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  • ccsmod11
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    (If you are in danger for any reason, please call the police or go to your local emergency room.)

    Hi there,
    Thanks so much for reaching out to us. It sounds like there is a lot going on at home with your mom right now. The way she treats you does not seem okay, especially that you didn't feel you could cry for 5 years. This situation is difficult for anyone to navigate, let alone a young person like you. We're on your side as you get through this.

    You mentioned you don't want to leave home because she might file a runaway report. While this is correct, we want to make sure you have all the facts about this so you can make the best decision going forward:

    If you choose to leave home without your mom's permission, she could choose to file a runaway report which means the police will find you and bring you home. You won't get in any trouble with the law if this happens, but you will have to face any punishments your mom might have for you. Any person you go stay with over the age of 18 could be charged with harboring a runaway, which is a criminal charge.

    Depending on your age, police may handle runaway cases differently. It may be worth calling your local non-emergency police line to see how they might handle a runaway case for someone your age and in your situation without giving away personal details if leaving home is an option you are considering.

    If you do choose to stay home, do you have friends or family or a teacher or counselor at school you are comfortable talking to about your situation? They may have advice or ideas that may be helpful to you. If you are comfortable doing so, you might even consider having a mature conversation with your mom about how her words make you feel hurt and how they are affecting your mental health. If this is difficult you may even try writing her a letter so that you can make sure you are saying exactly what you want to.

    If you feel there is abuse going on at home, please reach out to us and we will help work with you on what to do next.

    Finally, we want to stress how important self-care is during this time. We want you to know that it's okay to cry if you need to, and it's okay to take time to care for yourself however you need to. This can look like getting enough to eat and getting enough rest and making sure you take as much time as you can for hobbies you enjoy and time with friends.

    We would love to hear more about your story and give you more personalized advice. The NRS is here 24/7 via online chat or by calling 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929). We hope to hear from you soon!
    Good luck!
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    My mother is very narcissistic and always throwing insults my way and comparing to everyone around me and if I try to communicate how I feel to her she just said that I’m “being Weak” and for five years I didn’t cry at all I hate living with her she always bad mouthing about me to everyone she even does it behind my back I’m really getting sick of it my friends said that they would let me stay if I do choose to runaway but I don’t want to “runaway” cause she might file a police report I just want her to let me walk away from her and my family.Omg my family I don’t even want to get started on them and I don’t want to go into detail about my mother.

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  • ccsmod11
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    (If you are in danger for any reason, please call the police or go to your local emergency room.)

    Hi there,
    Thank you so much for reaching out to us. It sounds like you're dealing a lot with home with your mom, and she should NOT be attempting to hit you no matter what you do. We appreciate your strength in reaching out for help.

    Since we don't know your age and more details, it's difficult to share exactly what option might be best for you. Would you consider reaching out to us via chat or by calling us to go over this with a real person? We are completely confidential and no one would know you contacted us. Generally, you might look into talking things over with your mom or trusted people like other family members, friends, or teachers or look into going to stay with a friend or other family with your mom's permission.

    Some important information: If you choose to leave home without your mom's permission, there are some legal things you need to consider. Although we aren't legal experts, if you choose to leave home without your mom's permission, she could choose to file a runaway report which means the police will find you and bring you home. You won't get in any trouble with the law, however you might get in trouble with your mom. However, any person over the age of 18 (in most states) you are staying with could be charged with harboring a runaway, which is a criminal charge. The way to help avoid this is to have them call the police or CPS to let them know you are there.

    Police handle runaway cases differently in different states and even different cities. If you are interested in learning about how your city might handle a runaway case, you might consider calling your local non-emergency police line and asking how they handle runaway cases without giving away personal information.

    Again we wold love to hear more about your story and give you more personalized guidance. The NRS is here 24/7 via online chat or by calling 1-800-RUNAWAY (1-800-786-2929). We hope to hear from you soon! Good luck!
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hello I don’t want to live with my mom anymore cause she is always rude and tries to hit me and I’m tired of it. I’m just over everything what to do

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  • ccsmod10
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
    While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.

    We also understand that dealing with some rules at home can be very challenging! Sometimes we have found that it helps speaking to a trusted adult and/or reaching out to mental health providers for support. We can connect you with mental health resources if you chat or call us and provide your general location.

