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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are going through a difficult time, and we want you to know you are not alone.
    It sounds like things have been rough with your mom, and seems that maybe it is an uncomfortable environment. If you feel like you are being neglected, you do have a right to make a report. You can make a report by calling Child Help at: 1800-422-4453.
    We know that you mentioned wanting to go away, we are not legal experts but we do have some information. If you were to leave home without permission your legal guardian could file a runaway report. If the police were to find you they most likely would bring you back home. If you still feel like leaving is your only option you can call us and we can help you look for shelters.
    We hope that this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore more options please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and to provide support. Best of luck!
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I wanna go away. My mom is crazy. She's always slutting around and ********ing random dudes all night and wakes up in the morning shaking with her back hurting and her lips super dry.

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  • ccsmod4
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    Hello,
    Thank you for writing to us here at the National Runaway Safeline.

    We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We would like to be of assistance to you if we can. It is times like these that would be nice to have a listening ear. It is also important that you remember to exercise self- care. You showed some by reaching out to NRS. Good for you. What you have been experiencing sounds very sad and very, very unfair. You do not deserve to be called names or hit by your mom or anyone. It’s not your fault that she behaves this way. Mistakes may happen but you do not deserve to be abused because of it. It sounds like it has been emotionally frustrating for you. Your feelings are important and they matter.
    You are deserving as anyone that wants to be happy.
    We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat so that we might learn a little more about your situation and how we might assist you. Having a space to vent and explore options may help to bring out a solution previously not thought of.


    If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.

    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Take care,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I don’t want to live with my mom anymore. I’m 16 almost 17 in Nov. I got caught sending nudes 2 years ago and ever since then my mom and her side of the family keep calling me a slut, if I wear a shirt that is just a tad low-cut barely though, they say I’m a slut and and "you wonder why we call you that, look at what you’re wearing". And I have a bf that I’ve been dating for a year now. And she wouldn’t let me go on a date so whenever I go to my dad’s parents’ house, that’s when I see my bf. At my mom’s house I have no privacy. I was on the phone with my friend talking about how I thought he was cheating (which wasn’t true I got proof he didn’t) and ever since then (it was in March) she doesn’t like him. And now she won’t let me see him and I keep telling her she’d love him if she just talked to him but she doesn’t listen. She’s also very neglectful. back to the slut thing, I tell her it really hurts my feelings he calls me that sometimes and she says if I don’t want to be called that I shouldn’t act like one even though I don’t. And whenever I tell her how I feel she just doesn’t listen. I paid for my phone and my dad’s parent’s pay for the bill but she always takes it to ground me and looks through everything. She’s looking through it as I type this on my computer. And I’ve told her I want to go to therapy to make me feel better but she never takes me. After I got caught seeing my boyfriend, she’s not letting me go to my grandparents’ house... she’s not giving me my phone back even though she doesn’t pay for it, so if I want to talk to family, I have to use her phone and stay in the living room to talk to my cousin. Sometimes she slaps me in the face but that’s not too bad I guess. I’ve told her I’m going to run away to my grandparents’ house and she says she’ll just call the cop on me for doing it. I know it’s only one more year till I graduate and leave for college, but because of corona I can’t handle being locked with my mom anymore I’d much rather live with my dad’s parents which is like 10 minutes from our house but I don’t know what to do. And she told me she wot let me get emancipated. I also live in south Florida, if that helps to give better advice.
    Last edited by ccsmod4; 09-29-2020, 01:55 AM.

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
    While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.
    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Right now I live with my stepmom when I was 13 I lived with my mom in Arizona and I didn’t really know anyone out there bc my family was in Cali but my mom kicked me out with no where to go so I had to find a way back to Cali and then my stepmom let me stay with her me and my dad really don’t have a strong bond but every sense I moved with my stepmom I can’t go anything I can’t visit my friends I can’t stay the night ova I can’t go to party’s I can’t go outside only on Saturday and Sunday’s and I’m getting sick of it I really don’t wanna be here I really wanna move with my granny I have my own room she lets me have freedom and doesn’t keep me locked up .

