What will happen if i leave.. Give me help???

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So I never get along with my mother, and my father is a truck driver so quite often he isn't home. I come home from school everyday scared that I'm going to get yelled at for no reason. I come home crying because I know I will be getting in trouble. I can never make her happy no matter what I do. She tells me I do nothing. Bull, I do everything to make her happy. I just wanna run away and live at my friends house, if I told her where I went what could she do?. It wouldn't necessarily be runny away. I'm so stressed and I'm ugly. Someone give me tips. I cannot take this anymore, I can't even talk to my mom. I'm 15 years old and I have to buy everything for myself and I don't even have a job yet. So someone please help, thank you!💙

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Re: What will happen if i leave.. Give me help???

Hi there,

Thank you for contacting us through our online forum. It seems as if things between you and your mom are not going well. It seems like such a frustrating situation to feel like your mom doesn’t approve of you and that you can’t make her happy.
It sounds like you are thinking about leaving home to stay with a friend. You wouldn’t be considered a runaway if you have your mother’s permission to stay with a friend. If she didn’t give you permission and you left anyway, she could contact the police and file a runaway report. This would mean that if you are picked up by the police, they would most likely take you back home.

There’s a lot of things to consider when running away. Would your friend’s parents be okay with you staying with them? You also mentioned that having to pay for things is a burden on you. Do you feel like once you leave, paying for things will be easier or harder?

Have you told anyone about what you’re going through at home? Maybe a school counselor, a teacher, a relative, or a friend’s parents could be or help and maybe eventually mediate a conversation between you and your mom about how are actions are making you feel.

You might want to consider chatting or giving us a call. We would be happy to discuss with you your situation in more detail.

Best of luck,
NRS