i dunno what else to do

[Guest]

I am 13 And My Life Is messed up I have No one To Talk to I always fight with my mum and dad and they always end up saying get out so my only way to go is out the door i feel alone no one cares i dont feel like i can talk to my friends when i walk out i have no way to go so i have to go back i am always blamed for things and it always ends the same i feel like this is my life fighting and messing up but i want a new life how can i make this happen ??

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Re: i dunno what else to do

Thanks so much for posing on our bulletin boards and sharing a glimpse of what you’ve been dealing with. We hope we can be a safe space for you to feel comfortable expressing your thoughts and feelings. It must be incredibly difficult to always fight with your mom and dad.

Are there ever times with your parents where things are good? If so, what do these times look like? Have you ever been able to express to them how much it hurts to constantly fight and be told you have to leave? Just so you know, if they ever kick you out, this is not something they legally can do. If this happens, you have the right to call the local police or even the Department of Children and Family services. Most likely they would want to explain to your parents that they can’t kick you out because you’re under 18. Just keep that in mind as an option. If something like that ever does happen in the future and you’re not comfortable calling them yourself, you can always call us here at 1-800-RUNAWAY and we can conference a call with either of them.

It sounds like you’re not feeling comfortable or happy at home. This is likely a very tough feeling to be living with. How have you been coping with this? You mentioned that there’s no one you can talk to. Is there anyone in your life that you think would support you if you expressed how you’re feeling right now? Maybe a relative, friend or teacher?

When you say that you want a new life, what exactly do you mean by this? What would a “new life” look like for you? Obviously, we’re not in a position to tell you what to do or what not to do. However, we do want to help you in any way that we can. If there’s anything specific you’d like to see from us, please let us know. Also, if you’re ever able to call u s we would be able to talk to you more in depth about what you’ve been going through. We’re here to listen to you, encourage you and empower you to make the best decision for yourself. Just remember, you’re not alone.