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    Hi, I know this was a while back but I still want to reply! I know what you’re going through my stepdad did the same thing multiple times but sober. Anyway talk to your whole family about it. Also, I believe there is a medicine thing that helps with alcohol abuse. Another thing is get the whole family involved in activities. This can help with abuse trust me. I hope this helps you!

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  • ccsmod11
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    Hi, and thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. No one deserves to be hurt in any way.

    When any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. If you feel like reporting is an option you want to explore, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. Child Help USA (1-800-422-4453) is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering.

    It sounds like you are fearing that the situation may end in suicide if things don’t change. Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255); www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org is also a great resource to reach out to in addition to our crisis services.

    This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We are here as support to help you in whatever way we can. Please do not hesitate to reach out by calling 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chatting with us via www.1800RUNAWAY.org as we can best help by phone or chat. We hope to hear from you soon.
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    I'm a f 15 and my step dad hits me with a belt
    he says it's to educate me but sometimes he is just mad he hits me even if it's his son's fault my mom doesn't care she is always saying hit her and also students make fun of the clothes he makes me wear in school. I wished I was never alive

    He makes me wear loose baggy pants and long skirts if I say no he leaves me Bruce's with the belt
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  • ccsmod2
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    Hi, thanks for contacting National Runaway Safeline. We are so sorry you are experiencing this. It must have been really scary to witness your father abuse your mother. You are very strong and brave, as well as empathetic and thoughtful to be able to be mindful of your father and concerned for your family. We would want you all to be safe and if something like this were to occur again, it may be beneficial to contact your local authorities. Should the abuse continue to happen, it may be beneficial to consider reporting it to authorities who can intervene. If you would like more information about what that may look like should you ever need to consider doing so, the National Domestic Violence Helpline may be a beneficial resource. They can be reached by phone at 1800-799-7233 of you can visit their website, which is thehotline.org. We know it might be scary to think of what that outcome may be but your safety is most important. It is understandable to fear the thought of being without your step-father. It seems like he is going through a very difficult time. It may be beneficial for your step-father to consider speaking to someone who can assist him. NAMI may be a helpful resource to outreach about therapy, maybe even family therapy. There are a number of trained professionals who could assist you and your family during this time. NAMI can be reached by phone at 1800-950-NAMI (6264) or you could also visit their site which is www.nami.org. We are also here to support should you need some assistance contacting these agencies. As always, we are here to help. Please, do not hesitate to give us a call at any time by calling our 24/7 hotline 1800-RUNAWAY or chat with us live by visiting our website 1800runaway.org.

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    This just happened. My parents got drunk and my stepfather dragged her from her hair from the elevator and choked her. He was the only man I ever trusted. He was the sweetest, kindest, most loving man I knew. It's been a little over ten years since they met, and six years ago my baby brother was born, since then he started to change but mom justified that it was stress. Yet, I was his only target. If he was ever angry, he'd just yell at me, but he loved my mom too much. He's been crying for hours that he doesn't recognise himself and that he's become a monster. He keeps saying he's scared of what he might do, because he's always heard once you abuse your wife once, it's bound to happened again. My brother is 6 and my sister is 4. All of my friends have parents who always talk of divorcing, and I know how it affects them. I have no idea what to do. I can't let my siblings live with separated parents, but what if it happens again. Me, my mom, and stepdad are really scared and we don't know what to do. We're from a country where domestic violence is either completely ignored or taken too seriously, and the government is no help. We're screwed without my stepfather.

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  • ccsmod16
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    Hi,

    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you have experienced a really difficult and frightening situation. We’re so sorry to hear that you went through that and now have to feel worried for yourself and your family’s safety. It takes courage to reach out and it shows that you must really care for your family.

    Know that it is not okay for him to physically and emotionally abuse you or your mom. If you would like to get support for your family, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is there to support you at 1-800-799-7233. We want you all to be safe now and to have a plan to stay safe. You mentioned that his parents know now and have tried helping. Are there any other trusted adults you know that can help you through this? Having an escape/safety plan for the future can keep your family from getting hurt. This involves planning where you all can stay safe from him, and being ready to call 911 or another source to help you immediately. Calling that hotline will help you think of ways for your family and yourself stay safe during times that your father is violent.

    It sounds like you are afraid that your mom wouldn’t be able to support you if the separated. Sometimes there are grants that women and single mothers leaving an abusive situation can get. If that sounds like something that could help, the link is: https://nnedv.org/about-us/what-we-do/. Also, there are counseling resources that could help heal families after tough situations. If you would like other resources or to talk through what’s going on and how you’re feeling, we are here for you 24/7 at 1-800-786-2929. Please don’t hesitate to reach out!

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    My step dad hit my mom

    I don't really know what to do but I just want some comfort. I'm in disbelief, my step dad came home later than usual he usually gets home around 6pm but this day he came home late at like 10:20pm. Around 10:30pm I start to hear my mom screaming for help . So I ran to my parents room and saw my step dad standing over my mom and she was on the ground. She was just trying to sleep and he was hitting her she was even worried about him that he got in a car accident because he got home so late .I started to scream at him and tell him on no world do u ever hit someone like that . My mom was scared she feared for her life i could tell. He also threw her phone across the room broke her glasses and new earings she has a bump next to her eye now too .He came at me and put his hands around my neck but he didn't continue because I started to kick him in his gut. He was also cursing at us . I yelled at him more and he slapped me and pulled my hair. My mom was trying to tell him to stop and when he did my mom made him call his parents and they talked to him for a long time because we told them what happened . This was not like him although I've never been a big fan of my step father this was absurd, I never thought he was capable of this he was drunk and we don't know what happened to him. My mom was beat for 7 years by my biological father and my step dad knew that. My mom can't take this kind of stress she has 4 kids me, my two sister that are 2 and 3 and my brother who is 1 I am 14. Sometimes I get worried that if they ever seperate or something my mom wouldn't be able to support us she's a stay at home mom and she doesn't work. I'm also worried because I am leaving the 6th to visit my grandmother in a different state and I'm worried that he'll do something like that again and my mom won't be able to have any help. I don't know if I should stay or go.we hope that today he'll be ok and actually talk to us about what happened but I will never see him as the same person he will never be my father .
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