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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey there,

    Thanks so much for contacting us, it takes a lot of courage to reach out and share your story. It must be really hard to live in a home with so much tension. Your mom's actions are unacceptable and you deserve to live in a home where you are safe and secure.

    You mentioned some things that raise concern for your safety and well-being. Absolutely no one deserves to be abused. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. If you feel like this is an option you want to explore, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering. It may also be a good idea to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

    If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

    All the best,
    NRS

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    I am 14 years old. I get decent grades, but whenever I have a slight slip my mom yells at me. My dad does not mind because he knows I always fix my grades, but not my mom. When I study at home and don’t understand something, I get hit or slapped. If I talk back, I get hit or slapped. If I try to talk all I get is negative responses. I am not allowed the same privileges as others my age. Today, I was struck with a big textbook, causing my arm to swell up. I try to stay happy, but it is getting very difficult and I don’t want to fall into sadness. I hope there is something I can do so that my mother understands me.

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hi. First off I want to thank you for reaching out to us; that can be a very difficult thing to do. We want to tell you that no one deserves to be hit no matter the reason. You deserve to feel safe and secure. You do have options such as Child Help at 1-800-422-4453 this is the National Child Abuse hotline. Calling these places can feel overwhelming so if you wanted to explore this option, you could always call us and we can help you through it. We are also here 24/7 to talk about other things and other options if reporting is not something you felt comfortable with. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.

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    Guest replied
    when my mom hits me I have gotten used to it and it doesn't hurt that bad anymore but when she started hitting me with a broom i have felt so empty because she makes me feel like i am such a bad person

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for contacting The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen Wow you do not deserve to be treated like that. Abuse is unacceptable no matter if it is physical or emotional abuse. We know you mentioned not wanting to get the police involved but making an abuse report is always an option if you would like to make one. To make an abuse report you can call The Child Helpline at – 1800-422-4453. We know that sometimes making an abuse report can be scary if you would like our help you can call us at any time. We know you also mentioned not wanting to go to therapy one option is you could try talking to a school counselor or a teacher about what has been going on. After one time if you did not like talking to them or it did not make you feel better, you are not obligated to go again. If you do not feel safe in your home and need a place to go you can always call us, and we can help you look for shelters in your area. Another option is you could see if you could stay with a family member or friend. If you ever feel like you are in danger please call 911 ASAP. Your safety is our top concern, and whatever you decide we hope you are safe.
    We hope this information will help you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore your options more please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and provide support. We wish you the best of luck!
    NRS

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    I'm 13 yrs old and My mother gets mad for no reason at me. She will hear a metal utensil up and threaten me. She has hit me in front of public and it has emotionally and physically affected me a lot. It even caused a red mark. I still love my mom but I dont want her to go to jail, that will cause more problems in my life. Plus my grandparents and my mom only have one goal in their whole life, to take any chance they have to take away my phone/PS4/playing. I dont wanna go to therapy. I am too scared to talk to her about it. please reply asap

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Hi im 11 years old and my mom hits me when i don't clean, do the dishes, take out the trash and more . She even has threatened me , she said if it weren't wrong to kill someone then i would kill u and stuff. I tried standing up for my self but she and my dad thinks im taking back and hits me more. Today my mom and i got in a fight about how i didn't clean my mess i did in my basement. I was going to clean it up but she hit me and yelled at me. I dont know what to do , i dont know if i can call the police or not .

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody. It also sounds like you’re fearing that the situation may end in suicide if things don’t change. Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255); www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org is also a great resource to reach out to in addition to our crisis services
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Hi, i'm 14 and lately, i've been doing bad at school. Every time i come home, if i'm not doing my work without zero silence, questions, or arguments, my mom hits me and threatens to hit more. Now i am wanting to call a service, but i'm afraid that she will either beat me more or ill be taken away and as much as she hits me i still love her very much. but I have fallen into a depression lately with suicidal thoughts sometimes, and i feel like if i dont do something, i wont make it to my 15th birthday. Please help me.

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey there,

    Thanks so much for contacting us, it takes a lot of courage to reach out and share your story. It must be really hard to go to a school where you are being discriminated against only then to go home to such a tense situation. Running away is a big decision and it can be very stressful to figure out what you want to do.

    You mentioned that your dad hits you and your mom regularly beats you with objects. This raises concern for your safety and well-being. Absolutely no one deserves to be abused no matter the situation. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. If you feel like this is an option you want to explore, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering. It may also be a good idea to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

