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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hi, im 17. My mom has always been on drugs, always. the only time she wasnt was i think like 8 months ago but she started doing them again a few days ago. I guess since she hasnt had them in a while she had like a withdraw to get more so she was planning on leaving my dad and she was asking me about her sex life . like i said im 17 im not in her sex life thats crazy. then she asked me for 30$ and said i couldn't go with her. i told her she wasnt in the right state because she could barely talk or walk. she told me to pack myself then while i was trying to fit everything the car she already had all her stuff int he car no where to fit anything of mines beside my shoe box. she was screaming at me saying just put your toat in my lap, um no she wouldnt be able to drive if she did that and she was trying to do it anyway. therefore i was trying to snatch the bag away from her she grabed my hand with her glasses in it and squeezed and cut my finger with 2 deep holes. then i ran inside because i was scared because i screamed because it hurt me, she came in running after me attaking me and hitting me ( i have pictures of my bruises and cuts) of course i was defending myself by trying to push her off of me. the, i proceed to the door and she wouldnt let me out of the house and she was punching my chest hard i have pictures of that also. then i went to my room and she tried to swing at me again and i told her nothing in there was hers and she pointed at me and she said" yeah your right nothing in this room is mine" and then she left. then she got into a car crash because of her drugs later that night and nows shes back at the house and im terrified and i dont know what to do.

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hi there, thanks for reaching out today. Seems like home is really overwhelming right now with your mom treating you like that. You deserve to be treated with human dignity and respect, it's understandable that such harsh words are having a lasting affect on you. Here at NRS, we want you to know that you are good enough, period, and despite everything your mom has said to you. You are enough.

    It sounds like you are thinking about suicide with everything you have been faced with. It takes a lot of strength to reach out for help, and we are so glad that you did. Your life has worth and our top priority is your safety. If you feel this is an emergency you could consider calling 911 for emergency assistance. We are here to listen and support you in any way that we can, and we can help you find resources that can help you cope with these feelings. You do not have to face this alone, and there is so much help out there for you. If you are thinking about hurting yourself, the National Suicide Hotline could be a good resource for you. You can check them out at www.youmatter.suicidepreventionlifeline.org, or you can call 1-800-273-8255 for help and support any time. You can also call us 24/7 at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) if you need to talk.

    Please do not hesitate to call or chat if you have questions, need resources, or need to talk. We can explore your situation, go over all your options, and come up with a plan and resources to deal with your situation over the phone or on live chat.

    We are looking forward to hearing from you soon, and wish you the best of luck.

    -NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hello, i am 11 years old and my mom is so rude everyday, for example, she's yelling at me even for the smallest things, and when i try and defend myself she claims that i'm talking back and then she proceeds to yell at me even louder. When i get a low grade or accidentally mess up, she goes on and on comparing me to everyone we know saying stuff like "Why cant you be like __?, they are smarter then you and respect their parents, and they actually eat healthy unlike you." I have an eating disorder and when someone mentions it or makes fun of me for it, i feel ashamed of myself. I'm not really religious but every day before i go to sleep i pray that she could just stop with all the pain she's been giving me emotionally and physically, she's been like this since i was a toddler but instead of all the stuff i've mentioned, she would go crazy and threaten to threaten to kill me or throw me out the window... I have been thinking about running away for a long time, but at the same time i say to myself "where would i go? where could i hide? i cant run away from my main home, i'd miss it too much, and mom would easily find me and punish me till death" i have also thought about committing su!c!de. My mom is also part of the reason why i suffer from depression, not to mention she is is also part of the reason why i am so insecure. I just want my mom to be happy with my existence for once, i need help on what i could do.

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, It takes a lot of courage to reach out and we are so glad that you have decided to reach out.
    It seems like you are going through a really difficult time, and we want you to know that you are not alone we are here to help. It sounds really awful for what you are going through, and you do not deserve to be treated that way.
    What you have described seems like abuse which you do have a right to make a report, and there are a few ways you can do that. One option to consider would be contacting Child Help at 1800-422-4453 and they would be able to help with filing a report. You can also speak with a teacher or a school counselor and because they are mandated reporters they can help with making a report. Lastly, you can contact us by phone or by chat and we can help with making a report.
    We are available to help and support you 24/7 by phone or with our online chat service. Please reach out if you have any questions or would like to explore more options. Best of luck!
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hello im 13 and my name is my mom hits me of anger and broke my phone for doing tik tok and she thinks i am diffrent cuz i dont do stuff people that follow god do and she leaves my skin brused atthe poind were she leaves a bunch of marks in my skin hitting me with a wire pls help
    Last edited by ccsmod2; 01-14-2021, 06:25 PM.

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  • ccsmod13
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    Hi there,

    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to child protective services. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I am 8 years old. My mom hits me when do something bad. Not always but I sometimes think of running away. What should I do?

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  • ccsmod13
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to child protective services. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hi im 12 and i always try my best at things in school but my mom will not accept 85's and lower so when I do get those grades my mom will get so mad telling me that I am dumb and cuses at me all the time and hits me with anything she finds. for example she one time hit me with the belt, another time a shovel, a spatula and even a shoe. She says that I'm not the best and thinks that I'm a lair. Which I think is true cus I developed this habit where I lie but I never do that a lot tho. She gets mad at everything I do and I'm starting to believe its true. I'm such a failure. I never try to get bad grades but it just happens. plz send help and I rlly need it now. (while i was typing this I remembered that she made my nose bleed wit a punch) PLZ HELP IM NOT JOKING

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  • ccsmod13
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    how many hits is abuse because i get hit regularly 2 to 6 times a month and my mom gets mad hits and mkes fun of me

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  • ccsmod15
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hello,

    You mentioned some things that raise concern for your safety and well-being. If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. We are not experts on the issue, but generally once it's been reported, social services will either decide whether or not to take the case and further investigate. If they do take the case, they will send out someone from child protective services to do an investigation (interviewing people in the household) and from there they will decide the level of danger within the household. It generally ranges from no danger (the youth stays in the home, some services are given, and the case is closed), moderate danger (they will provide family services with possible temporary displacement) and high danger (they will remove the youth from the home and offer certain services).

    If you feel like this is an option you want to explore, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering.

    Please be safe and reach out soon by phone or chat so that we may help.
    Take care,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    My mom spanks for every little thing, like just 10 minutes ago. she literly controles me and i hate her so much

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  • ccsmod3
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to the National Domestic Violence Hotline. National Domestic Violence Hotline 1800-799-7233 at thehotline.org that helps protect minors from being harmed.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS
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