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  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Me too yesterday I got Suspension and my mom beat me for 40 minutes straight its so bad to the point where i want to die I just wanna be left alone for once

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  • ccsmod4
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    Reply: Hello I’m 14 years old.


    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS).

    From everything that you have been going through at home with your parent’s it took a lot of courage for you to reach out. We appreciate you sharing your feelings about the situation. Well done. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please call 1-800-Runaway (786-2929) or chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in.


    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 9-1-1 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    Be safe,
    NRS

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  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hello I’m 14 years old. Today my Mother took a Hard Cardboard Road and completely hurt and destroyed my hands and my legs, I’m crying so hard and tell her how I can’t feel any part of my body, but she said she does not care, and in fact she would even hit me more and harder. She abuses me whenever she can and loves to embarrass e in public’s, she never lets me be with any of my friends and when ever I cry she always tells me I’m faking it. She beats me on another level and does not care about me at all. I wish I could just shut myself from the entire world and not let it know I exist. I wish I could have a better mom who would not get angry at me whenever I try and speak my opinion. I wish I had a mother who would not shut me to entire world, and completeley ignore me. I wish I had a mother who took my feeling to consideration. I wish my mother would not act so fake in front everyone and comepletely make me feel like trash. I wish that she would not beat me up, and shatter my body, my heart and my face into a million pieces. I wish that these would all come true, but I know they never can.
    Last edited by ccsmod4; 12-12-2018, 04:55 AM.

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  • ccsmod3
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    Hello,

    Thank you for your openness to share about your experience and reaching out to us. It takes courage to do so when it seems a lot of your outlets have been difficult to share with as it results in making things worse with you mom. It is never okay to hit by your parents and you do have the right to report the abuse. Understandably there is a fear that people won’t believe you and things could be covered up, this may be difficult to think about, but it may be good to collect evidence that proves the abuse that is going on, so if you decide to report. We are also mandated reporters here and can support you with calling out the child help (National Child Abuse Hotline) at 1-800-422-4453. You can ask questions about the process, report here, or get support with what you are experiencing.

    One should feel safe and supported in their own and it sounds like you have support outside the home, but needing some ways to outlet until things can shift until change can happen. It’s definitely okay to have emotions as that is what makes us unique as humans. Also another way you can seek help is reaching out to a friend, teacher, or counselor at school that can help you look for resources. Your mental health is important. You can also look at SAMHSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at samhsa.gov (call them directly at 1-877-726-4727) or NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness 1-800-950-NAMI to help you find the support that you need. If you do ever feel in direct danger, to yourself, or some else makes you feel that way, please call out to 911 or reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255). You are valued and important.

    We are here for you and will support you in anyway that we can. Please feel free to call into us directly as we can talk further about your situation and find resources that are best for you in your area. Stay strong and you are not alone in this! Our hotline ( 1-800-RUNAWAY) and chat are open 24/7.

    -NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    my mom has hit me and my sister ever since we were young. i am 14 now but she only hits me because she doesnt love me or something. she has taken my phone and i do and online school thing and go to my home high school for one class and often i go to class crying because y mom hits me in the car. she has busted my lip and left my arm hurting for multiple days because she hits the same place on my upper arm all the time and hits my jaw/ mouth in the same place. I cant call the police because she will find some way to tell them im lying and make my sister and dad lie. i cant tak to my dad because no one likes him. he cheats and such but we need him for bill money. my mom found out i selfharmed and got mad at me for it. she gets mad when i cry because she has no emotions. i cant talk to her. being at home doesnt feel safe to me and i get pushed around. One of my friends at school said i cant let her hit me. last year in middle school dfacs was called on my family because of something i said to a boyfriend that escalated to the counselor. my mom blamed me for it and constantly brings that the me saying im going to ruin her life, or that ive already ruined her life. I hate her. im scared of my own mom. What do i do?..

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  • ccsmod2
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi, thanks for reaching out to National Runaway Safeline. It seems like you have going through a difficult time and hopefully we can help. It sounds tough to feel your mother is being aggressive towards you and that your sister hits you. It is not fair to be treated poorly like you have been. It sounds like your dad is someone you would talk to if her was there. Assuming he is just not home at the time, would you feel comfortable asking your dad to make a time to sit and discuss this issues with you? If not, is there someone else you could think of who you trust and can talk to? This seems to be a lot on you and it may be beneficial to talk about it and discuss some possible solutions. NRS can provide you with resources that may be helpful as well and if you would really like to talk, feel free to call our 24/7 hotline at 1800-RUNAWAY or chat with us liv by visiting 1800runaway.org. Best of luck and we hope to hear from you soon.

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hello im 13 and my mother has been very agressive lately and i cant stand her anymore whenever my sister does something that annoys she always ends up hitting me even if i dont do anything bad to her my dad isnt home right now and i dont have anyone to tell this to. the people at my school are spoiled kids and i dont want to be friends with them i always feel alone and i really need someone that i can talk to about this

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hi there,

    Thanks for reaching out to NRS via online forum service. Reaching out for help is a brave thing to do. Your feelings matter and you are not insane. You are so much more than what your mom says about you and you have wonderful things to offer this world.

    No one should have to endure being hit by their mom. Reaching out to a trusted adult at school or a member of your family about this is a great way to find support and help with the situation. You deserve to feel supported and loved by the people around you. You can also reach out to the National Child Abuse Hotline, at 1 (800) 422-4453 or go to their website at childhelp.org. At NRS, we would be happy to speak with you as well about what you are experiencing at home. We are here 24/7 and can be reached at 1 (800) RUN-AWAY (786-2929).

    We hope this information has been helpful. Please do not hesitate to reach out to us. You are strong and you are worthy of love and respect.