    If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

    All the best,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    I feel like i'm not loved. My mom hits me for no reason and says things like "Your stupid" "You can't do anything right" "Go study because you need the extra help since its impossible for you to pass" "I wish you were never my daughter" "You shouldn't be here". It was easy to listen to in the beginning but then I started believing all of those words. I'm 13 and i'm in 8th grade. Ever since a new school was made in the district my school wanted to "Up their game" and started giving us more work. I did them all and got good grades but when I started talking to my friend about school she told me about how nice the other school is. I have a racist assistant principle who literally only likes white people, and none of my teachers really care about me. My social studies teacher puts in 0's for me even if I turn my work in 1 day late and she grades it after a month. When I go home my mom sees a 0 in the grade book and she hits me for it. Yeah it's a normal Asian parents thing... but it's not normal for a school with selfish racist and HORRIBLE teachers. I literally can't take any of it and I worry about how i'll make it in the future. I found this video game called Roblox and I started getting addicted to it because of the people in the community. I could talk about everything that was going on... without someone judging me. I also learned that people had similar problems like me, and I became friends with most of the people. It was my get away place, but soon my mom started getting mad at me for not washing the dishes or doing all the chores I never had to do before. She beat me for it. Most peoples parents slap them but mines use actual objects. My mom hits me with my old baseball bat and it hurts a lot. But as she called me a worthless pile of ___ I realized that no one loved me.Every time I got an 80 my mom would tell me that I was bad at everything and beat me for it. I started to speak up for my self because I was feed up with it all .My mom tells my dad about my grades and he doesn't care but then she starts stretching the truth and being dramatic about it and it builds up tension in my dads mind. Soon he started hitting me too but I didn't care because I love my dad... He works hard every day earning money for us and keeping us alive we had a good family until my mom changed.I thought about going to a place where I could learn and get support from those who surround me. I wished for a new mom every night hoping someone would listen to my prayers but nothing happend. Sometimes I actually get ready to run away but then I remember my dad and how he needs my support. I'm scared honestly I don't feel safe in my house. My mom acts like a crazy woman and it actually scares me. I feel like I might die someday because of how much and how hard she hits me. I want to run away but i'm scared about where I will go or if someone will kidnap me or if I get killed. Its scary and I dont know what to do. I don't want to tell my friends because i'm scared they will hate me.

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hi,

    Thanks so much for reaching out. It sounds like you’re in a very painful situation without much support, so it’s great that you’ve asked for some help. We’re sorry to hear you’ve been so mistreated. No one deserves to be physically abused by anyone, ever. It’s important to remember that what you’re going through is not your fault and you’re not alone.

    If you weren’t already aware, your mother’s behavior constitutes abuse. She has no right to hit you and you have the right to report it if you choose. It sounds like you don’t have phone access right now, so if you need help doing so, or simply want to talk with someone safe and trustworthy about what’s going on, you can use our chat service at 1800runaway.org. If you regain access to your phone, or can borrow someone else’s, you can call Child Help at 1-800-422-4453 or our call center at 1-800-786-2929. Someone is always available to listen and to help.

    We’re sorry to hear you don’t trust your teachers or counselors right now, but again, it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. You mentioned wanting to kill yourself. If those thoughts ever get out of control or you feel like you might try to hurt yourself, please reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at suicidepreventionlifeline.org or 1-800-273-8255. Your safety and well-being are important and you are valued, no matter how it might feel to you now.

    Thanks again for reaching out. We know things are difficult at the moment but it’s great that you’re looking for some help. We hope to hear from you soon.

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    Hi! I'm 12 years old and my mother hits me all the time. She isn't in depression or anything but, it's all because of my older sister. My sister, she will hit me all the time and also,yell at me and throw things at me. She also steals my things and ruins them. But, when I do that to her for revenge my mother hits me really bad. My eyes get all red from crying all the time because of the pain. My mother blames me for the mistakes that my sister makes. I don't ever get anything I want. My life is technically ruined. For example, for the past 4 years, on every single of my birthday's we have moved. Now that we finally didn't, I asked for something that I never got. Yes, we went out for dinner, but that just made me sick. So, nI asked my dad if I could get something that could make p for that and he replied with, "No, we are falling short on some money." It is so naot fair. My mother will get mad at me for the littelest reasons. Some times I think about killing myself. Almost, eveytime I cry until my head starts hurting and I faint. I don't know who to ask for help because I don't trust my teachers or counselor right now and my grandmother says she can't do anything about it. I'm definetly in deep depression right now. I can't call anyone either becasue my mother takes away my electronics all the time. I finally am getting the chance to say this because she can't take away my school computer because of homework. Please give my some advice. I don't want to live this horrible life anymore. I'd rather run away or kill my self.

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  • ccsmod5
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. It is never okay for your mum (or anyone!) to hit, punch, or kick you. You deserve to feel safe and happy in your own home. You always have the right to file an abuse report with child protective services by talking with a teacher, guidance counselor, or any other adult you trust; you can also call your local cps office on your own. That said, we can’t be 100% sure what the outcome will be if your local CPS decides to open a case based on what you share. Sometimes CPS decides to remove minors from the home and other times they offer services such as family counseling or mediation instead. The only way to know the outcome might be to reach out to them directly and if you’re ready to do that we are here to help you through that process. Reaching out to Child Help USA at (1-800-422-4453) or www.childhelp.org may help to get a better understanding of what may happen before and after a report is made.
    We hope this was helpful, but if you have any questions or need any resources we are always here for you through our 24-hour hotline, 1-800-786-2929.

    Stay safe,

    NRS
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