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    ccsmod10
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  • ccsmod10
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    Thank you for reaching out to us on behalf of you friend. We are sorry to hear that your friend is going through a difficult time right now and hopefully we can help. Some options you could consider would be programs like Job Corps and AmeriCorps. They are programs for young adults where you are provided food and housing and they also help them develop life skills and build their resume with work experience. You can look more into their programs at https://www.jobcorps.gov/ and https://www.nationalservice.gov/programs/americorps.

    Another option would be looking into transitional housing. Transitional Living Programs (TLP'S) often provide things like housing, employment aid and counseling for young adults. You or your friend could give us a call and we can look for TLP’S in their area. We can also look for basic shelters in their area as well but these options are more short term.

    If you would like to talk more about the details of your friends situation so that we can work towards a solution they would find acceptable please feel free to call our 24 hour hotline at 1-800Runaway (786-2929) or use our live chat. We hope this information was helpful and take care.
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    My friend is 18 and wants to get out of a difficult home life but can’t afford an apartment and has no one to stay with. Any suggestions that I could give her on somewhere she can go??

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  • ccsmod2
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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for contacting The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are going through a really difficult time, it must be hard to have your family not trust and believe you. One option is you could try talking to your family about why they do not believe you. At NRS we offer conference calling where if you call us we can call out to your parents and help you have that conversation. Conference calling allows you to be heard and we are there to mediate the conversation and provide support.
    You mentioned hating your life and that you wish you were never born. We are sorry that you are feeling that way. We want you to know that you are valuable and worth living. There is always someone who is willing to listen and provide support. If you are ever feeling suicidal or just need someone to talk to you can call The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at: 1800-273-8255.
    You also mentioned wanting to run away from home, your safety is our top concern. We are not legal experts but we do have some knowledge about the laws. If you were to leave home without permission your parents do have the right to file a runaway report if you are minor. If the police do find you they would most likely bring you back home. If you need help looking for a shelter you can give us a call and we can help look for shelters in your area.
    We hope this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore your options more please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and to provide support to you. We wish you the best of luck!
    NRS
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    Sometime I feel like running away out from my parents house. I'm disable more like crazy my parents blamed everything to me. my sister bought a sack of weed & it was smelling ungly in my room so i throw it out from my house.. later they think i smoke it & i told them i throw it.my mom does trust me I'm her favorite she rather listen to my sister than me I told them i throw it they don't trust me at all I hate my life why did god give me a life I wish I was never be born. I can't go no where or have a girlfriend because my parents they are cock blocking me for everything So that's why I'm running away from home I wish I could tell this to grandma she will understand. But is to late rip grandma .. all my life I been put down by them my parent .. Do u think is better living with foster parents ....

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hello there, thank you for reaching out today.

    Sounds like you are looking for independence from your family and help with getting on your feet. without them. It's understandable that you are looking to learn basic stills.There may be social service agencies in your area that can help meet some of these needs, such as Transitional Living Programs, a kind of shelter where young adults can live and get services to help them transition to independent living. They generally help folks obtain a job, work on educational goals if you have them, and also with life coaching services to teach you how to live on your own. Please call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY or chat us at www.1800runaway.org if you are interested in those services.

    We hope this information is helpful. Please contact us for those transitional living program resources.

    Best,

    NRS
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    I’m 19 and from North Carolina and I need a way out. My family feels like they have to hold my hand every step of the way and it’s driving me crazy. I’ve been ready to leave and start my life on my own for a long time now. But I have no housing situation while I get my feet on the ground. Not to mention because of their hand holding I’m rather lazy and have trouble doing basic things because they never taught me. I need someplace safe to go to and a place where I can learn basic things like driving and how to fold laundry properly. Please help.

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  • ccsmod10
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  • ccsmod10
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    Thank you for reaching out to us and telling us your story. It sounds like you are going through a very difficult time right now and we hope to be able to help. We want you to know that here at the National Runaway Safeline we don’t judge or tell you what to do. Our main concern is your safety and providing you with support and as much information as possible before you decide what is best for you. We will never know the pain that you are going through but we can understand what it must be like to feel like you are alone.

    We’re not legal experts here at NRS. Generally it’s not illegal to leave home, but your parents could file a runaway report, the police could get involved, and they could bring you home. The people you’re staying with could potentially get charged with harboring a minor depending on how old you are and the state you are in. You could consider calling your local non-emergency police department to ask about their policies. We also have legal aid resources here if you have specific questions about the laws in your state.

