get out. I was like get out of my room, I'm showing her a song. Then I swore at her when she was saying responses to me. Then she came up to me and held her fist up and I raised my pen and told her to get away. Then she punched me right in the side of my face after I stood up. Then I went after her and I didn't even get at her that much and I grabbed her hair to have her get away. Then after that she yanked my hair, almost all of it and then when I was trying to stand up she clocked me right again straight on the right side of my face. It was full force then she clipped her knuckle into my right front tooth and it felt like it almost broke. My sister was trying to break it up and I just said stuff to my mom as she hid back in the kitchen and I walked to the couch where she was sleeping and pulled all the cutions out and went to my room. My face hurts so bad that tears whelmed in my eyes. I'm not a weak person but she got me good. I'm so mad. What should I do?

    Also my jaw was already in pain since I have tmj. Now it hurts so much now. I can't open my mouth.
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for sharing that story. I am so sorry you are going through this. Some tips to have your parents(mom), not go crazy, is to obey them. I know, it is hard and frustrating! But if you obey, and respect your parents, you will not get hurt or get abused. If you get punched again, and you did not swear at ur mom or did nothing wrong and all of a sudden she punshes you, that means she is abusive and you need to call the abusive hotline, look up the number and have that number with you, in case something like this happens again. I have gotten hit hard, by hand, but I haven't gotten exactly "punched" but I have gotten slapped and stuff for no reason. So I wish you luck, and if this happens again, contact this website again, or call the hotline.

    God bless you and I really hope you have a good life

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      Thank you for your response to another user’s post. Often forums are a place of support and understanding for many youth. It often may be validating and helpful for users to read similar situations as well as exchange feedback to one another. For anyone experiencing any difficulties or challenges, the National Runaway Safeline encourages youth to reach out to our 24/7 crisis support line either by phone or chat for immediate services.

      Thank you, NRS
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