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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey there,

    Thanks so much for contacting us, it takes a lot of courage to reach out and share your story. It must be really hard to go to a school where you are being discriminated against only then to go home to such a tense situation. Running away is a big decision and it can be very stressful to figure out what you want to do.

    You mentioned that your dad hits you and your mom regularly beats you with objects. This raises concern for your safety and well-being. Absolutely no one deserves to be abused no matter the situation. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. If you feel like this is an option you want to explore, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering. It may also be a good idea to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

    If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

    All the best,
    NRS

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    I feel like i'm not loved. My mom hits me for no reason and says things like "Your stupid" "You can't do anything right" "Go study because you need the extra help since its impossible for you to pass" "I wish you were never my daughter" "You shouldn't be here". It was easy to listen to in the beginning but then I started believing all of those words. I'm 13 and i'm in 8th grade. Ever since a new school was made in the district my school wanted to "Up their game" and started giving us more work. I did them all and got good grades but when I started talking to my friend about school she told me about how nice the other school is. I have a racist assistant principle who literally only likes white people, and none of my teachers really care about me. My social studies teacher puts in 0's for me even if I turn my work in 1 day late and she grades it after a month. When I go home my mom sees a 0 in the grade book and she hits me for it. Yeah it's a normal Asian parents thing... but it's not normal for a school with selfish racist and HORRIBLE teachers. I literally can't take any of it and I worry about how i'll make it in the future. I found this video game called Roblox and I started getting addicted to it because of the people in the community. I could talk about everything that was going on... without someone judging me. I also learned that people had similar problems like me, and I became friends with most of the people. It was my get away place, but soon my mom started getting mad at me for not washing the dishes or doing all the chores I never had to do before. She beat me for it. Most peoples parents slap them but mines use actual objects. My mom hits me with my old baseball bat and it hurts a lot. But as she called me a worthless pile of ___ I realized that no one loved me.Every time I got an 80 my mom would tell me that I was bad at everything and beat me for it. I started to speak up for my self because I was feed up with it all .My mom tells my dad about my grades and he doesn't care but then she starts stretching the truth and being dramatic about it and it builds up tension in my dads mind. Soon he started hitting me too but I didn't care because I love my dad... He works hard every day earning money for us and keeping us alive we had a good family until my mom changed.I thought about going to a place where I could learn and get support from those who surround me. I wished for a new mom every night hoping someone would listen to my prayers but nothing happend. Sometimes I actually get ready to run away but then I remember my dad and how he needs my support. I'm scared honestly I don't feel safe in my house. My mom acts like a crazy woman and it actually scares me. I feel like I might die someday because of how much and how hard she hits me. I want to run away but i'm scared about where I will go or if someone will kidnap me or if I get killed. Its scary and I dont know what to do. I don't want to tell my friends because i'm scared they will hate me.

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hi,

    Thanks so much for reaching out. It sounds like you’re in a very painful situation without much support, so it’s great that you’ve asked for some help. We’re sorry to hear you’ve been so mistreated. No one deserves to be physically abused by anyone, ever. It’s important to remember that what you’re going through is not your fault and you’re not alone.

    If you weren’t already aware, your mother’s behavior constitutes abuse. She has no right to hit you and you have the right to report it if you choose. It sounds like you don’t have phone access right now, so if you need help doing so, or simply want to talk with someone safe and trustworthy about what’s going on, you can use our chat service at 1800runaway.org. If you regain access to your phone, or can borrow someone else’s, you can call Child Help at 1-800-422-4453 or our call center at 1-800-786-2929. Someone is always available to listen and to help.

    We’re sorry to hear you don’t trust your teachers or counselors right now, but again, it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. You mentioned wanting to kill yourself. If those thoughts ever get out of control or you feel like you might try to hurt yourself, please reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at suicidepreventionlifeline.org or 1-800-273-8255. Your safety and well-being are important and you are valued, no matter how it might feel to you now.

    Thanks again for reaching out. We know things are difficult at the moment but it’s great that you’re looking for some help. We hope to hear from you soon.