    If you don’t feel safe and feel like you need to get away Nationalsafeplace.org provides a safe location for you to meet a staff member who can take you to a designated place where you can discuss all options about how to stay safe. You can text 44357 the word “safe,” and your location to find a safe location in your area. Once you arrive let someone who works there know you need help connecting with a staff member. We can also look up local shelters for you to see if there are any available in your area if you needed a place to stay for a few nights.
    Sometimes having someone to talk to about what is going on at home can be helpful. If you are in school talking to a school counselor could be helpful or if you wanted other resources in your area the National Alliance on Mental Illness can be a great resource to find support. They could be reached at 1-800-950-NAMI or NAMI.org.

    One service we can offer is to conference call with your parents. This way you could have a conversation with your parents but you would not be alone. For example, it may be hard for you to explain to your parents how you’ve been feeling emotionally and why you want to leave. Sometimes those conversations go better in a conference call because we can advocate for you. If you want to reach us, you can chat with us anytime at 1800runaway.org or call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. We’re here 24/7, and we are ready to listen and help however we can.

    -NRS
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    I want to runaway from home so bad but I have no where to go like ******** man nothings here for me anymore, I need something to make me happy and there is one person but she’s the only person I have left and I know some time sooner or later she’ll leave and I’ll have no one, you will never understand the pain I feel but please please give me advise on what to do, like don’t just tell me not to runaway I need advise on where to go and what to do, be a friend, not a anti-runaway website

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  • ccsmod3
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for reaching out to NRS and sharing your situation. It sounds like things are very stressful at home right now with your parents. We at NRS are absolutely here to help in any way we can and along with that is making sure you have a safe place to stay. We can be reached online at www.1800runaway.org via our online chat or over the phone 24/7 at 1-800-786-2929 and have a large database of resources including youth shelters and support services. Another resource to try if looking for a shelter is www.homelessshelterdirectory.org or dialing 211 for shelters in your area. We are also here to discuss everything going on at home and provide any support we can. Another option to consider would be reaching out to trusted family members or family friends who may be able to help facilitate a conversation between you and you’re parents and provide you support.
    We are here to help and hope to hear from you soon.

    Best of Luck,
    NRS
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    I'm 16 and I just can't do it with my parents anymore I left home today, but I have nowhere to go I don't know what to do.

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  • ccsmod5
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  • ccsmod5
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    Hi,
    Thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you’re in a difficult situation and it takes a lot of courage to reach out for support. We are a youth crisis hotline, so we may not have a ton of resources in our database that are appropriate for 24-year-olds; that being said, often transitional living programs serve people up to 24 years old, so feel free to give us a call and we can try to find one for you. Another option is calling 211 (also known as the United Way) for local resources. One more option to try is hud.gov, which has housing resources available by city and state; there may be an agency near you that can help you figure out your next steps.
    Finally, it’s really kind of you to think about others when you say “it doesn’t seem right to take resources from people that are worse off.” We want to let you know that you deserve to be in a situation that feels safe. It is not okay for your mom to get violent with you and it sounds like home is a scary place. These resources are meant for people just like yourself who are in a rough patch and need a safe place to go. Please remember that you deserve support no matter the relative severity of your situation.
    Take care and good luck,
    NRS
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    I'm 24 and live in Wichita, KS. My mother's emotional outbursts are getting more and more violent and I need out. Problem is I don't make enough to rent an apartment and I'm in the middle of getting my degree (online so dorms aren't an option). Are there living options for me? I've tried looking but the results I get are for abuse victims and homeless and it doesn't seem right to take resources from people that are worse off. I have no other family in the area and only one friend and she's not in a position to help aside from letting me use her kitchen. Right now my option is to live in my car. I just need a safe place to sleep. I can work out the rest on my own.Thank you.

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  • ccsmod2
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  • ccsmod2
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    Thank you for reaching out to us here at National Runaway Safeline. We understand that it takes courage to seek help. It sounds like you want to leave your house. You could try asking your guardian if they would allow you to stay with another family member or close friend. Another option that you have is contact CPS if you don't feel safe at home. We hope that this information helps, please feel free to contact us directly via our 24 hour crisis hotline (1-800-786-2929), email, or live chat.
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    I want to leave my house beacuse I’m usless and nobody really wants me at the house either way, If i were to be in the streets I really don’t know what i would do since I’m only 15 and can’t get a job

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  • ccsmod7
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  • ccsmod7
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    Hello there, thanks for reaching out today. Sounds like you are enduring more than anyone should ever have to go through at home.We are so sorry to hear that you are going through that. You so deserve to be treated respect, and to live free of violence. Unfortunately, our knowledge and expertise are limited to the United States so we are not really able to help. You might reach out to the Dubai Foundation for Women and Children at 971-4-606-0300, they might be more help since they are local to you.

    We truly wish you the best,

    NRS
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