I feel unwanted by my family

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I feel unwanted by my family. They dont treat me the sam as the others . My parents always blame me for everything. They always call me names and accuse me of things i haven't done. They always say i am the trouble child. That i am the damaged one. I feel like im not even a part of there family like i am adopted. I dont even look like them. When ever i try to talk to them they just laugh at me or tell me to piss off. They dont even take me seriously. And i want it to stop i can't take it. I just want to feel like i am wanted and i cant hear. I dont want to live here anymore. Can someone give me any advise. Maybe someone to talk to.

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Re: I feel unwanted by my family

Hi there,

Thank you so much for reaching out to us. It sounds like you have been feeling pretty unwanted at home lately because of the things that your family has been saying to you. This has to be really difficult, feeling so hurt and not having anyone to talk to about it. We want you to know that we’re always here, 24/7 by phone to talk. We also have chat available daily through our website at 1800runaway.org.

It sounds like your family has been saying some really hurtful things and these are not things that you deserve to be hearing. One option you have is to call us here at 1800RUNAWAY, and we could potentially do a conference call with one of your legal guardians. On conference calls, NRS acts as a mediator for the conversation to make sure each party is equally heard.

Similar to this, we have resources for counseling. A family counselor may be able to act as a facilitator, too. If counseling is not something you think your family would agree to, it might be possible to have a close family friend or extended family member to act in this way, too.

We’re here to support you in any way that we can. We can talk more through other possibilities if you would like to give us a call or chat with us. We’re not here to tell you what to do, we’re just here to help work through options based on what you feel most comfortable with.

Best,
NRS

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I feel unwanted in my family everyne gets along fine until I come along do the middle child have three older siblings three younger siblings. I feel unwanted and unloved my brothers and my sisters always scream how they hate me how they don't love me I only wish I wasn't there sister I'm 16 year old girl I'm still in high school going into senior year I'm shorter than everyone. They're always screaming at me and I feel like they would be better off if I was not here anymore if I just run away or you know not be here you know.

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It sounds like you are thinking about harming yourself or ending your life. It takes a lot of strength to reach out for help, and we are so glad that you did. Your life has worth and our top priority is your safety. If you feel this is an emergency you could consider calling 911 for emergency assistance. We are here to listen and support you in any way that we can, and we can help you find resources that can help you cope with these feelings. You do not have to face this alone, and there is so much help out there for you. If you are thinking about hurting yourself, the National Suicide Hotline could be a good resource for you. You can check them out at www.youmatter.suicidepreventionlifeline.org, or you can call 1-800-273-8255 for help and support any time. You can also call us 24/7 at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) if you need to talk.

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I feel unwanted by mom sometimes like I am always the one to depend on, that I am always the one to blame and I get called names by her sometimes and I can barely talk to her and tell her how I feel, I am always the one that gets yelled at the most if I don’t feel like doing something I just get yelled at, I am the oldest out of 4 kids I am always the one to do things for them. It’s hard sometimes and some of those times she calls me names it hurts my feelings. There is just always a lot on my plate I feel like.

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Hi there,
Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. It sounds like things at home have been hard. It makes sense why you are feeling the way that you do. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
We hope to hear from you soon.
Be safe,
NRS