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  • ccsmod13
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    Hi there,

    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to child protective services. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    I am 8 years old. My mom hits me when do something bad. Not always but I sometimes think of running away. What should I do?

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  • ccsmod13
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to child protective services. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Hi im 12 and i always try my best at things in school but my mom will not accept 85's and lower so when I do get those grades my mom will get so mad telling me that I am dumb and cuses at me all the time and hits me with anything she finds. for example she one time hit me with the belt, another time a shovel, a spatula and even a shoe. She says that I'm not the best and thinks that I'm a lair. Which I think is true cus I developed this habit where I lie but I never do that a lot tho. She gets mad at everything I do and I'm starting to believe its true. I'm such a failure. I never try to get bad grades but it just happens. plz send help and I rlly need it now. (while i was typing this I remembered that she made my nose bleed wit a punch) PLZ HELP IM NOT JOKING

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  • ccsmod13
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    how many hits is abuse because i get hit regularly 2 to 6 times a month and my mom gets mad hits and mkes fun of me

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hello,

    You mentioned some things that raise concern for your safety and well-being. If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. We are not experts on the issue, but generally once it's been reported, social services will either decide whether or not to take the case and further investigate. If they do take the case, they will send out someone from child protective services to do an investigation (interviewing people in the household) and from there they will decide the level of danger within the household. It generally ranges from no danger (the youth stays in the home, some services are given, and the case is closed), moderate danger (they will provide family services with possible temporary displacement) and high danger (they will remove the youth from the home and offer certain services).

    If you feel like this is an option you want to explore, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering.

    Please be safe and reach out soon by phone or chat so that we may help.
    Take care,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    My mom spanks for every little thing, like just 10 minutes ago. she literly controles me and i hate her so much

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  • ccsmod3
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to the National Domestic Violence Hotline. National Domestic Violence Hotline 1800-799-7233 at thehotline.org that helps protect minors from being harmed.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Hi,

    I'm 19 and ever since I could remember both my parents have hit me whenever they got mad at me. When I was young, that was okay I suppose but now that I am 19 even if they hit me less, it still hurts. I know they love me, if I want something they would give it to me if they could and they have always supported me. But...is it right for them to him even with all this love?
    Just the other day my mum hit me really hard only because I had pushed her arm off me when she was beginning to become violent. I din't even think of hurting her, it was instinctual to push her arm that was hurting. But she yelled at me and said I was disrespectful and that she can't even be a parent anymore and for me to go do whatever I want and move out. Again she loves me a lot, she has shown it in her actions, she supports me and even if there are times where she emotionally hurts me, its not that bad. I definitely do not want to call anyone or any service to get my parents taken away since I know there are so many other people in much more serious situations. However at 19 this is getting frustrating and I am starting to think eeven with all this love I dont want to deal with getting hit so hard over something so little. Even today no-one in my family is talking to me saying that what I have done was extremely bad and that I should apologize. But why should I? I know this sounds arrogant but it wasn't my intention to hurt her nor did I hurt her. At this point moving out seems to be an option that looks very good. I have a friend who says this is just common in Indian culture my mum was probably just PMSing and it wasn't against me. But is that really okay?

    I am just so confused.

    Thanks for your time.

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. You do not deserve to be hit or spoken down to by your parents who are supposed to love and support you. If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. We are not experts on the issue, but generally once it's been reported, social services will either decide whether or not to take the case and further investigate. If they do take the case, they will send out someone from child protective services to do an investigation (interviewing people in the household) and from there they will decide the level of danger within the household. It generally ranges from no danger (the youth stays in the home, some services are given, and the case is closed), moderate danger (they will provide family services with possible temporary displacement) and high danger (they will remove the youth from the home and offer certain services). Sometimes, they will give families resources or options for counseling. We would be happy to help you explore this option again, or help you make a report.

    If you feel like this is an option you want to explore again, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering. Please be safe and reach out soon by phone or chat so that we may help.

    Please do not hesitate to reach back out via phone or live chat through our website. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. We would be happy to explore reporting, brainstorm other options, or help connect you with local resources. We hope to hear from you soon.

    Best of luck,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    hi i’m 13(almost 14) and my mom has hit me twice. i’m not sure if that’s considered abuse or not but she has yelled at me and screamed in my face. she has pushed me some too. i’m trying to get help and i’ve had an adult try to help by calling child services and the police but they said there isn’t much evidence and the police have said it wasn’t anything serious and i shouldn’t waste their time. my parents keep telling me i’m being dramatic and making things up and that they are great parents and idk what to do. i feel like i’m trapped.

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  • ccsmod0
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    I’m 12 and my mom has been hitting me ever since I can remember, she hit me once to the point where she made my nose bleed. She also has slapped me twice in the face and constantly hits me on the arm to the point where you can still see the handprint after a whole while. The most recent hit that broke me to the point where I hyperventilated was when she punched me in the face for not wanting to give her my phone. Every time she becomes violent I always remember of when she made me bleed and all the words she has called me. I’m tired of having to remember stuff like that every time she gets mad. I’m really scared of her sometimes and I just wanna be free of it all.

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  • ccsmod16
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    Hi, thanks for reaching out to us. It sounds like you are in a very difficult situation. You don’t deserve to be hit and treated badly by your mom. We are very glad that when feeling suicidal, you are focusing on your dreams and future, which is correct. This situation with your mom will not last forever and you deserve your life and future and your dreams.
    It sounds like you may not be writing us from the United States, and we don’t know what your rights are outside of the US. This is a link https://www.childhelplineinternation...pline-network/ where you can find a youth crisis helpline in your area, or if your country isn’t listed, here is another link for people in crisis https://www.therapyroute.com/article...ound-the-world
    If we are wrong, and you are in the US, please feel free to contact us on either of our live services by calling 1-800-786-2929 (1-800-RUNAWAY), or live chat via www1800runaway.org
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