My sister's life has been virtual hell since she was 7 years old. She was sexually abused by my mother's boyfriend, and when my sister was 10 or 11, the abuse finally came to light and my mom's boyfriend was forced out of the house. My sister has never backed down from her accounts of the abuse, her stories have never changed. My mom's boyfriend denies it all, even failed a lie detector test, but the state decided there wasn't enough evidence to convict him, so they dropped all charges.
Last year, he was pulled over at 3am by a state trooper for speeding at 95 MPH in a 25 MPH zone, roaring drunk with his then 4 YEAR OLD SON in the back seat. My brother and sister were removed from my mom's care because the state considered her to be neglectful by leaving the kids in my mom's boyfriend's supervision. My brother went to a foster home and my sister came to my place for a month. My sister (understandably) had a mental breakdown, and since we didn't qualify to foster her (my SO has a criminal history) she had to fly all the way out to Nashville (from Oregon) to stay with our oldest sister and brother-in-law. She stayed there until just after Thanksgiving, when she flew back to Oregon. My mom had gained custody back when the state's neglect charges were found to be untrue.
My mom booted her boyfriend out for a long time, only having anything to do with him because they have a son together. But recently she has been staying with him at his grandmother's (he's 38 and leeching off of his grandma...no job, no car), and leaving my brother in his care while she has been working for the forestry service. This has left my little sister pretty much unsupervised, and though she's only 14, she's admitted dabbling into drugs and alcohol, hanging out with high school boys.
And now my mom has moved her moron boyfriend back into her house, and the minute he came within my sister's presence, he's picked a fight with her. She left, has been staying with her friend since Saturday and now mom's boyfriend is saying she can't come back. To her OWN HOUSE. Where all of her possessions are. And this is right before school begins. I can't get ahold of my mother, and my boyfriend flat out refuses to let my sister come up here because of her behavior last year.
I don't know what to do.
Last year, he was pulled over at 3am by a state trooper for speeding at 95 MPH in a 25 MPH zone, roaring drunk with his then 4 YEAR OLD SON in the back seat. My brother and sister were removed from my mom's care because the state considered her to be neglectful by leaving the kids in my mom's boyfriend's supervision. My brother went to a foster home and my sister came to my place for a month. My sister (understandably) had a mental breakdown, and since we didn't qualify to foster her (my SO has a criminal history) she had to fly all the way out to Nashville (from Oregon) to stay with our oldest sister and brother-in-law. She stayed there until just after Thanksgiving, when she flew back to Oregon. My mom had gained custody back when the state's neglect charges were found to be untrue.
My mom booted her boyfriend out for a long time, only having anything to do with him because they have a son together. But recently she has been staying with him at his grandmother's (he's 38 and leeching off of his grandma...no job, no car), and leaving my brother in his care while she has been working for the forestry service. This has left my little sister pretty much unsupervised, and though she's only 14, she's admitted dabbling into drugs and alcohol, hanging out with high school boys.
And now my mom has moved her moron boyfriend back into her house, and the minute he came within my sister's presence, he's picked a fight with her. She left, has been staying with her friend since Saturday and now mom's boyfriend is saying she can't come back. To her OWN HOUSE. Where all of her possessions are. And this is right before school begins. I can't get ahold of my mother, and my boyfriend flat out refuses to let my sister come up here because of her behavior last year.
I don't know what to do.
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