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  • Guest
    Guest replied
    What happens if you runa way and still attend the same school, will your parents find you there?

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  • ccsmod1
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hey there,

    Thanks for reaching out today. If you are 18, you are free and independent, as you say. We aren't legal experts here at NRS, but generally speaking, your mother can call the police if you leave, but they most likely won't take action. What is most important is that you are safe and have a way to take care of your daily needs: housing, food, clothes, etc.

    Hope this helps and if you have more questions, or would like to go into the situation in-depth, please do not hesitate to reach out again by chatting in or calling us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. We're here at the National Runaway Safeline 24/7. Good luck.

    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I’m 18 and I leaves without telling my mother where I am going, all because she gets so emotional and wants to be over protective. But she want to call the cops on me known am a legal adult. What can I do? I just want to be free and independent from her!

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  • ccsmod16
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi,
    Thanks for reaching out, we are glad that you did. It sounds like there is something going on at home that is making you want to leave. And your plan is to fly to another state. Each airline will have their own policies about minors flying alone. You will need to present identification and a driver's license or state ID are most common. At 15, you may not have either of those.
    Also, you didn't mention your plan for where you would live in the other state, which is troubling to us, since thinking of a place to runaway to is a big hurdle for most youth we talk with.
    We hope very much that you will reach out to one of our platforms where we can have a conversation about this. You can either call out hotline at 1-800-786-2929 (1-800-RUNAWAY) or via live chat through this website. We are here to help keep youth safe and off the streets, so we hope to hear from you soon.
    Sincerely,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I am 15 and live in Georgia and i am planning on go to another state but when i go to the airport would they need my parents permission

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  • ccsmod5
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,
    While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions. You may find it helpful to find out if your mom has any custody over you, so then you would still be with a legal guardian.
    You mentioned experiencing emotional abuse which may be reportable against your dad. Please keep in mind you by no means deserve any type of abuse, emotional or otherwise. Unfortunately, emotional abuse is often harder to provide evidence for compared to physical abuse which is often what CPS relies on when conducting an abuse investigation. That said, we can’t be 100% sure what the outcome will be if your local CPS decides to open a case based on what you share. Sometimes CPS decides to remove minors from the home and other times they offer services such as family counseling or mediation instead. The only way to know the outcome might be to reach out to them directly and if you’re ready to do that we are here to help you through that process. Reaching out to Child Help USA at 1-800-422-4453 or www.childhelp.org may help to get a better understanding of what may happen before and after a report is made.
    We hope this helps. Please reach out if we can offer any further support.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I am 16 about to be 17 in September and I want to leave my dad's house. I have been going through mental abuse since I was 6 years old and I can't deal with it anymore. If I went to my mom's and stayed there on my dad's week, or went somewhere safe, would I get in trouble? I would still be able to attend school as well. I just really need to get out of this situation.

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  • ccsmod15
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
    While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Since your mom has majority custody it is likely that your dad cannot make a runaway report though since your mom has a legal right for you to stay with her still. It would potentially turn into more of a court battle so police may choose to not get involved. To check and make sure you may want to reach out to a legal expert of some kind through legal aid services.
    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    so my parents are divorced. i turn 18 in 4 months and live with my father who is an emotional abuser and i feel mentally and sometimes physically unsafe in my home. if i run away to my mothers (who had majority custody). could my father still legally get me back even if it is now my own decision and i am about to be an adult anyway?

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  • ccsmod15
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
    While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Your brother will likely not have guardianship over you to be able to make a report, it can only be done by your guardian. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.
    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I'm staying at a friends and my grandma knows where I am, just not the address. Well, my brothers threatening to call 911 an file me as a runaway. What do I do? I'm scared.

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  • ccsmod13
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,

    Thank you for taking the time to reach out to us here at NRS. It sounds like there is a lot that you are faced with at home and you are thinking that leaving might be your best option. You mentioned that you have had a lot of problems and stress going on at home which can definitely get overwhelming. Home is supposed to be somewhere you can feel safe and you deserve to feel supported.

    It seems you are interested in learning more about runaway laws. 18 is usually the age you are able to leave home without permission. In the event that you decide to leave without permission, your parents can choose to report you as a runaway. You will not get into any legal trouble, but the police would most likely return you home. Where you live is generally not up to police, so they would have to bring you back home even if you are somewhere safe. One way to avoid this would be to get your parent's permission to live somewhere else. We understand that might be challenging, however, maybe there’s another family member, relative, or another trusted adult who could help to communicate how you’re feeling to your parents. The second way is through Child Protective Services if safety is a concern. If this is the case you can speak with an advocate at an organization called Child Help to learn more about what the reporting process might look like for you and what CPS could possibly do to help, www.childhelp.org.

    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.

    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

    Be safe and stay strong,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Im 14 and my parents are separated and i have been going through things at home. My dad wont let me go places but he lets my brother go anywhere he wants. I am getting emotionally abused and i want to run away but if my dad files a run away report wi i have to go back to him. If i am living in a good environment and still going to school can i still stay at the place i choose to stay at?

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  • ccsmod15
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY. Unfortunately, emotional abuse is often harder to provide evidence for compared to physical abuse which is often what CPS relies on when conducting an abuse investigation. That said, we can’t be 100% sure what the outcome will be if your local CPS decides to open a case based on what you share. Sometimes CPS decides to remove minors from the home and other times they offer services such as family counseling or mediation instead. The only way to know the outcome might be to reach out to them directly and if you’re ready to do that we are here to help you through that process.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    hi im 16 i live with my grandparents in Texas i just cant take it anymore my step grandpa is just so confusing at one moment hes as nice as he could be then the next hes in your face screaming at you telling me im stupid or something like that hes lived with me for 5 years now my mantel health is just detreating hes 70 but was a cop for 22 years we got physical once i have a scare on my back now i dont want to report him cose my grandma is happy for once but i dont think so anymore he will degrade her if she tries to stick up for me i want to leave but i live in a small town and im in texas so i couldnt cros the border cose its so big i know if im under 18 i cant but i need help i cant take it anymore also i cant talk here cose im on a school computer and i cant on my phone it has parental control just send me an email i feel like i dont have any conrol in my life
    Last edited by ccsmod15; 02-01-2021, 04:08 PM. Reason: Removed personal identifying info.

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