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  • #31
    Seems like a tough situation...
    Last edited by ccsmod7; 10-08-2019, 02:41 PM.

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    • ccsmod7
      ccsmod7 commented
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      Thank you for your response to another user’s post. Often forums are a place of support and understanding for many youth. It often may be validating and helpful for users to read similar situations as well as exchange feedback to one another. For anyone experiencing any difficulties or challenges, the National Runaway Safeline encourages youth to reach out to our 24/7 crisis support line either by phone or chat for immediate services.

      Thank you,

      NRS

  • #32
    I’m 15 I just got beat all aver my back and bottom with a bat because I told her I didn’t want to clean up my brothers mess and that I was busy doing school work so she grabbed my ear and drug me into her room and beat me I’m to scared to call someone for help as I don’t know if anyone will even care about it what should I do

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      Hey there, thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little of what is going on. NRS is a great first step in finding resources and getting some help for yourself. We’re sorry to hear there’s abuse at home, that isn’t easy to deal with and not something you should have to go through, especially as a 15-year-old. Taking this first step takes a lot of courage, and we recognize how strong you are to deal with this situation and figure out what options are available to you.

      There are some resources that we can give you to help you get support for the abuse you’re experiencing and help you figure out what your next step would be. Child Help is a great hotline, which has chat and phone services available 24/7 at either 1-800-422-4453 or childhelp.org, and they can help give you more information or file a child abuse report. You can also call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY(786-2929), and we can help submit that report for you. If you feel comfortable, you could call a friend, relative, or adult you trust to help get you out of your situation, or to just get you some extra support and help you feel less alone while you figure out what you want to do.

      If you’re able to, you could also call us, or chat with us online, and we can try to help you find some additional resources specific to your area. Like we said before, the situation your in is difficult and we want you to know you are not alone. We can discuss your options with you if you’d like, as well as answer other questions you may have. We’re confidential and anonymous. We’re also here just to listen, if that’s what you need. If you want more information about cps reporting, what that means, or what that can look like for you, we are here to help guide you throughout that process and report with you. We wish you the best of luck in your situation, and we’re here to help you as best we can every step of the way

  • #33
    My mom always beat me up if I did something wrong today she just hit me because I did not clean my room like she wanted I still live her and my dad is like her

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      Hi there,

      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

      Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
      We hope to hear from you soon.

      Be safe,
      NRS

  • #34
    Im 11 years old and this takes place wensday We had a Csa today and my teacher said yesterday we can move if we need more space and if it will be better focus talking about during the Csa so she changed my sit and put me in the front i moved and she called my mom and said that i was being disrespectful and being the class clown but i wasnt then i got home my mom called me into her room and beat me with a hanger she beat me for 15 minutes and i have bruies all over my body she takes my phone when i tell her the teacher is lying i told my grandma and she said its okay dont cry but its not okay i dont feel safe around her and this is not the first time this happened but she beat me with a belt for 30 minutes and pulled me by my hair down the hall i had carput burn and she slapped me so hard i had a hand mark their for 2 weeks what do i do because at this point i wanna die and feel like i dont need to be on this earth

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    • ccsmod2
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      Hello There,
      Thank you so much for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline and sharing some of your story with us.
      It seems you are going through a lot right now both at home and at school. You do not deserve to be abused, abuse is never acceptable. You have the right to report the abuse, there are a few ways you can make a report. One way to make a report would be calling the police and telling them what happened. Another option to make a report would be to call Child Help at: 1800-422-4453. A third option would be to talk with your school counselor, because they are mandated reporters they are required to make a report.
      Also you mentioned not wanting to be on this earth anymore. We want you to know that you are valuable and worth living. If you are ever feeling suicidal please call National Suicide Prevention Hotline at: 1800-273-8255. There is always someone willing to listen and provide support to you.
      We hope this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore options please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and provide support to you. Stay strong, best of luck!
      NRS

  • #35
    I'm sitting here crying I don't know what to do anymore my mom beat me because I wanted to finish my homework and she wanted me to go do laundry I can't do this anymore she controls my life she doesn't care about me at all she adopted me at like she three but she has made me cry almost every day of my life I can't do this anymore suicide is the only thing that's left to do I’m 15. By the way goodbye world.
    Last edited by ccsmod4; 10-31-2019, 03:42 AM.

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      Hi,
      It sounds like you are thinking about harming yourself or ending your life. It takes a lot of strength to reach out for help, and we are so glad that you did. Your life has worth and our top priority is your safety. If you feel this is an emergency you could consider calling 911 for emergency assistance. We are here to listen and support you in any way that we can, and we can help you find resources that can help you cope with these feelings. You do not have to face this alone, and there is so much help out there for you. You don’t deserve to be abused by anyone, please try to understand that it is not your fault that this is happening and you can get help with the situation.
      Your safety and well-being is important. Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
      If you are thinking about hurting yourself, the National Suicide Hotline could be a good resource for you. You can check them out at www.youmatter.suicidepreventionlifeline.org, or you can call 1-800-273-8255 for help and support any time. You can also call us 24/7 at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) if you need to talk.
      Stay strong and take care,
      NRS

  • #36
    My mom has been yelling at me every day since I started my sixth school year. I went to my friend's house to practice my trombone. When I came home, I saw her leaving for work, and I went to hug her, but she yelled at me for pretty much coming home. My mom just got mad at me because I didn't brush, I didn't do some bull******** khan academy, and text in the morning. Then she beat me up for lying and she said that she doesn't care what happens to me she doesn't even care if I die. Then she told me to empty my room and get out. When I was going to empty my room, she asked me what I was doing. I told her I was doing what she said, then she started beating me up like I was a servant. Pulling my hair, slapping me, pinching me hard, and when I was on the floor, she started kicking me like I was a servant. I just want to commit die. I'm literally in tears as I'm writing this because it was so painful.

