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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you so much for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are going through a really difficult time right now.
    Wow you do not deserve to be hit or treated like that, and we are sorry you are going through all of that. You do have the right to file an abuse report and there are a few ways you can do that. One option to consider is talking with your school counselor and they can help you make a report. Another option to consider is to call Child Help at: 1800-422-4453, and they can help you make a report. You can also call us and we can help you make a report.
    We hope that this information will be helpful to you. If you have any other questions or would like to explore more options please give us a call. We wish you the best of luck!
    NRS

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    I'm 15 years old. I am currently suffering from depression, anxiety, and OCD. I think part of the reason why is because of my parents. Sure, I yell at my parents some times, but they always hit me whenever I yell. It's gotten to the point where I almost hit them back. This has been happening for a few years now, and my sisters sometimes get hit too, but I always get hit the most. My mom doesn't understand anything. and says if I contact the police "I will be the one going to jail for treating her like this." She's told me many times that she doesn't want me, and she makes me feel useless. She also told me to die a few times because she can't handle me. My OCD get's really bad and my mom tells me I'm a psycho. Sure, she can be nice sometimes, but she is a total nightmare to live with. My dad rarely hits me, but he does it sometimes too. I feel trapped in my own home. I don't go to school because I do online schooling which makes the whole situation worse because I have to see my mom every day. It's sad because sometimes I wish and pray that she leaves us.

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  • ccsmod4
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    Hi,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS).

    With everything that you have been going through at home with your mom it took a lot of courage for you to reach out. We appreciate you sharing your feelings about the situation. Well done. It sounds like you’re quite concerned by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please call 1-800-Runaway (786-2929) or chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in.


    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 9-1-1 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    Be safe,
    NRS
    Last edited by ccsmod4; 12-17-2019, 01:25 AM.

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    Hello, I am 12 years old and my mother sometimes hits me. It’s usually because if I do one little thing to annoy her, she goes on a rampage and starts hitting me. After that she comes into my room calm, and wants everything to go back to normal like nothing ever happened. We have the perfect relationship, but this happens almost every other day. Is this abuse?
    Last edited by ccsmod4; 12-17-2019, 01:24 AM.

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hello! Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. It sounds like you are dealing with a really hard situation. You do not deserve to be hit, or for you to feel unsafe at home. If you ever wanted to make an abuse report, you can call Child Help at: 1800-422-4453. You may also consider talking to a school counselor, about what has been going on at home.

    We hope that the options we explored with you, are able to assist you. If you need additional resources, or want us to call somewhere on your behalf, you can reach out to us anytime at 1800) 786-2929, chat with us online at the nationalrunawaysafeline.org. Best of luck!

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    Guest replied
    hi im 9 years old and every time my mom gets really mad at me, she hits me in the mouth. i mean, she loves me but out side, she hates me.

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi,
    Thank you for reaching out to us; we are glad that you did. We believe you that you have been in an abusive home and are struggling with depression because of this. We are glad that you have school where you can feel loved. That is what you deserve. We believe you when you say that you have tried to end your life, and we want you to know that your life matters to us. You matter to us.
    We are glad that you’ve talked to a counselor, and are sorry that it feels like nothing has changed. The counselor is to help you to feel stronger inside, not necessarily to change your mother’s behavior. We hope you can continue to talk to the counselor. You deserve to be heard and helped.
    You can reach out to https://www.nationalsafeplace.org/ if you have access to a cell phone and use the TXT 4 Help option. They will be able to either just talk to them about what you’re going through, or let them help you connect to your local youth agency. We can also help you figure out what your options are, but to do so, we hope that you will reach out to us so that we can learn more of what things are like for you at home. We would best be able to help you if we can talk about all of this, either through our phone hotline at 1-800-786-2929 (1-800-RUNAWAY) or via live chat at 1800runaway.org What you are going through deserves our time and attention to talk through your options. We are here to listen and to help.
    We truly hope to hear from you soon.
    NRS

