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  • #31
    Hello , I am 17 will be 18 in 6 months I have a place too go I have a full time job make plenty too pay pills an care for myself only problem is my parents won’t let me leave when I’m 18 they said because I have seizures I can not go no where my girlfriend knows what too do with the situation when I have seizures she been there for me since I was 14 having seizures she was always the only one too know what too do not my parents how do I got about moving out when I’m 18.

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    • ccsmod9
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      Since you are 18 you are more than likely considered a legal adult which means that you can move out if you want to and you won’t be considered a runaway. As a legal adult, you have a right to make your own decisions about where you live. We can help you make a plan for how to deal with your situation and help you find resources to land on your feet. Having a plan for where you will live and how you will survive once you move out can be very helpful. Moving can be a huge step, and you don’t have to be alone. Some steps you can take towards independence might be to find employment if you don’t have an income, or to save up money for moving expenses. It can also be helpful to research rents in your area, find a roommate, or make a budget. Another thing you might want to consider is what kinds of things you depend on your parents for currently such as tuition expenses for school, or health insurance, and whether they would continue to provide those things after you leave. There may be social service agencies in your area that can help meet some of these needs, such as Transitional Living Programs, a kind of shelter where young adults can live and get services to help them transition to independent living. We are here to listen and help however we can.

  • #32
    I’m 18, and right now I’m run away from my house. I don’t know where to go, who can help me with it, I don’t know where to leave. And now I’m worried if my parents call the police, are they gonna be looking for me since I’m 18.

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    • ccsmod13
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      Hello, thank you for reaching to NRS.

      We are glad you were able to found us and asked for help. It sounds like you have been dealing with a lot and have been doing what you can to take care of yourself. Leaving home is a very difficult decision and you know what is best for you. Since you are 18 you are a legal adult in most states. This means you are not considered a runaway and can not be forced back home. The National Safe Place can help connect you with a youth shelter/agency to go to. All you have to do is text "safe" and your current location to 44357 to be provided with a safe place to go.

      We are here 24/7 to listen and help you any way you need. We can best be of help by phone (1-800-786-2929) or chat (1800runaway.org) if you want to talk more about whats going on and explore options.

      We hope to hear from you soon,
      NRS.

  • #33
    Hi I’m 21 years old and I currently live in Alaska. I’ve been wanting to return to my boyfriend who currently lives in California. Because of my parents being strict with me on not wanting to date him. Which I think is foolish. If I run away with him now. Can my father who is currently a military veteran report me as a runaway person. And report my boyfriend?

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    • ccsmod1
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      Hey there,

      Thanks so much for reaching out, we know that it takes a lot of courage to do so. Since you are 21 you are considered a legal adult and can leave and live where you'd like at any time. Your parents can contact the police and request that they perform a wellness check, which means that the police would come out to verify that you are not in any kind of life-threatening danger but they would leave you alone. Neither your parents nor the police can make you return home. If there is anything else that we can do to be of assistance, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage.

      Be safe,
      NRS

  • #34
    I am turning 18 next year and my stepmom and father are telling me I dont have an option that I have to stay in the house and that I'm not allowed moving out, I have very bad memories from when I was younger being in this house and for self care and mentality issues I believe for my own sake I need to move out to improve my mental health and not be involved with them for a while, I have a place to stay and I'm not sure what to do.

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    • ccsmod9
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      Since you are 18 you are more than likely considered a legal adult which means that you can move out if you want to and you won’t be considered a runaway. As a legal adult, you have a right to make your own decisions about where you live. We can help you make a plan for how to deal with your situation and help you find resources to land on your feet. Having a plan for where you will live and how you will survive once you move out can be very helpful. Moving can be a huge step, and you don’t have to be alone. Some steps you can take towards independence might be to find employment if you don’t have an income, or to save up money for moving expenses. It can also be helpful to research rents in your area, find a roommate, or make a budget. Another thing you might want to consider is what kinds of things you depend on your parents for currently such as tuition expenses for school, or health insurance, and whether they would continue to provide those things after you leave. There may be social service agencies in your area that can help meet some of these needs, such as Transitional Living Programs, a kind of shelter where young adults can live and get services to help them transition to independent living. We are here to listen and help however we can.

  • #35
    Hello i m 18+ and i wish to go far away from the house i live in currently. This is because my family's financial condition has worsened and there is argument going on all the time i m not even able to eat bcoz of that n i hv to suffer from mental disturbance i m not even able to study n its the most crucial period of my life since i m preparing for admission in a medical college so living in such a condition would definitely destroy my career n hence my dreams tooo. I live in india n i m not going to go another city i hv to live in the same city. I m planning to live in my friend's house. I'll also find a part time job. Is it the right thing to do??? If i run and my parents find me will they hv the right to take me without my will??

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    • ccsmod1
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      Hey there,

      Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are in a difficult situation, and we understand it takes courage to reach out for help. The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA). Our knowledge of helpful community based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis related laws is limited to the USA. If you are located in a country outside of the USA, you can use this link to find a youth helpline in or around your country: https://www.childhelplineinternation...pline-network/.

      We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country.

      Be safe,
      NRS

  • #36
    hi so i'm gonna be 18 in two days and i plan on leaving my moms house without her knowing for my dads house which is four hours away (but in the same state). he cant pick me up so he wants my boyfriend to take me. can my boyfriend and his mom be charged with anything for taking me? (Nebraska)

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    • ccsmod13
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      Hi there,

      Thanks for contacting NRS. It is really responsible of you to want more information before you leave. Nebraska is one of the few states where the age of majority is 19. This means that you are not considered a legal adult at 18 could still be considered a runaway until you reach 19. But if both of your parents have custody then you would not necessarily be considered a runaway and it would be more a custody issue. To address if your boyfriend and his mom could get into trouble, there could be some legal consequences for taking you away from a guardian. From what we know these charges can be rare and up to the discretion of the police. Additionally, this situation is not taken as seriously if you are not crossing state lines. The police department where your mom lives will have more specific information about their runaway protocol and you can ask questions by calling their non emergency number. We can also call for you if you call our hotline or use our online chat services.

      Please do not hesitate to call (1-800-786-2929) or chat with us if you have any other questions. We are here 24/7 to help!

      Be safe,
      NRS
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