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  • ccsmod15
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
    While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.
    It seems like one option for leaving without involving your sister and a child abuse investigation would be Emancipation. Laws vary depending on your location, but in many states a minor can petition the court for emancipation to take responsibility for their own care before they turn 18. Generally speaking, courts are wary about granting emancipation. In most cases, you would have to prove in court that you have an income and can care for yourself financially, and that you are able to live separately from your parents. It also helps to be in good standing at school. The court will also factor in the mental and physical welfare of your parents in order to establish your best interest. Usually your legal guardian would have to agree to this in court. Once you are emancipated, you can legally choose where you live, but you might still find that you cannot sign a lease or build credit until you turn 18. The emancipation process can take several months or up to a year, and may cost money in the form of court fees and other expenses. Usually, the best way to learn about emancipation in your state is to contact a lawyer.
    We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I don’t want to live with my mom anymore I’m just turning 16 and I’ve spent 200 on myself from her card on things to make me feel better I wasn’t thinking in the moment I feel like killing myself and not being here becuase of a breakup between my parents that’s ended up in my mom being arrested but my dad was a horrible man and so is the rest of my family I want to live somewhere else like with my girlfriend and her parents which they said is ok if I I need to I 100% trust them but I just can’t trust my mom as she is on codiene loads and Is lazy I’ve had enough living here and I need a way to leave here without her trying to get me to stay I have very bad issues with my anger aswell but would never act out on someone just on objects and walls also I have a sister that is ok living here because she is not Badly effected by this but she would not be able to live with me and my girlfriends parents which is what I really want but if it means my sister can be happy somewhere else I will do so and I just need a way to leave my mom

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  • ccsmod15
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hello,

    Thanks for reaching out to us. We are so sorry to hear that things at home with your mom and dad have been so challenging. It sounds like you’re interested in possible options to support you living with other caregivers. We’re not legal experts, but we can share some general information that might help.

    If you’re looking to avoid going through the process of emancipation, you might consider whether there are any adults that your parents would be comfortable with you staying. If you find that having this type of conversation with your parents can be difficult, it may help to have one of the adults that you are considering to help you talk to your parents. If you need help finding out what resources in your area might be able to help you explore guardianship with other adults, feel free to give us a call. We can help you explore other options if these don’t work out for you.

    We recognize that it can be really difficult to have a conversation with your parents when they’re not easy to live with. We’re here to support you, and we will do our best to help you figure out what your next steps might be. You can reach us 24/7 by phone at 1.800.RUNAWAY (786.2929) or by chat at our website https://www.1800runaway.org/ . We’re here to listen, here to help. Stay safe!

    -NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    What can I do to where I don’t have to live with my mom or dad? I’m too young for emancipation and it’s really hard to do so anyways and I don’t know what to do and I need help

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I don’t want to live with my mom anymore. my mom has been drinking since I was born and so has my dad. my dad recently about a year ago left me and my mom for a girl and I was stuck all alone to watch my mom fall apart from alchohal and she has diabetes so it made her even worse and she is dying. she is the type of person to mentally abuse you she has hit me once and lies to everyone to make me seem like a bad kid or disrespectful when I am only 14 and I have been falling apart watching my mom do this to herself and to me she is now moving to Vegas and I don’t want to go because it will get worse because her sister (my aunt) is very manipulating and very controlling which has put so much stress on me and I can’t deal with it anymore and idk what to do. I can’t live with my dad either because he is bipolar and he can be very abusive and bad things can happen and I can’t take the chance of putting myself through that type of abuse. I would get emancipated but it is very hard and I have plenty of people who would be willing to take me in but I don’t have any evidence of my mom and dad I have pictures of my moms alchohal and her hiding it other than that it’s all I have and I need to leave and live with someone who i know. Can’t trust and I will feel safe rather than emotionally abused which can largely effect me in the future by watching my mom kill herself or live with my dad who is abusive and bipolar not on medication what can I do to live with someone that I trust?