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    hi i’m 12 years old i have been in an abusive home for 6 years now. i have been struggling with depression for 5 years and have tried ending my life 69 times. i can only be happy in school because that’s where the people that actually love me are. my mom says that she hates me and they she hopes that she had gotten an abortion before i was born and she compares me to everyone and it kills me that i’m not good enough. i have already talked to a counseler but nothing has really changed it’s actually gotten worse plz i need some advice asap

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey there,

    Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. It must be really hard to have to hide important relationships due to fear of your mom's reaction. You mentioned that she hits you a lot, and this raises some concern for your well being. Absolutely no one deserves to be abused. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. If you feel like this is an option you want to explore, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering. It may also be a good idea to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

    If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

    Stay safe,
    NRS

  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you so much for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen, It sounds like you are dealing with a really hard situation. You do not deserve to be hit and for your home to feel unsafe. If you ever wanted to make an abuse report you can call Child Help at: 1800-422-4453. You can also consider talking to a school counselor about what has been going on at home.
    We wish you the best of luck. If you have any more questions or would like to explore more options

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    Guest replied
    my mom always hits me for every little thing she just hit me like 5 minutes ago and doesn't care about what i think because i hide so much from her like my boyfriend and my friendships

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    Guest replied
    why is it that you mom hits me i thought family was post to be nice and help each other but i am getting punch in my head and i am hurt and she would not take me to soccer practise because i don't prcatise by my slef every day i need help whenever i get home i feel unsafe and scared any adivice you got for me but i don't want to do anything just a comment

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  • ccsmod4
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    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS).

    With everything that you have been going through at home with your parent’s it took a lot of courage for you to reach out. We appreciate you sharing your feelings about the situation. Well done. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please call 1-800-Runaway (786-2929) or chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in.


    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 9-1-1 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Hi

    Im Sophia, im a 12 year old girl with a very mean mother.

    Im writing to explain what my mom does
    Okay so today my friend gave me her old phone because my mom ripped my phone in half, when my mom found out, she started screaming in my face
    then she told the school that i am "suicidal" when I ALREADY TOLD HER IM NOT
    so the school has been locking me in a room with kids with disabilities and im a COMPLETE NORMAL GIRL
    GEting to the point is that one day i asked my very nice and amazing dad if i could go hang out with my friends , he said okay so i went
    my neihbor came and hes 15 years old, so my mom got mad but hes only THREE YEARS OLDER and she hit me with a very hard book and twisted my arm
    and now every time i ask to hang out with friends, she says no. but i always go anyways because its so unreasonable to not allow me to ever hang out with friends
    I JUST HATE HER
    everyday when she picks me up from school, after she forces them to lock me in a room with a ton of disabled kids she checks my pockets and she smells me because she thinks i "do DRUGS" UGHHH ITS SO ANNOYING because ive never even seen a drug/vape in REAL LIFE
    one day i was brushing my hair, and my mom just started brushing it for no reason, so i told her to stop , so she HIT me several times with the hair brush
    here are some examples of what she hits me with
    ANYTHING SHE HAS IN HER HAND,SHE THROWS AT ME
    she THREW A VASE AT ME AND I GOT A BLACK EYE the teacher came up to me and asked what happened
    MY MOM TOLD ME TO SAY THAT MY BROTHER THREW A SOCCER BALL or i would be GROUNDED
    I HATE THAT HUMAN BEING thank u bye

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  • ccsmod3
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    Thank you for reaching out to us. You are very brave for posting this today. It must be hard having your mother yell at you all the time. If you feel like you are in an unsafe environment you can contact Child Help at 1800-422-4453. If you feel like you are struggling with feeling bad about your weight and it is forcing you not to eat contact NEDA (National Eating Disorder Assoc.) at 1800-931-2237. It’s unfortunate that your mom is yelling at you all the time. You don’t deserve that and if you ever need to talk to someone about what you are experiencing call NAMI at 1800-950-NAMI. While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those who you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. The way to get the most accurate information would be to call your local police non-emergency number and anonymously inquire about their practices. If you want to discuss more about what is going on at home or just vent you can always call us at 1800-Runaway. We are 24/7, confidential and here to help! Thanks again for being so honest. Best of luck!
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