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  • I'm 13 almost 14 my ppl don't understand me my mom left my dad 9 years ago I had the life wit her and my stepdad I never had a real smile I just want to leave but keep myself in school nd church I feel like my mom don't understand me I grew up takin care of kids and seein my momma cry over a man that hit her and now I leave school to feel like a normal person but all she do is call me a thot or wore I'm use to pain but her words don't hurt me I just can't take it and I'm 100 %I maybe leave tonight I need to think bout it cuz I do care bout her feeelins

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      Thanks for reaching out to us NRS we understand that you are going through a really difficult time. Please know that you can always reach out us and have a conference call with your mom. It would be a good way of communicating with her. It gives you a shot at being honest and getting the way you feel about the situation clearly to her. Another possible option is to find an adult to speak with your mom and have communication with her about the situation. We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
      Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
      If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
      Be safe,
      NRS

  • I wish I could move out my parents don’t understand how hard school is and how much pain I feel. I want a fresh start! Maybe not bring them along. I want to go where no one knows me and I can leave my whole family behind. I have thought about killing my self but I can’t help think it might get better in the future. My life is hell it always has been. Im a nobody.

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      Hey there,
      Thanks for reaching out, it sounds like you are feeling a lot of pain, and we want you to know there are people who care about you. It seems like you are going through things at school and at home which is tough to deal with. However we care about you and hopefully we can give you the help you need; and yes it does get better but it can take a while.
      First off it’s understandable that while going through these feelings that you want to get away and do a fresh start. If you don’t’ want help from your parents for a fresh start it might be very hard and you will want to have a good plan. If you want to try convincing them to help it might be helpful to transfer to a different school which could give you a fresh start there. It may be harder to have a fresh start at home, but with some work and maybe some help it could be done. If you call in we can look for family counseling services, or personal services if you wanted. In order to run away and leave your parents they would have to file a runaway report with the police. That is not a criminal offence. Meaning if the police find you they would only bring you home. You may also want to think of where you will go. A shelter will usually have to tell your parents where you are if you stay with them. A friend, or other family member might be a place you could go, at least for a little bit. If you have more questions about this please call us and we can answer any questions.
      You mentioned that you feel like a nobody, and have considered killing yourself. Nobody should feel like a nobody, and you aren’t a nobody. There are others who feel like killing themselves too, and many who have felt similar to you. There is a website called To Write Love On Her Arms, twloha.com, that has stories from others who have felt like you, and how their lives have gotten better over time and their stories. If you feel like those feelings are getting worse and you need immediate help please call the suicide prevention lifeline at 1-800-273-8255, or visit them at suicidepreventionlifeline.org
      We are here for you if you want to talk, or if you have other questions. It seems like you are going through a lot and we want to support you so that you can feel like somebody. We can also answer any specific questions on the phone or on online chats at 1-800-RUNAWAY.

  • I hate my family i always will and can someone help me get out of this house and take me and i want to live with someone. im only 12 i need to leave this family and school i need a better life my parents fights and fuss alot they hate another my dad always hurting me.. i want a new family white family i need love.
    Last edited by ccsmod5; 02-15-2019, 01:54 PM.

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      Hi,
      Thank you so much for reaching out. It sounds like home has been a stressful place for you. It’s unfair that you are in the middle of your parents fighting and fussing and hating each other. You deserve to live in a home that is safe and supportive. That sort of negativity can be a lot to bear and it’s totally understandable that you would want to separate yourself from this situation. In your message, you write that your dad is “always hurting” you. We were not certain what your situation is, but you do not deserve to be abused in any way. If you ever feel like you are in danger, you can call 9-1-1. Before going forward, we do want to share that we are mandated reporters of abuse; as your post did have some personal information, we believed it was the safest option to report to CPS. If you have questions about abuse reporting and what might happen, you can call Child Help at 1-800-422-4453. Your safety is our top priority. If you are not safe at home, you might consider staying somewhere else, like with a friend or another family member. If you need help asking your parents for permission to stay somewhere else, we are happy to arrange a conference call. If you need help finding a place to stay or figuring out your next steps, feel free to call us at 1-800-786-2929. Stay strong and stay safe!
      --NRS

  • I’m 13

    i live with with a family that doesn’t give me love. But sometimes they sometimes show it but later on they leave you. I’m a step family member. I already knew that my step family won’t give a ******** about me when I was 11. Nobody cares about me. The only thing they care about is money and their self. They won’t care about me cuz they think that I’m just a happy child who has no problem. Like I do I really do and all I want is just to LEAVE. But I can’t cuz my mother doesn’t want me to leave and the reason why she doesn’t want me to leave is because she wants to use me for money. Like as I get a job when I turn 14 then she’s gonna use the money that I earn then later on she will beg for money like using an excuse. Like all I want is just LOVE from my step family but they don’t show it to me. All they care is money and their self. But when it comes to my brother they treat him like he’s family to them and ********. Like I see it with my eyes. But I’m not jealous of him it’s just that I’m just hurt them treating me differently.