    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by forum to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    Be safe, NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I hate my mom so much! She’s so strict and rude, I ********ing changed my personality and my behavior and she still doesn’t trust me, she’s a ********ing fat **********! I hate her so much! She put parental controls on my phone and blocked off TikTok and Instagram, it’s not fair! I see teens using Instagram and TikTok all the time and I can’t be like them anymore because my mom is a fat ass stupid nigger, I ********ing want my old life back where I’m on social media having fun and have no parental controls, but my mom is being a ********ing fat ********** and she’s a ********ing nigger, I can’t even use my phone at night anymore because of her stupid ass, I hate living with her, I just wanna kill myself or run away and be homeless or fake my death and start all over again! I need a new home with new family, or maybe I don’t want a family because families ********ing suck so much! I just wish I was alone with no family or a better family, I’m tired of my mom stalking me on my phone, I hate her a lot! I don’t even care about my mom, I only care about social media and internet, I hope that fat faggot dies someday, if she died I wouldn’t care cuz she’s ********ing sensitive faggot. I just wanna ********ing kill her or beat her up! That’s how much I ********ing hate her! Like what else does she ********ing want from me! I ********ing changed my behavior and became a better person and she acts like I’m still the same old person from last time! What a ********ing fat nigger! At this point I would have trusted me and remove the parental controls, if I ever have a son, I would let him do what ever he wants, and I would not raise him the same way my mom raised me because she’s a ********ing **********

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). It sounds like you are having a hard time living at home with your mom, which may be a frustrating and difficult situation for you. Without knowing other details about what’s going on, it is hard to know what your options may be for your situation. If you feel comfortable doing so, you can always reach out to us by calling us at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chat us at www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) so we can talk more about your situation with you. We are always happy to listen and provide you with resources and support. If you are ever at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    Be safe,

    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I don’t want to live with my mum anymore

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi, thank you for reaching out to us at National Runaway Safeline. We appreciate and understand the courage it takes to reach out and let us know what is going on. It seems like you are going through a hard time right now and you have considered running away as a viable option. You may want to consider this information on runaway laws prior to making any decisions. While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Additionally, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions. If you would like to be put in contact with resources in your area, feel free to call or chat 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button). We are a 24-hour service and are available to help anytime. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.



    We hope to hear from you soon. Best of luck, NRS.

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    i feel like if i ran away my mom wouldn't even care. I actually talked to my step dad about it he said " i would even pay you to leave"
    I cant tell if he is joking or not because he has always been like that.

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  • ccsmod7
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,

    It sounds like you are going through a very tough time and we are glad you reached out to us. It is very brave of you to take steps to make your situation better and we will do our best to help you find resources that may be helpful to you.

    Your current living situation also sounds very challenging. If you think it would be helpful to you, you can also call us and we can arrange a conference call with your Mom to talk about how you feel.

    Do you have friends or family or a teacher or counselor at school you are comfortable talking to that you are comfortable talking to about your situation? They may have advice or ideas that may be helpful to you.

    There may also be legal resources available to talk to you about your options. If you call us, one of our volunteers can help you find resources in your area. If you are uncomfortable making the call, one of our volunteers can make the call with or for you.

    You can also always contact us via chat at www.1800runaway.org or call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929). We have volunteers available 24/7 to talk and to help you find resources that may be helpful to you.

    We wish you the best,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    So currently I'm living with my mom. Its a mess im always taking care if my sibling and doing everything she should be doing. I want to live with my dad because i feel like and actually 15 year old i feel like me. Ive tried to explain to my mom i want to live with my dad but she said he lies to much and all he do is care for his wife. That's not true when i went to see my dad almost a year ago i was happy i felt like i had a family, But with my mom i feel like i don't have a family. I want to go to court for my dad to get full custody over me. But the only problem with that if my mom finds out she will be mad at me forever i love her i really do but i also love my dad. I just dont wanna be at my moms anymore. I have tried everything but she gets mad at me every time. I just need some help so what should i do in this situation.

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  • ccsmod15
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,

    Thanks for reaching out to us. We're sorry to hear you are going through a rough time. It sounds like you may be thinking about suicide. That concerns us and we want to let you know we are here to listen and help in any way we can. You can call us anytime at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chat with us via the chat feature on our website: www.1800runaway.org. You can also reach out for help at the following website and phone number: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ 1-800-273-8255. We hope to hear from you soon to talk about what's going on.

    Please be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    she says that it’s better for me to not run away and to not kill myself but i just am not happy right now. i wanna to kill myself. i feel kinda bad but not too bad. she honestly ruined my life.

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  • ccsmod15
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand that it takes great courage to reach out and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s been going on. It sounds like being at home with your mom is a really difficult environment. No one deserves to be verbally abused and threatened by a parent.

    You mentioned that you would like to live with your grandma. While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If your mom gives you permission to stay at your grandma’s house, that sounds like it could be a great option to give you and your mom some space and for you to be in a more stabilizing environment. However, it might be important for you to know that if you do leave home without your mom’s permission and stay with your grandma, she might get in trouble and could be charged with harboring a runaway.

    It sounds like you might get along better with your grandma than your mom and that she might be a source of support for you. If you haven’t already, it might be a good idea to share what has been going on at home with her. It might be helpful to have someone you can talk to about your situation, and perhaps she could also bring up the possibility of you staying with her in case your mom might be more open to that idea if she hears it from your grandma. These are just some suggestions, but ultimately you know your situation best and if that would actually be helpful or not.

    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. Please feel free to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chat us at www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button). If you are ever at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    Be safe,

    NRS
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