Mom makes me hate life.

[Guest]

So well I'm 20 I live with Mom. I know I need to move out but I can't. My mom suffers with mental health problems. She has put me into 5000$ worth of debt on credit cards.
when I wake up I don't know if it's going to be a good day or a bad one. 50% I wake up to being screamed at, blamed for everything wrong in life, today specifically she screamed saying I never help her, she left home in the morning at 9am which I was unaware, I missed University today because I have snapped a lot of muscles in my leg and can barely move but I've been driving her everywhere for the last week with tears in my eyes because of pain she just doesn't care and says "so what I'm a 50 year old woman". Nothing j ever do makes her happy. I just don't know what to do, it's constant screaming and abuse in my life at this point.

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Hello,
Thank you for reaching out to us during this difficult time. It sounds like home is a toxic environment for you and you have an unhealthy relationship with your mother. Nobody deserves to be abused or screamed at in their own home. Since you over the age of 18, you can legally leave home. If leaving home is not an option, you might want to consider seeking family counseling with your mom. If she is not willing to go to counseling, you could still get some for yourself through your University. It also sounds like you might have a medical issue with snapped leg muscles so it might be a good idea to see if your school has a student health center. It also sounds like your mom may have committed credit card fraud by taking out loans in your name. You have the right to control your own finances as well and can talk to a bank or a credit card company about those charges. Please call us at the National Runaway Safeline at 1-800-786-2929 if you would like to discuss further options. We wish you the best of luck, please stay safe!