I'm 13, I hate my family and I want to leave.

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Hello,
Thank you for writing to us here at the National Runaway Safeline.

We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. Legally you would need your parent’s permission to live outside the home.

We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to or seek emergency assistance immediately.

Take care,
NRS

Im 13 can i move to my friends house with her parents

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Hi there,
Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now. It sounds like you’re fearing that the situation may end in suicide if things don’t change. Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255); www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org is also a great resource to reach out to in addition to our crisis services.
Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
We hope to hear from you soon.
Be safe and stay strong,
NRS

I recently just turned 13 on the 22nd and I just wanna leave this stupid family. My mom is just so ugh. She stresses me out to the point where I don’t even wanna live anymore. She’s always yelling at me and cursing at me for no reason. Especially when it comes to school work. She always gets on me about missing assignments but it’s just so overwhelming and it’s too much to handle. I get distracted easily. I’m struggling and I can’t focus and it’s just so hard and when I when I told her this all she could do is take my phone away like that’s going to help. You know I even thought about overdosing on Benadryl. I just can’t do this anymore.

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Hi there,

We're very sorry you are having a rough time with most of your family, especially your brother. It sounds like you feel you are being treated unfairly, which is definitely very frustrating. We are here to help in whatever way we can.

One idea would be to try to get your older sister to help you. Perhaps both of you could, as a team, approach your parents and see if they take your complaints more seriously. Maybe your parents will listen and intervene so that your brother doesn't mistreat you so much. Another option would be to talk to a school counselor or teacher about what is going on and seeing if they can help in some way.

Although you're going through a difficult time right now and it seems like the world is harsh and cruel, please know that things can and almost certainly WILL get better. Sometimes it's just a matter of asking for more help from those closest to you that you trust. Please remember that if you are ever in immediate danger you can dial 911. If you ever want to talk about suicidal feelings you can call 1-800-273-8255.

Of course, you can always call us to talk about things. Our number is 1-800-RUNAWAY and we are open 24/7 and are confidential. You can also chat with us via our website at www.1800runaway.org.

Please take care of yourself and stay safe.

NRS

I've just turn 12, I'm the youngest in my family and i hate them more then anything

I'm so very sorry for all the things that happened and my situation may not be so bad as it is but, my games are the only thing I care about, i have friends on their that I've spent a long time with to imagine the fact i would care more about then my own family, i hate my brother so much and probably the most, he has a anger-issues which makes my family think they can always let him have have a little punishments, he eats all the food, and doesn't clean unless it benefits him, he also causes lots of problems like yelling, fighting, and so on [...] he thinks he can boss me around sense I'm younger then him which is very annoying, my mother took away almost everything i desired for my so called little kid needs, my games, my phone everything, just because she was mad at me for wanting to talk to her about something i felt uncomfortable with and i had to be in the bathroom because I knew she would start hitting things. and I have a step-father that tell her everything that he sees without even thinking on what's really going on, the only person I think actually cares about me is my eldest sister and she the only one that actually understands me, and she's leaving in a few months I hate everything so much and I have nothing to really live for anymore, and yet i can't do it because I'm to scared to I wanna live someone else I've tried but people think I'm to young to even be talking by myself.. I've really had lived in this world to have a small glimpse of how harsh and cruel this world really is

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Hi there,
Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.
The easiest way to leave home is with your parents' permission. We understand that might be challenging, however, maybe there’s another family member, relative, or a family friend who could help to communicate how you’re feeling to your parents. The second way is through Child Protective Services if safety is a concern. Lastly, you can also look into emancipation options. In most states you need to be at least 16 to be considered and demonstrate that you can support yourself financially and independently. Emancipation often can be a lengthy process and may even cost some money for court fees. We would be happy to look into legal resources if that’s something you are considering.
We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button). If you would like to look into further emotional support options, you can text with a crisis worker at the National Alliance on Mental Illness 24/7 by texting "NAMI" to 741741.
If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
Be safe,
NRS

Someone please help me! My mom and dad are mentally crazy and I want to leave! I want to have a new home. They act drunk every second and don’t care about me. This isn’t a feeling, I’m 13 and I want to live somewhere else. What can I do to get away from my parents?

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Hi there,
Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now. It sounds like you’re fearing that the situation may end in suicide if things don’t change. Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255); www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org is also a great resource to reach out to in addition to our crisis services.
Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

We hope to hear from you soon.

