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I'm 14 and running away with friends in 5 months
I've already planned on running away and there's nothing you can do to stop me from doing so. I just have a few concerns and want to know if there are any alternate solutions or issues i need to watch out for. I'm a victim of past physical abuse and current emotional/verbal abuse (I suppose my parents do this because they know i can call CPS or other services if they were to beat me). My mother is the main abuser and i've been having to deal with her for as long as i can remember. My father never does anything to prevent it, and she almost always acts when he isn't home. She then goes on to make me believe that it's because she loves me, she has convinced me to the point of thinking everything is fine. And then she goes back to her usual self. She makes fun of me, ridicules me, tears me down emotionally, isolates me, and i can't do anything about it. My dad doesn't do anything when he does witness it, he just acts disappointed. but not towards her, towards me. i'm currently being isolated as we speak, she took away everything i had to contact other people. The only reason i'm able to send this out, is because my school chromebook hasn't had site blocked on it.
The other people i have that will be coming along with me also have abusive parents. one of them physical, and one of them physical and emotional. We were going to run in March sometime, i'm not sure what date yet exactly but we have a fairly solid plan. We also made the plan adjustable so we can alter it if we ever need to, considering anything could happen. I can't tell you where we're going or where i live or where they live, but i can tell you a little bit of what we planned to give you some insight:
I would bring i car, i've been driving for a little bit more than a year now. My dad started teaching me how to drive when i was 13 and i'm going to start going out to drive every weekend until he dead line. The area i live in is really hilly, and he even taught me how to drive in reverse. I have a load of supplies already, sleeping bags, med kit, meds for illness and pain, weapons to defend myself, and ways to get money on my own. One of the people i'm going to be running away with has ways to have other people who are going to help us out mail them things. I believe they're going to be getting supplies from 3 different people. And my second friend just recently agreed to join, and they have to get out of there as soon as they can. They're the one being physically and emotionally abused. I was going to drive until we got to the meeting point where me and my first friend were going to meet. Then we were going to drive out of the state and over to my next friend. As soon as we got a state away from the last pickup location we would bike to our destination.
I'm aware of a few saftey concerns but i wanted to see if i could be brought up to speed with anything else. Like i previously stated i want to see the situation from an outside perspective. We're going to go through with it and plan to take fairly extreme precautions to ensure our safety. I'm more concerned with the safety of the two others, considering i'm fairly well built. The other two are shorter and not as strong as i am. I fear they may not be able to defend themselves if i'm not around. Other than that i don't have very many concerns.
The other people i have that will be coming along with me also have abusive parents. one of them physical, and one of them physical and emotional. We were going to run in March sometime, i'm not sure what date yet exactly but we have a fairly solid plan. We also made the plan adjustable so we can alter it if we ever need to, considering anything could happen. I can't tell you where we're going or where i live or where they live, but i can tell you a little bit of what we planned to give you some insight:
I would bring i car, i've been driving for a little bit more than a year now. My dad started teaching me how to drive when i was 13 and i'm going to start going out to drive every weekend until he dead line. The area i live in is really hilly, and he even taught me how to drive in reverse. I have a load of supplies already, sleeping bags, med kit, meds for illness and pain, weapons to defend myself, and ways to get money on my own. One of the people i'm going to be running away with has ways to have other people who are going to help us out mail them things. I believe they're going to be getting supplies from 3 different people. And my second friend just recently agreed to join, and they have to get out of there as soon as they can. They're the one being physically and emotionally abused. I was going to drive until we got to the meeting point where me and my first friend were going to meet. Then we were going to drive out of the state and over to my next friend. As soon as we got a state away from the last pickup location we would bike to our destination.
I'm aware of a few saftey concerns but i wanted to see if i could be brought up to speed with anything else. Like i previously stated i want to see the situation from an outside perspective. We're going to go through with it and plan to take fairly extreme precautions to ensure our safety. I'm more concerned with the safety of the two others, considering i'm fairly well built. The other two are shorter and not as strong as i am. I fear they may not be able to defend themselves if i'm not around. Other than that i don't have very many concerns.
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