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    Hi! I'm 12 years old and my mother hits me all the time. She isn't in depression or anything but, it's all because of my older sister. My sister, she will hit me all the time and also,yell at me and throw things at me. She also steals my things and ruins them. But, when I do that to her for revenge my mother hits me really bad. My eyes get all red from crying all the time because of the pain. My mother blames me for the mistakes that my sister makes. I don't ever get anything I want. My life is technically ruined. For example, for the past 4 years, on every single of my birthday's we have moved. Now that we finally didn't, I asked for something that I never got. Yes, we went out for dinner, but that just made me sick. So, nI asked my dad if I could get something that could make p for that and he replied with, "No, we are falling short on some money." It is so naot fair. My mother will get mad at me for the littelest reasons. Some times I think about killing myself. Almost, eveytime I cry until my head starts hurting and I faint. I don't know who to ask for help because I don't trust my teachers or counselor right now and my grandmother says she can't do anything about it. I'm definetly in deep depression right now. I can't call anyone either becasue my mother takes away my electronics all the time. I finally am getting the chance to say this because she can't take away my school computer because of homework. Please give my some advice. I don't want to live this horrible life anymore. I'd rather run away or kill my self.

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  • ccsmod5
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. It is never okay for your mum (or anyone!) to hit, punch, or kick you. You deserve to feel safe and happy in your own home. You always have the right to file an abuse report with child protective services by talking with a teacher, guidance counselor, or any other adult you trust; you can also call your local cps office on your own. That said, we can’t be 100% sure what the outcome will be if your local CPS decides to open a case based on what you share. Sometimes CPS decides to remove minors from the home and other times they offer services such as family counseling or mediation instead. The only way to know the outcome might be to reach out to them directly and if you’re ready to do that we are here to help you through that process. Reaching out to Child Help USA at (1-800-422-4453) or www.childhelp.org may help to get a better understanding of what may happen before and after a report is made.
    We hope this was helpful, but if you have any questions or need any resources we are always here for you through our 24-hour hotline, 1-800-786-2929.

    Stay safe,

    NRS

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    Guest replied
    I am 15, Yes I do make my mum mad when I do not do my chores correctly but she punches me in the arm hits me on the back/punches. Hits me/kicks me. I know if the marks don't stay for long it is not considered child abuse but still, and she also smacks me in the head.

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey There,

    Thanks so much for contacting us, it takes a lot of courage to reach out and share your story. It must be really hard to live in a home with so much tension. Everyone deserves to live somewhere where they feel happy and safe.

    You said that you have previously had thoughts of suicide and used to self-harm and worry that you might start again.. We care a lot about your safety, and we can help you find resources that can help you cope with these feelings. You do not have to face this alone, and there is so much help out there for you. If you are thinking about hurting yourself, the National Suicide Hotline could be a good resource for you. You can check them out at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/, or you can call 1-800-273-8255 for help and support any time.

    You mentioned some things that raise concern for your safety and well-being. Absolutely no one deserves to be abused. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. If you feel like this is an option you want to explore, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering. It may also be a good idea to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody. If your parents live separately it could be worthwhile to talk to your dad about changing your living situation or about custody changes.

    If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

    All the best,
    NRS

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    i'm 13 years old and my mom abuses me. most of the time is verbally whether its calling me fat or yelling at me for the smallest things. a few minutes ago i accidentally slammed the door after having a little argument and she started punching me and pulling my hair and making me kneel on the floor that's when i knew i had enough so i'm doing this.. i'm really scared and cry myself to sleep everyday. I've started falling into a depression i feel like life isn't worth living. i feel like nobody loves me in my own home. two years ago it got so bad i started self harming. i'm fine now but i feel like its going to happen again. my dad had always been the nicer parent telling my mom to stop and always being happy and proud of me meanwhile my mom just looked at me as stupid. i was failing 4 classes and i had a talk with my dad and now i'm getting better (still on the way) i'm only failing one class but my mom doesn't think i'm doing well enough my dad on the other hand was supportive,he orders me an uber to go to extra help and he always calls me when he sees that i'm doing better since i don't live with him. i really want to get help but i don't wanna move i love where i live i have friends who i love and they make me happier, i already moved 3 years ago and it was really hard to make friends i don't wanna go through it again. i don't wanna call anyone i'm too scared that she'll find out and hurt me to the point where i might die. people say its discipline when your parents hit you but when they do it over the smallest things or for no reason its abuse. when my mom hit me a few minutes ago i grabbed her wrists trying to protect myself but she started hitting me worse saying that i tried to hit her back. please help me and tell me what to do i'm scared

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  • ccsmod6
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    Thanks for reaching out. First of all, we want you to know that abuse is never okay. You deserve to live in a home where you are safe from being attacked. One thing you can consider doing is filing an abuse report. You can call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY or you can call Child Help at 1-800-422-4453 in order to file an abuse report. If you have any marks or bruises, you may want to take pictures of them with a camera or phone to help with your report if you choose to file one.

    Also, you said you want to die. If you are thinking about killing yourself, please reach out to get some help. You can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255. You matter and what you are going through is not worth throwing your life away.