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      Hi, thank you for reaching out to the National Runaway Safeline. We’re sorry to hear what you’re going through with your step family. Everyone deserves to feel loved and accepted at home. It’s understandable that you’re hurt and frustrated with your current situation.
      Have you tried to talk to your family about how you feel, including your brother? He or a friend might be able to talk to your family with you and support you in how you’re feeling. It also might be helpful to talk to a trusted teacher or guidance counselor at school and ask them for advice.
      Finally, you can call us anytime at 1-800-RUNAWAY (1-800-786-2929) or chat with us online at www.1800runaway.org. We are here for you 24/7 and completely confidential. Best of luck with everything.

  • im currently 17 about to turn 18 in 1 month and nine days. i was living in a small town in pa trying to pursue and dance career however i felt so preasured and stressed about trying to succeed that i felt like i needed a break. just for like two weeks but the day after i started my break my parents called and said they were in town to pick me up because my grandma was in the hospital. she was in fact not and shes doing just well so i was hecken ticked. i found out from someone else that my parents had brought me back to ohio for good and im hecken ticked. like they werent even planning on telling me themselves. but they said they brought me home because i wasnt focusing on dance enough and because i was participating in too much "risky behavior" aka walking by myself. but now im home and they said that i cant dance anymore and that im to go to college for nursing or business and i can do neither of them. and act score of a measly 23 isnt going to get me very far and i dont even have any will power to fo either of those. but they want me to go to the local college and wont let me take a half scholarship to Princetons trainee program because they dont have dorms. and they wont let me go to the american ballet theatres program nyc because they dont have housing and two summers ago when i got in the first time my mother said shed put down my dog if i went to it so that never happened. but this year ill be 18 and i still cant go. but "i cant dance anyways." but i had a job there working at chipotle and i loved it i was gettinf $2 over minimum wage and i was working as many hours as i could and i was saving all of my money but my parents wanted me to quit because they didnt like the people (theyve never met them in their lives). but they said i need to get a practical job, hence why i cant dance anymore. but they said i need a real job and not chipotle but i have no clue what a real job is for a 17 year old. but im trying to be transferred from my old chipotle to a new chipotle but my father told me (less than two hours ago) that he had called the pa chipotle and told them that i was on a medical leave of absence but the managers know what is really going on so i have no clue whats happening there. (side story: im really close to the service managers and theyre both very kind and weve become good friends since i started there and i confine in one of them so he knows everything thats happening). but i have no clue if i can be transferred now but i was planning to work at chipotle in the morning and then working at a neighboring store during the night so i can make as much money as possible because id like to move out as soon as i turn 18. my parents are just so controlling its been like that since freshman year and i hate it so much. i know theyre doing everything out of their love for me but this is over kill. i didnt even choose to go to the dance school in pa my mother chose it. but they're complaining about not knowing my friends there and says they dont want me to hang out with them but they have had so many opportunities to meet them theyve just never chosen to. and theyre just trying to keep me here to protect me and keep me safe from "the bad things of the world" but its doing nothing everything is everywhere they cant keep me sheltered forever. theyre just inprisioning me and making me miserable. i felt so alone in high school and had so many situational friendships and it was the same at ballet. but when i was in pa people would actually invite me to hangout with them and so stuff outside of work and ballet and i loved it i even got a boyfriend and i was so happy but theyre taking it away from me and its so frustrating. but they drew the line for me when they said they were going to put new locks on the old apartment door so i can never go back. that is the most absurd thing i have ever heard them say there are 6 other people living there and my parents dont even own the place and they want to change the locks. i can easily just ask someone to let me in or even just find a new place

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      ccsmod7 commented
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      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this frustrating time.

      You mentioned you have just over a month and week until you turn 18- it is good that you are already planning out how you are going to live on your own and how you are going to support yourself. It can be stressful when things in your life don’t go as planned, so it is important that you practice self-care in one form or another. It sounds like you have a few people in your life that you are confiding in, it is great that you have a support system in place.

      We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance.
      Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org

      If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
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