lost and broken

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im 16 years old and im 7 months pregnant...everything jus turned up side down and i feel lik ive damaged my future and my repetition, i dropped out of high school n the people i think that loved me and are there for me just disappear,my parents were disappointed and it brought them to tears...both my family and my boyfriend family are embarrassed of my situation,so my mom called every single person she knew to pour her heart out and then toke me to the hospital to get an abortion but it was too late so i had to keep the baby. my mom didnt want anyone around the area to see me like this so she moved in in with one of his friends after that day i never hear back from my parents..my boyfriend and i are the same age n hes in school and cant find a job, my mom find almost everything for me and while his family barely supports...my mom jus throws everything in my face and tells me everything on her chest.the people i stay by looks down on me but tries to help and i just feel like i can disappear from everyone i know forever, its like i want nothing to to do with them anymore and im planing o running soon but how will my child survive

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Re: lost and broken

Hello,

We are glad you wrote to us. It really sounds like you are facing difficult times. It is important that you know that you are not alone; there are resources that exist to listen and support you emotionally as well as with other needs. Along with these resources, which vary depending on where you live, you will be able to handle this situation. It may be a challenging time for you, but you can handle this.

You will undoubtedly have to face many tough decisions. It is important that you consider those options.

Below you will find 2 websites that will offer you some options to consider, please know that if you are feeling heavy weighing these options that you can call us. You can call us to discuss any feelings, thoughts or choices you are experiencing 24 hours/day, 365 days/year.

Websites to look through:

http://pregnancy.lovetoknow.com/wiki...Pregnant_Teens (scroll through the home page of this website; you will find at the very bottom “Resources for Difficult Decisions.” Again, you can call us anytime, but there are other resources to help you, as well.)

http://www.modernmom.com/89572a26-3b...64e04a41e.html (financial resources)

While going through these websites, we recommend making a list of things to do, that can help you feel like you have some organization and control over the situation; it can make things feel more manageable (even though it may be a long list!). Then, take your time, and also, take one thing at a time.

We are sorry to hear that your family and your boyfriend’s family are not offering support; that is unfortunate. You are not alone, though, even without their support. You can make good decisions for you and your baby. We (and other resources) can help you.

Stay Strong. Be Well.

NRS