    Please feel free to call us anytime or start a chat with us at 1800runaway.org. We are here to listen and help.

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    Guest replied
    Me too yesterday I got Suspension and my mom beat me for 40 minutes straight its so bad to the point where i want to die I just wanna be left alone for once

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  • ccsmod4
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    Reply: Hello I’m 14 years old.


    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS).

    From everything that you have been going through at home with your parent’s it took a lot of courage for you to reach out. We appreciate you sharing your feelings about the situation. Well done. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please call 1-800-Runaway (786-2929) or chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in.


    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 9-1-1 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Hello I’m 14 years old. Today my Mother took a Hard Cardboard Road and completely hurt and destroyed my hands and my legs, I’m crying so hard and tell her how I can’t feel any part of my body, but she said she does not care, and in fact she would even hit me more and harder. She abuses me whenever she can and loves to embarrass e in public’s, she never lets me be with any of my friends and when ever I cry she always tells me I’m faking it. She beats me on another level and does not care about me at all. I wish I could just shut myself from the entire world and not let it know I exist. I wish I could have a better mom who would not get angry at me whenever I try and speak my opinion. I wish I had a mother who would not shut me to entire world, and completeley ignore me. I wish I had a mother who took my feeling to consideration. I wish my mother would not act so fake in front everyone and comepletely make me feel like trash. I wish that she would not beat me up, and shatter my body, my heart and my face into a million pieces. I wish that these would all come true, but I know they never can.
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  • ccsmod3
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    Hello,

    Thank you for your openness to share about your experience and reaching out to us. It takes courage to do so when it seems a lot of your outlets have been difficult to share with as it results in making things worse with you mom. It is never okay to hit by your parents and you do have the right to report the abuse. Understandably there is a fear that people won’t believe you and things could be covered up, this may be difficult to think about, but it may be good to collect evidence that proves the abuse that is going on, so if you decide to report. We are also mandated reporters here and can support you with calling out the child help (National Child Abuse Hotline) at 1-800-422-4453. You can ask questions about the process, report here, or get support with what you are experiencing.

    One should feel safe and supported in their own and it sounds like you have support outside the home, but needing some ways to outlet until things can shift until change can happen. It’s definitely okay to have emotions as that is what makes us unique as humans. Also another way you can seek help is reaching out to a friend, teacher, or counselor at school that can help you look for resources. Your mental health is important. You can also look at SAMHSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at samhsa.gov (call them directly at 1-877-726-4727) or NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness 1-800-950-NAMI to help you find the support that you need. If you do ever feel in direct danger, to yourself, or some else makes you feel that way, please call out to 911 or reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255). You are valued and important.

    We are here for you and will support you in anyway that we can. Please feel free to call into us directly as we can talk further about your situation and find resources that are best for you in your area. Stay strong and you are not alone in this! Our hotline ( 1-800-RUNAWAY) and chat are open 24/7.

    -NRS

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    my mom has hit me and my sister ever since we were young. i am 14 now but she only hits me because she doesnt love me or something. she has taken my phone and i do and online school thing and go to my home high school for one class and often i go to class crying because y mom hits me in the car. she has busted my lip and left my arm hurting for multiple days because she hits the same place on my upper arm all the time and hits my jaw/ mouth in the same place. I cant call the police because she will find some way to tell them im lying and make my sister and dad lie. i cant tak to my dad because no one likes him. he cheats and such but we need him for bill money. my mom found out i selfharmed and got mad at me for it. she gets mad when i cry because she has no emotions. i cant talk to her. being at home doesnt feel safe to me and i get pushed around. One of my friends at school said i cant let her hit me. last year in middle school dfacs was called on my family because of something i said to a boyfriend that escalated to the counselor. my mom blamed me for it and constantly brings that the me saying im going to ruin her life, or that ive already ruined her life. I hate her. im scared of my own mom. What do i do?..

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hi, thanks for reaching out to National Runaway Safeline. It seems like you have going through a difficult time and hopefully we can help. It sounds tough to feel your mother is being aggressive towards you and that your sister hits you. It is not fair to be treated poorly like you have been. It sounds like your dad is someone you would talk to if her was there. Assuming he is just not home at the time, would you feel comfortable asking your dad to make a time to sit and discuss this issues with you? If not, is there someone else you could think of who you trust and can talk to? This seems to be a lot on you and it may be beneficial to talk about it and discuss some possible solutions. NRS can provide you with resources that may be helpful as well and if you would really like to talk, feel free to call our 24/7 hotline at 1800-RUNAWAY or chat with us liv by visiting 1800runaway.org. Best of luck and we hope to hear from you soon.
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