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      That sounds extremely intense and we are so sorry to hear you are being abused like that. You certainly do not deserve to be treated like you describe by anyone, let alone your mother. Just so you know, you have the right to make an abuse report with your local police or your state's child abuse reporting hotline. But that's up to you. We never tell anyone what to do. If you do decide to report, however, and want support in doing so, you can file the report through us by calling us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. Again, that's just one option.

      It's totally understandable that you are very upset over what happened. We are concerned when you talk about suicide, though. Your safety is our biggest priority. You deserve to feel safe and have a good life. It's really helpful to talk through these very intense thoughts and feelings. If you ever are feeling suicidal, you can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or call us at NRS. Of course, if you're in immediate danger, dial 911.

      Being able to express what you are feeling and going through is so important. Perhaps that's an adult that you trust, like another family member, teacher, school counselor, or someone else. Again, we also are here for you and really hope that you give us a call so we can brainstorm some ideas on how you'd like to proceed with your situation. You can reach us at 1-800-RUNAWAY or using our chatroom via our website: www.1800runaway.org.

      Please be safe. You don't have to face this alone. We're here to listen, here to help.

      NRS

  • #37
    I am being bullied in school. I am being hit, pushed and cussed out.

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    • ccsmod2
      ccsmod2 commented
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      Thank you for reaching out to National Runaway Safeline. You don’t deserve to be treated this way. It is very upsetting to be treated meanly and physical abuse can be reported directly to the authorities or to your school.

      It is a very difficult situation to be in. This is an immediate safety concern. There are many different ways to try to get some help. There are support web site where they offer suggestions and help specifically regarding bullying. Here are some: www.stopbullying.gov, www.netsmartz.org, www.pacer.org/bullying, www.beatbullying.org.


      Since it is at school you may want to reach out to your school counselor especially if it is happening during school hours and on campus. If you are afraid of them you might want to ask how you could do this anonymously. If you do not get action then there is the next level of getting your parents and/or the police involved.

      Again, we are really glad that you reached out to us. It takes a lot to ask for help and you are trying to figure out you options which is really good to see. If you would like to talk further about your situation, please do not hesitate to call or chat with us. We are here to listen and here to help. Call us on the phone at 1-800-RUNAWAY. Or chat on line with us at 1800RUNAWAY.ORG.

  • #38
    I already talked to the principal.

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    • ccsmod13
      ccsmod13 commented
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      Hi there,

      Talking to your principal was a really smart thing to do. Often the more adults who know that you are not being treated the way you deserve, the better they will be able to support you. We truly want to be a support for you while you navigate this challenging time. We will better be able to brainstorm options with you if we are able to talk more in detail about your situation. Sometimes having a safe space to talk through things can help you discover ideas and strategies you did not think of previously. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon. Sometimes having a safe space to talk through things can help you discover ideas and strategies you did not think of previously.

      Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

      We hope to hear from you soon,
      NRS

  • #39
    My always makes a big deal about everything even about the little thing if we don’t clean something and she always gets on to me this is what happen this year and I regret not leaving the house when she did it so basically she hit me with a cable she folded the cable 4 times and whooped me with it 20 times and left me purple blue marks and they hurt then she told me to get the scissors and I gave them to her I had very long hair I loved it and she new that and guess what she cut it all off and this was in summer and I hated my cut it looked like a boys hair cut and every time I think about he time she did that I hate for it and I cry my eyes out and I just don’t feel she’s my mother no notebook I hate her like I can’t even say I love her no more because i don’t know what she turned in to I hate my life I just want to run away some times with my dad but I cant do that because then my dad is going to take me back home and my mom will do the same and high school is hard after what my mom did every time I get in trouble she always has to tell some one like today A teacher called my mom and they said I wasn’t staying after school for noting when I was really and she basically said next time they call her from school she going to Drag me out of school and walk home Dragging me I’m just tired of her she’s talks ******** about me to all her friends and family like I’m not even her daughter and Right now she’s talking to my brothers and sisters about the stuff I did today when. I was just in school like I just want to live with some one else no with her because I can’t even call her my mom all the love I had for her is gone and i will never ever forgive her for what she done to me never like I can’t even call her my mom no more

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    • ccsmod0
      ccsmod0 commented
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      We appreciate you reaching out. We understand it takes a lot of courage to talk about the things you are experiencing at home. No one deserves to be treated the way your mom I treating you. If you would like to consider filing an abuse report, we at the National Runaway Safeline can walk you through that process if you call us at 18007862929. There is also a specific hotline dedicated to discussing incidents of child abuse, and their number is 18004224453. You are welcome to call us or the ChildHelp line. If you would like to talk about your situation in more detail, we are here for you and could help you explore options to finding a safer living situation.

      Best,
      NRS
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