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  • ccsmod13
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,

    We want to thank you for taking the time to write us here at NRS and we appreciate you sharing a bit about your situation. It sounds like your mom is extremely controlling and unfair in the way that she treats you. It is understandable to feel overwhelmed at home with so much tension going on. It can certainly be stressful when the adults in the household are not supportive or you don't feel listened to. Home is supposed to be somewhere you feel safe and cared for, so it is not okay that your mom is making you feel like this. You deserve to be treated with respect and to feel supported. Having a support system during challenging situations is very important. We encourage to reach out to the people around you such ass friends, family members, a teacher, a counselor, or other adults you trust.

    We truly want to be a support for you during this difficult time. We would love the opportunity to talk more with you about what is going on at home so that we can better help you explore your possible options. Our email and bulletin services are different in that we can only respond twice, so we are able to better support you by phone at 1-800-786-2929 or through our live chat service at 1800runaway.org. It was very brave of you to reach out today and this was a great first step to getting any support you may need. We look forward to hearing from you soon so that we can help!

    Stay strong,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I don't want to live with my mom anymore

    I hate living with my mom she makes me do everything and if I don't I get yelled at. Everytime we talk we always end up going in a argument and I hate it.if I'm doing something and she tells me to do something else she yells at me to hurry up she treat older brother better than me when he gets home from work and this hungry I have to serve him everything even if I'm eating too when we used to get home from school he would go and be in his room and I couldn't do that I only got like 10 minutes to take a break then she'll make me start cleaning whenever she told me to do something I had to do it real fast if no I got yelled at and when it came to my brother she'll tell him to like clean outside and he'll be like no or like later or I'm going out and she'll never yell at him he was always allowed to go out and I can't even do anything even when I looked at my phone in like I smiled or laughed she'll like be asking me why I'm smiling and laughing like as if she want didn't want me to do that I don't even have my own room I just have a bed in her room right now we have people living with us but before that the room was empty just there and she even called it My roombshe'll be like clean your room is like there was like toys or trash in there and she never let me sleep in there if I was ever talking to someone show always ask me who it was I cant go out with any of my friends not a day passes by where me and her aren't screaming at each other I want to go live with my dad before I used to go with my dad on the weekends but that's stopped like last year in May when I wanted to go to a party with him and my mom didn't want to let me so he was outside and I was trying to leave my mom yelled at me no took my phone and when I try to walk out the back door to just go outside and get some air since he left cuz I never came out she ran yank my arm and lock the door and put me in the empty room but luckily I had some clothes in that room and a bag and I jumped out the window and went to the neighbors to call my dad and when she saw that I was gone she started to looking for me and when she saw me she came over there looking like she was worried about me acting like nothing happened between us she trying to make me come home not even asking me if I'm okay she just grab my stuff but I said no that night I stayed at the neighborhood cuz my dad told me to cuz he said he cant come pick me up cuz he didn't want to have problems with my mom cuz they werent on good terms then the next day I went back home and luckily she didn't do anything to me like I'm just sick of the yelling the argument and her hitting me I just sick of living here and I want to leave she never listens to me the other day I told her that my back was hurting she didn't care and she made me carry a heavy box to the room and when I put it down my head was hurting but she didn't care she made me go get scissors coconut box up and pick out stuff in the box Iike put them in the bag or ​put them up even though that was telling her my head was hurting she didn't care I just hate living here and I want to leave she treats my older brother better than me and just today my baby brother through toys on the floor in the living room and I was telling him to pick it up like I was stressed out cuz I was fixing my clothes cleaning everything and she got home she got mad at me started yelling at me and I started yelling at her back and she was yelling at me saying you've been home all this time you haven't done anything when I do everything in this house I clean then she went to go check on my brother cuz he was crying because I spanked him and she yelled at me to never hit him again yet whenmy older brother hits him or yells and he cries she doesn't say anything. I just don't know how much more I can stand living in this house with her everything she does is just yell at me telling me I'm not good enough that am a good for nothing yet I always do everything she tells me to do.
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  • ccsmod1
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hey there,

    Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA). Our knowledge of helpful community based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis related laws is limited to the USA. If you are located in a country outside of the USA, you can use this link to find a youth helpline in or around your country: https://www.childhelplineinternation...pline-network/.

    We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country.

    Be safe,
    NRS
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