I am 15 and live in Howard County MD. I had some issues with my mom because she hit me, called me a hoe and was very mentally abusive towards me before also. My father physically abused me as a child so I havent seen him in years since the court ordered him to not have contact with my brother and I for at least two years.
After my mom hit me and called me a hoe, I tried to leave to my half brothers house, he is 27. She called the cops though and they made me go back home with her that night. When we got back home that night though, she told me that if I actually didnt want to stay, I could go live with them instead. So I did.
It has been 4 months now that I have been living with my half brother instead and we have had a lot of issues also (apparently I am very difficult to handle I guess). We dont agree on a lot of things, like the way I dress, if I should be able to hang out with friends, after school activities I should be allowed to do, etc.
So now my brother is telling me that by the end of the school year I have to be out. He doesnt want me living with him anymore either. He says I have to have a plan of what I am going to do after the school years ends by the end of spring break (this week) and I cannot do anything else over spring break except for working on "my next step".
I would rather just go back to my moms and handle her discipline but she doesnt want me back. She is leasing my room to some other person currently and told my brother that her place is "not an option". So now I do not know where to go or what to do, and I have to figure it out by the end of the week. I would like to be able to stay in the same school and just live with a friend but my brother is saying that my mom wont let that happen.
He says if I cant figure out my own solution then he will just end up sending me to job corps, which I do not want to do. What can I do though?
After my mom hit me and called me a hoe, I tried to leave to my half brothers house, he is 27. She called the cops though and they made me go back home with her that night. When we got back home that night though, she told me that if I actually didnt want to stay, I could go live with them instead. So I did.
It has been 4 months now that I have been living with my half brother instead and we have had a lot of issues also (apparently I am very difficult to handle I guess). We dont agree on a lot of things, like the way I dress, if I should be able to hang out with friends, after school activities I should be allowed to do, etc.
So now my brother is telling me that by the end of the school year I have to be out. He doesnt want me living with him anymore either. He says I have to have a plan of what I am going to do after the school years ends by the end of spring break (this week) and I cannot do anything else over spring break except for working on "my next step".
I would rather just go back to my moms and handle her discipline but she doesnt want me back. She is leasing my room to some other person currently and told my brother that her place is "not an option". So now I do not know where to go or what to do, and I have to figure it out by the end of the week. I would like to be able to stay in the same school and just live with a friend but my brother is saying that my mom wont let that happen.
He says if I cant figure out my own solution then he will just end up sending me to job corps, which I do not want to do. What can I do though?
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