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    I was in the hospital for 5 weeks for suicide attempt and they gave me depression pills for my thoughts and feelings and my mom threw them away and she said she is not giving me anymore and I was supposed to go to the doctors and get a blood test and my mom said she wasn't going to do it. I talked they say that I should go to the doctor that I shouldn't be off them I am only 17 in Hanover pa 17331.when I was little about maybe 13 I have no phone or computer kr anything my mom punched me in the mouth and nose both of them bleed and all I did was yell all she did was laugh at me. I can't talk Rob the phone or hang out with friends and my mom said emailing my uncle is inappropriate I can't even get a job and one time was on my phone and she punched me into plastic bins and chairs and got my leg marked up and black and blue I have images of that and she always puts me down emotional and mentally she had hurt me plenty of times growing up she tried to choked me I have had children and youth here 3 times they closed my case and saw nothing my mom lies about the whole thing and will also deny it and she will make it sound like I want attention or something when I don't I just want to be free and saftley there us more everyone believes her cause she is so nice and stuff so when I try to tell then they don't believe me and laugh.what i am trying to say what can I do and if I runaway what would happen would the cops have to send me none of I say I don't want to go back there can you give me more information

  • #2
    Reply: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

    Hello,
    Thanks for contacting the National Runaway Safeline.

    It sounds like you have been through quite an ordeal in the past weeks or so.
    We commend you for wanting to take care of your health and reaching out to NRS.
    It took courage making the decision to look for help. Good for you.

    You do not by any means deserve to be abused by your mother. You are not responsible for her actions. Your safety is important so it might be a good idea to consider a safety plan if you feel at risk.

    This might be calling the police, a family member or friend.
    Getting to a safe place like police station, friend or family members house.
    There may also be emergency shelters for at risk youth in your area.
    You have the right to want to feel safe at home.
    You can request the police contact Child Protective Services if you are afraid to go home and feel ready to file an abuse report.

    Does that make sense?

    You are very brave to reach out and tell us about your situation.
    You are welcome to call 1-800-Runaway (786-2929) or live chat with NRS at www.1800Runaway.org

    We hope that you will remain safe.

    Take Care,
    NRS
    Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

    National Runaway Safeline
    [email protected] (Crisis Email)
    1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)

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    • #3
      Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

      I feel like if I leave and the cops find me and I tell them I don't want to go back home and show them my pictures and my life story if they would take me back what evidence would I need to show police and Is child protection services children and you I had children and youth here 3 times and they closed my case cause they didn't see anything
      I am afraid to tell police caus if they don't find her guilty and I have to go back home it will get worse

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      • #4
        RE: Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

        Hi there,

        Thank you for writing to us here at the National Runaway Safeline (NRS). From what you shared, it seems you’ve been hurt by those closest to you. You mentioned that there was a case with CPS and home visits were conducted about three times already, however, the cases were closed. It sounds disappointing and frustrating to not have the support you are looking. We're sorry you're feeling alone in this. We cannot say whether or not the police would make you go back home. If you’re feeling unsafe and need a safe place to go and talk to someone, we can provide some resources for you or you may wish to visit The National Safeplace website (www.nationalsafeplace.org). This organization provides access to immediate help and supportive resources for youth in need. You can look up your city and state to see if there are any safe places near you listed. So that is always an option if you feel like talking to someone in person about what has been going on or if you just need of a safe place to stay.

        You also may use your phone to text the word “safe” and your current location (city/state/zip) to 69866. If there are safe places and shelters nearby, a list of those will be sent to your phone and you may have the option to text back and forth with a trained counselor as well.

        Please be safe and take care,

        NRS
        Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

        National Runaway Safeline
        [email protected] (Crisis Email)
        1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)

        Tell us what you think about your experience!
        https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/YourOpinionMattersToUs

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        • #5
          Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

          These resources are not where I live and don't work on my phone and there is no way for me to call the cops to get help I need help bad and I want to be out of the house before they talk to my mom

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          • #6
            Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

            Hello,
            Thank you for taking the time to write to us here at the National Runaway Safeline.
            We are sorry to hear that you have tried using the resources that we provided for you but there are not services in your area. You mentioned that you have no way of contacting to police. If you like we can call them for you. All you have to do is give us a call first and we can connect you.
            We do not want to leave you without options because your safety is our number one priority. We hope you can think over the option of calling us if you wish to further discuss alternatives. Be safe and good luck.