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    My mom keeps hitting when I do a simple mistake.
    She keeps telling me how everyone hates, even her friend's.
    I can't take this anymore.
    Just today she hit me with the belt 11 times.
    it hurts me.
    She says I'm mentally insane.
    Any advice?
    I'm 12.

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. We're sorry to hear about all that has been going on and all that you are feeling and want you to know that you deserve to feel safe and happy in your home. You mentioned experiencing emotional and physical abuse which may be reportable against your mother. Please keep in mind you by no means deserve any type of abuse, emotional or otherwise. That said, we can’t be 100% sure what the outcome will be if your local CPS decides to open a case based on what you share. Sometimes CPS decides to remove minors from the home and other times they offer services such as family counseling or mediation instead. The only way to know the outcome might be to reach out to them directly and if you’re ready to do that we are here to help you through that process. Reaching out to Child Help USA at (1-800-422-4453) or www.childhelp.org may help to get a better understanding of what may happen before and after a report is made.

    We are not legal experts, but we can tell you that if you are a minor, under 18, and you leave and your mother files a runaway report, you could be returned home. There could also be legal consequences for whomever you stay with for what is called harboring a runaway. If you want a liner to help you walk through other options like us mediating a conference call between you and your mother, thinking through possible adults that you could turn to or could advocate for you, or things like emancipation and legal aid numbers, don't hesitate to give us a call at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929).

    Stay safe,

    NRS

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  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I feel so depressed,alone because my of my mother she always beats me yell at me every time she get angry for something she treats me like a animal she always blames me and beats me for no reason i just can’t handle it im so sad and lonely. And i dont want to tell about this to anyone. I have really nice friends but they can’t help with this. She never cared about me she always cared about my step brother. I just hate my home living in their is worst that living in a hell. But somehow i mange to look them in a positive way....

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. We're sorry to hear about everything that has been going on and want you to know that your life is valuable and you deserve to feel safe and happy in your home. We understand that it takes a great deal of courage to seek help. You mentioned experiencing emotional and physical abuse which may be reportable against your mom. Please keep in mind you by no means deserve any type of abuse, emotional or otherwise. That said, we can’t be 100% sure what the outcome will be if your local CPS decides to open a case based on what you share. Sometimes CPS decides to remove minors from the home and other times they offer services such as family counseling or mediation instead. The only way to know the outcome might be to reach out to them directly and if you’re ready to do that we are here to help you through that process. Reaching out to Child Help USA at (1-800-422-4453) or www.childhelp.org may help to get a better understanding of what may happen before and after a report is made.

    If you don't want to report it, a liner here could talk through other options such as getting emancipated or thinking through other possible adults or people that could advocate for you to your mom or to provide you a different place to live. We can be reached at 1-800-786-2929 24/7 if you ever need us.

    Stay safe,

    NRS

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  • Guest
    Guest replied
    hi, i’m reaching out because i don’t know what to do. i feel like a failure... like i’ve failed my mom, failed the world. my mom belittles me and she doesn’t know it. she tried to validate her wrong doings because she’s a “christian” . my mother does hit me atleast 5 days out of the week, multiple times in a day. i’ve grown to adapt to it and not cry because i don’t want to seem vulnerable because then she will feel empowered.

    examples of how my mother hits me is, one day she needed to use the restroom that was in my bedroom. i usually lock my door while sleeping so in order for her to get in i would have to wake up. i didn’t hear he knocking for the first couple of minutes, until i finally woke up and answered the door. my mother believes that i was ignoring her, and when she walked in she socked me about a good 4/5 times to the face while saying, “i’m not the f****** one to play with” and the hits where so extreme i was left with a severe busted lip and i couldn’t be seen the public eyes for a week or 2 because i didn’t want to be questioned or embarrassed. i had to call of work which resulted to me being fired, and i barely ate because it was painful. that was only one out of many times that this happened. i haven’t attempted suicide but i’m not scared to. if there’s any help out there for me, that would be greatly appreciated. thank you .

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  • ccsmod10
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hello

    Thank you for contacting the National Runaway Safeline. We are sorry to hear about your situation. Unfortunately, you seem to be located outside of the United States so our resources that we have available are very sparse. However, you can always call us to talk at 1800-RUNAWAY. You mentioned suicide, which is a very serious topic. If you are feeling like you want to harm yourself or end your life, please do not hesitate to reach out to your local police for help. Unfortunately we cannot conference call out to international resources. You can also call out to the Australia Lifeline at 13-11-14 or at https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/get-help-home .

    Dealing with an abusive situation at home can be extremely hard and scary. We are here to support you through this hard time. You do not deserve any form of abuse by the hand of anyone. If you are feeling unsafe or are thinking about reporting the abuse you may want to contact your local Child Protection agency or the police. It sounds like there is some alcohol and drug abuse going on in the home. If at any time your family members are willing to get help for their situations hopefully they will contact some drug and alcohol counseling resources. You informed us that you may be looking to leave home but do not want to stay anywhere that is not stable. You seem to have some concerns about that, it is understandable that you feel that you need stability. Possibly talking with other friends or family members who are trustworthy about your situation may also help you get more options about where to go.

    Again, thank you for reaching out to the NRS. We are open 24/7 on our hotline. We are also confidential, and are toll free. We wish you the very best and hope for a safer environment for you.

    -NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hello i am 16 years old. whenever i get like 90 or 80 on a test my mum smacks me super hard on my cheek then she pulls my hair and drags me into my room, slamming the door from behind. please help me! and when i do the littlest things she sometimes even grabs a sharp object like scissors and cuts my hair and pokes me in my arm. i really really need help but i cannot call anyone since my mother took all my electronics away and i cant use the home phone either. i am never allowed outside or with my friends so i cant use their phones. help!!

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