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  • I’m 15 and My mom hits me for the littlest reasons and I wanted this blanket in the house and my mom wanted it back but I didn’t want to give it back since it was in my room but my mom yelled at me to give it back and since I wasn’t giving it to her she bit me very hard and dug her nails into my arm and left me a dark bruise that still hasn’t gone away. She constantly hits and pulls my hair and pinches me on the daily for almost anything or when she gets frustrated. She would hit me while I’m in the passenger seat and she is driving going over 30 mph. She has kicked my face and back very hard before because I moved her bed a bit accidently while she was on it. She calls my friends black delinquents when I don’t even have many black friends at all and the ones that I do have arent associated with any crimes. And whenever I compliment another female she tells me to stop because she says it bothers her (I’m a girl btw)I think she had anger issues and she doesn’t ever think what she does is wrong at all. If I try to tell her she’s in the wrong she begins to scream at me and begins to hit me and she calls me a bad daughter she calls me curse words she says she hates me she’s told me once she’s frustrated she wants to kill me with her bare hands. She threatened to hit me with hot spoons. I’m too scared to call police because I dont want to just suffer in a different place like in the system or anything like that. My dad also doesn’t live with me and I don’t know what to do. I hate her so much and I feel I constantly have to kiss her ass to not get beaten. I do good in school I clean without being told but she makes me feel like I’m the abuser to her … I need help


    • ccsmod5
      ccsmod5 commented
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      Hi there,

      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.
      If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. We are not experts on the issue, but generally once it's been reported, social services will either decide whether or not to take the case and further investigate. If they do take the case, they will send out someone from child protective services to do an investigation (interviewing people in the household) and from there they will decide the level of danger within the household. It generally ranges from no danger (the youth stays in the home, some services are given, and the case is closed), moderate danger (they will provide family services with possible temporary displacement) and high danger (they will remove the youth from the home and offer certain services).

      You deserve to feel safe at home, if you choose to leave and need help finding resources please do not hesitate in calling us or chatting with us. Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

      If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
      We hope to hear from you soon.

      Be safe,

  • my mom whenever I do something she does not like she hits me or yells at me she almost hit me with a scissor before and just today she threw a cage for my guinea pig which I bought by winning a chess tournament and I am 11! I am so scared I dont wanna be here anymore what should I do?


    • ccsmod9
      ccsmod9 commented
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      Thanks for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. Your home life sounds very stressful and you deserve to live in a place where you feel safe and valued. If you are feeling unsafe or directly threatened, you may want to call 911 for immediate assistance. For ongoing abuse, another option is to file a report with Child Protective Services. They may come out to investigate your home, and remove you to a safer living arrangement if they determine it is necessary. If you need help filing a report, you can call us here at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) and we can assist you in the process, if that is what you choose to do. You can also contact Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 for help in finding a safe living arrangement.

      Sometimes, confiding in a trusted relative or another adult, such as a teacher or school counselor, can be a helpful option. You might think about if there is an adult you feel like you can trust and talk to them. You deserve to feel safe and we are here to support you as you figure out what is best for your situation. Please feel free to call us or chat with us online at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929)/ if you would like to talk in detail about your situation. Good luck!
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