I'm 12 and I hate my life because of my family/********ty dad and brother

i want to leave and i have attempted to before but somehow my parents always find me, i hate everything, mt school, my toys and my family. my parents have a fight about money or gaming everyday and i've thought of suicide. i think of ways to kill myself with no pain, but mos. ways are illegal. my parents love my brother and they hate me. he is 5 years younger than me but he has a giant mac, switch, ipad and a tablet. all i have is a used mac that is almost broken and 3 years old. my parents never give me anything, the only time i get stuff is from friends and other relatives that live in korea. my dad thought of divorce today and i think that they might actually do it. i have good friends but not a best friend, everyone thinks i'm the one that always smiles and laughs because i don't like to show emotion at school. i don't think they will help so i don't even bother, and my teachers despise me, i always try my best but they always tell me its not good enough even though i get the highest grades and score in any test at any time. my brother is always stealing what is most precious to me and if he does something bad , he blames me and because my parents adore him, they trust him. yesterday i got hit by a lighter because my MOM told my brother that my dad does smoking and he didn't want my brother to know and my mom told him so i got hit and hurt. i like gaming and anime because i can escape reality and be happy, but now my parents wont let me do anything any more, and they are going to take my mac book soon, so i'm going to have no way to escape my miserable life. i want to die and run away but i'm afraid of the money, i don't want to die a painful death by starvation so now i choose to wait until im 15 so i can get a job and save money then runaway to another country of just another city and buy a cheap apartment and go to school and become an architect.

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Hi there,
Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It seems there is a lot that you are faced with right now and you’re feeling like leaving is one of your only options. It seems you want to know some information on runaway laws.
While we are not experts on the law, 18 is generally the age that an individual may leave home without parent permission. If you are under 18 and leave home, your parent/guardian may file you as a runaway and you may be returned home. Also, those you stay with may run the risk of being charged with harboring a runaway. For more specifics on the law, the local non-emergency police or legal aid may better answer legal questions.
We are here as support to help through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email to assist you. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.
Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
Be safe,
NRS

im 13 and my family hates me because im not good at maths and are currently discussing to kick me out. i hate my life.

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Hi there,

Thank you for contacting us here at NRS and we appreciate you sharing your situation with us. It can definitely be stressful or overwhelming when the adults at home are not being supportive. It is not okay for your parents to talk down to you or treat you in a way that makes you feel unwanted. While it seems your parents are fulfilling their obligation to financially support you, you deserve to be emotionally supported as well. Reaching out for help was a really great first step to getting any support you may need.

A helpful step is to start reaching out to friends and family members you might be able to stay with. We understand that talking to parents about issues at home or wanting to leave can be incredibly difficult. Sometimes having an adult on your side to advocate for you and mediate the conversation can make it easier. Perhaps an adult family member, a friend's parent or a counselor at school can talk to your parents with you about your experience at home and the possibility of you leaving. Having a support system during tough situations is also really important. Letting other people know what you are going through can be a way to get more support while coping with it.

It is a strength that you are able to identify what is causing you harm at home and where your emotional needs are not being met. Your parents are not right to use this against you or to guilt-trip you. We truly want to be a support for you as you decide on your next steps. We are available 24/7 to listen and help as much as possible. Please do not hesitate to reach out again by phone or chat if you would like to talk more in-depth about your situation and explore your options. You can contact us by phone at 1-800-786-2929 or use our live chat services at www.1800runaway.org.

-NRS

I’m 14, and i have a toxic relationship with my parents.


My parents are so toxic, they make me feel like i’m not good enough for them. My mother always blames me for EVERYTHING, and whenever she is in the wrong she always guilt trips me saying something along the lines of “i know you hate me” or “i know i’m a horrible mother”, and other times she gangs up with my father to make fun of me. But when i get mad about it, they yell at me saying “you’re so ungrateful” or “you are a hateful b*tch” and it makes me feel horrible. I’m so sick and tired of it. But i can’t talk to them about it because they’ll both just blame it on me and say it’s my fault. My mom told me once that she wanted someone else to adopt me, that really hurt. But at the same time they do a lot for me, they pay for my school, my food and the house and i know if i wanted to run away or go with another family they would use that against me. So i don’t know what to do but i don’t want to live with them anymore. Please help or give me options, Thank you.

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Hi there,
Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like things are very stressful between you and you dad right now. It might be a good idea to look into some family counseling or have a third party help you mediate what is going on with your horses. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
We hope to hear from you soon.
Be safe, NRS