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My parents dont abuse me or anything but they treat me like a slave all i do all day is chores i get in touble when i dont do one little chore its so messed up my brother abusees me all the time my whole life rdvolves around my family they been fighting recently i wanna kill myself no joke plz help im a 12 year old girl and want to end my life but i dont wanna only cause how will my cat feel im called ugly and stuipid i think i have 2 choices runaway or suicide and brother gets everything doesnt do any chores and pretty much rules our house anway please help : (
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Hi there,
Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now. It sounds like you’re fearing that the situation may end in suicide if things don’t change. Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255); www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org is also a great resource to reach out to in addition to our crisis services.
Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
We hope to hear from you soon.
Be safe and stay strong,
NRS
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My dad makes me feel unsafe and makes me want to die. My mom says to just ignore it but I cant. Today he yelled at me for something I didn't do and I thought he couldn't hear me so I said that I didn't do it and he thought that I was yelling at him. Now my parents dont abuse me or anything and my mom says that its his way of showing love because he had a tough life and lifestyle. I don't know what to do and its been getting a bit worse. Please o give me some advice.Comment
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Hi there,
Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
We hope to hear from you soon.
Be safe,
NRS
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I honestly would like to be dead because yesterday I was in my room on my phone my mom just come in my room and yells u have to get THE ******** OUT OR IM CALLING THE POLICE and I'm like wtf and she yelling at me I'm just so quite an I decided to move on my college campus and she calls the police and says I smoke weed and crack I'm like tf and the police like searches me and finds nothing so she get charge with false charges and she plants weed on me and calls the police again and finds weed I'm like she planted that the police says u got proof I say no and I go to juvenile for having weed on me for a week so I got out I'm still dealing with her and one day she like I need money I'm like no u had put me in juv and need money for crack and weed oh hell nall
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Hi there, thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you have been going through a lot with your mom and wanting to run away or kill yourself. It’s understandable to not want to live with your mom when all it seems to be is her having different men over. You do not deserve that. It sounds like at some point you had moved on to your college campus which was a good way to get out of mom’s house. There could be other options of places to go like a friend or another family member’s house or possibly even a shelter. We can best help you find resources when you call our hotline 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chat us online at 1800runaway.org.
We hope to hear from you soon,
NRS
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I really don’t know how to start this so I’m not gonna beat around the bush my friend told me I’m being mentally and verbally abused by my parents. I’m not sure if it’s really abuse but what I told her is my last 8 suicide attempts have been because of my parents and that my parents take my phone and search through it and that I have no privacy I also said that my parents have control of my bank accounts and won’t let me spend any money without asking for they’re explicit permission to buy it. My dad has beat me up for not filling a water bottle correctly and getting a 80 on a test is enough to get me called an idiot. My parents provide me with so many things like cruises and vacations and new things but then they’ll call me a worthless mistake. I don’t know what I’m doing anymore I kinda just want to die. My parents pay so little attention that they haven’t had enough time to listen to me say I’m autistic because I just found out yesterday. Also they don’t care enough to realize I just broke up with my boyfriend. I’m 12 years old and I’m already numb to this world and I’ve already tried to take my life because of my parents more times than I can count. I’ve thought about reporting my parents but it’s not worth it I have a good life outside of being mentally verbally and sometimes physically abused. I’m not really sure if what my parents are doing is abuse or tough love. Please help.
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Hello There,
Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are going through a difficult time and we want you to know you are not alone.
You mentioned having many suicide attempts, we are so glad that you are still here to share your story. Suicide is a permanent decision to a temporary situation, there is always someone willing to listen and support you. If you are feeling suicidal or just need someone to talk to please reach out to 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988. You also may want to consider talking to a school counselor or a therapist about what is going on at home.
What you described may be abuse and you have every right to make a report and there are a few ways to make a report. One option would be to talk to a school counselor or teacher, because they are mandated reporters they would be required to take a report. You can also call Child Help at 1800-422-4453 and they can help you with an abuse report. Lastly, you can always chat or call us and we can help with a report.
You deserve to be happy and feel loved in your home and we want that for you. If you would like to talk more or have questions please give us a call. We are available 24/7 to listen and provide support.
NRS
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Im mentally drained from my fathers bull******** what should I do?Comment
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Hi, thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you are feeling mentally drained from things that your father is doing. That sounds very overwhelming. There can be multiple options on ways to help and we are here to talk more about it if you are interested in doing so. If this interests you, please either call our hotline 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chat us online at 1800runaway.org. We hope to hear from you soon.
Be safe,
NRS
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