            1-800-RUNAWAY
            Last edited by ccsmod0; 08-07-2016, 10:46 PM.
            Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

            National Runaway Safeline
            [email protected] (Crisis Email)
            1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)

            Tell us what you think about your experience!
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            • #7
              Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

              There is no way I can call you my phone is not activated and I. Can't use the house phone I would get into trouble I just want to be gone before they talk to her

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              • #8
                RE: Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

                Hello again,

                Understandably you are trying to get to a safe place. If/when you do leave, it is important to think about where you can go. Turning to a trusted adult, friend, or family member can help. If you don't have anyone close to turn to, then it may help going straight to the police department, fire department, emergency hospital/clinic, or a local business to ask to use a phone or have them help you reach out to police for emergency help. If you are able to get to a payphone, our phone number is toll-free which means it would not cost you anything.

                We want to help in any way we can, but there is little help that we can offer through our online forums.

                Stay safe,

                NRS
                Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

                National Runaway Safeline
                [email protected] (Crisis Email)
                1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)

                Tell us what you think about your experience!
                https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/YourOpinionMattersToUs

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                • #9
                  Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

                  Is there somewhere I can Stay for one day I have no where to sleep

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                  • #10
                    Re: RE: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

                    Hello there –

                    Thanks for taking the time out of your day to get into contact with us here at the National Runaway Safeline on our public forum. There are places that will let you stay for a day or two depending on your age. But since you didn’t include any location or age, it’s hard for us to search our database. If you give us a call on our 24/7 hotline at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) we could help you find resources in your area and could potentially help you brainstorm a possible solution to the issues you are having. We would love to talk to you about what has been going on recently that is making you want to leave home. We also have an online chat service available every day. We can even help you call out to a shelter of you’re a little scared to do so on your own.

                    Hope to hear from you soon!
                    Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

                    National Runaway Safeline
                    [email protected] (Crisis Email)
                    1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)

                    Tell us what you think about your experience!
                    https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/YourOpinionMattersToUs

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                    • #11
                      Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

                      Hanover pa can't pay

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                      • #12
                        Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

                        I. Can't stand my mom anymore I can't even stand being in the same room with her talking smack behind my back and hurting my feeling I want to leave and want to leave now I'm done I need out now can't take it anymore on my last straw

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                        • #13
                          Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

                          Hello,
                          Thank you for taking the time to post to us here at the National Runaway Safeline.
                          It sounds like you have had enough of your mother taking about you behind your back and hurting your feelings. You deserve to be treated with love and respect and it sounds like you think that you will be able to find that somewhere else.
                          You mentioned that you want to leave. Have you given any thought as to where you would go? What you would do for food, safety, and hygiene? Leaving home is a big step and we want to make sure that if this is something that you really want that you have thought about everything completely.
                          We want you to know that we recognize that it takes a lot of courage to reach out. We hope this information helps. If you feel comfortable you can give us a call and one of our trained liners will be happy to talk to you more about what is going on. 1-800-RUNAWAY
                          Hope to hear from you soon.
                          Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

                          National Runaway Safeline
                          [email protected] (Crisis Email)
                          1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)

                          Tell us what you think about your experience!
                          https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/YourOpinionMattersToUs

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                          • #14
                            Re: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

                            Have no money and no place to go I have enough clothing I don't know what to do for food shelter and hygiene or even a shower I can't stand her lying and her abuse towards me she said I would never get a job and stuff please help me I'm 17 in the Hanover pa area I still want to go to school its ky last year I am tired I just had enough when were in he sane room i want to tell her off ot just scream can you help me leave this place and how I can do it and what are my options I want someone to listen to me and believe my side

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                            • #15
                              Reply: can my mom call the cops and bring me home if leave

                              Hello,
                              Thanks for contacting the National Runaway Safeline.

                              We are sorry to hear about your current situation.
                              You do not deserve to be abused. There is no excuse for this kind of behavior.
                              You are not at fault.
                              Reaching out to NRS was a good first step. Great job.
                              It must be upsetting to live at home under such stressful conditions.
                              We understand your feelings.

                              We would like to be of help to you and would like to hear more about your situation.
                              Please give us a call at 1-800-Runaway (786-2929) to talk about your situation and explore options.

                              Take Care,
                              NRS
                              Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

                              National Runaway Safeline
                              [email protected] (Crisis Email)
                              1-800-RUNAWAY (24 Hour Hotline)

                              Tell us what you think about your experience!
                              https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/YourOpinionMattersToUs

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