Emotional abuse

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Hello im haley the girl who is not normal here , i've been having problems with my parents im 17 and they been emotionally abusing me like threatening me over my boyfriend they dont like him , my dad wants to hurt him badly to go to jail , and i know i snuck out once buts its not on my record , my mom says my opinion doesn't matter , i don't know how many times i wanna run away , my parents both call me names , like your a slut , nasty , hoe , ********** because he took my virginity and i let him. My dad has put bruises on me before ever since i started dating him , they try to take my money away , .my mom gets in my private things like my diary which i bought myself , and she calls the police of how sneaky i am and abusive towards her , i don't feel safe in this house , and i have my own life now , i have a boyfriend who cares , but not parents , last night she threatened to call the cops if i didn't break up with him , or anything stupid. My mom makes me feel like i can't do anything right or im not a good person.

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First of all, thanks for reaching out. It sounds like you’re in a very difficult situation. Abuse is never okay, and you deserve to be safe where you live. One thing you may consider is filing an abuse report by contacting Child Help at childhelp.org or 1-800-422-4453. This could help your situation in the event your mom decides to call the cops on you.
It sounds like you and your boyfriend are not safe at home based on the threats made by your mom and dad. If you were to consider running away to live with your boyfriend, you may want to think about making a safety plan. A safety plan means thinking about how you will meet your basic needs, how you will stay safe not just from your parents but thinking about new risks, and finally making a backup plan if your plans don’t work out as expected. If this is something you would like assistance with, please call us us at 1-800-RUNAWAY or start a chat at 1800runaway.org. We are here 24/7 to listen and help, and we’re completely confidential.